well we like to go to the movies, mall, talk on aim, watch movies at home, stay up late, listen to music, go to the mall, chill with friends, do this help thinger, partyyyyyy, sleeeeep, swim, ymca, gymnastic stuff, and you can i.m us jill- jilliix3 rach- x0xrach3lann3x0x
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hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this (link)
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its deff. not a baby u wouldnt be able to feel it.. its impossable and you should take a preg test to be sure and if u dont get your period for a while take another preg test or go see a doctor. *jiLl and raCh
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I did gymnastics at one gym for 4 years. Then I switched to another gym because I didn't like the gym I was at. So then I go to one practice at this gym, only me and my friend from school showed up. I liked it then. Then the other night I went for the second practice. I didn't like it. There was a bunch of people and I like smaller groups and I could just hear them whispering about me and I wasn't comfortable with that. So now that I told my mom I just wanted to quit and then she says I need to go to the mental hospital because I can't make up my mind and that I need to go see a therapist and that I am not going on our school trip to Canada in May BECAUSE I WANT TO QUIT! Why spend money on gymnastics if I am not having fun there?! I really want to go to Canada with my school but she won't let me now! And I have to go to a mental hospital cuz I can't make up my mind?!! WTF. Seriously. I wish she would just go fucking live somewhere else FAR away so I never have to see her EVER again. She makes my life fucking MISERABLE. Now I have to go see a therapist, again! I want to die, or I want her to die. ITS NO FAIR. Wtf do I do? (link)
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well it seems like your mom has something wrong with her. you dont. you should go to the theripest and tell them that and tell them your mom needs help not you. *jiLl and raCh
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My parents might get a divorce. And i feel like i should do somthing to try and save their marriage. Is there anyone who has gone through the same problems that i am and can help? (link)
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well my mom and dad got a divorce and it was really hard. and i could give you ideas but im not sure you can do anything about it. but i could help you i.m me jilliix3 *jill and rach
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i am going out with this lad, but i am in love with his best mate. what shalli do? (link)
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well you should talk to him best mate and see if he actually likes you. and if he does and u like him more go with him. But if he doesnt love you id stay with your lad! *jiLl and raCh
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well i met this guy after soccer practice and we hugn out after and we spend spring break together. he was really sweet and we ended up hooking up. on our first month. of knowing each other (i'm 14 hes 16 freshman sophmore) neways.. well after a while we ende up going out. but he was homeschooled then so we didnt see much of each other but we still did.. i broke up wtih him after a week.. but stillhad feelings'.. we both did.. and the bad thingg is that we always ende u seeying each other. and it was awkward. we hooked up a few times after we broke up. and hes' spend the night at my house afew times and we hang out a lot now. and talk on the phone. i'm so confused idk wat i should do. i've known him for like 6 motnhs now. and i think i should find someone new. but when i do.. all i can think of is him.. we both havent hooked up with anyone else except each other..sunce we've known each other.. idk .. waht todo.. (link)
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well id try going back out with him and seeing if there really is anything there. it seems like there is because you can only thing about him. so what i would do is go back out with him and see if it workds and if it doesnt try to find someone new. *jiLl
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SORRY ITS LONG
There's this guy I've known for a really long time. We were best friends when we were babies, toddlers, all the way up to second grade. He came to my house every day and we were almost inseperable. But in second grade he moved away. Not far away, just the other side of town. But I didn't get to see him as much because we didn't really hang out as much at school as we did at home. And then summer came, and I didn't see him at all. So comes third grade...and we just....aren't talking. We didn't fight, nothing happened, we just seemed...apart. Since then I haven't talked to him much even though the memories I have of him are really strong and really wonderful.
My question is....why did he forget about me? And since we're apart, how can I become his friend again? And why hasn't he thought about becoming my friend again, after all the good times? (link)
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just becuase he hasnt talked to you doesnt mean he has forgotton about you. maybe you guys have grown apart. try callin him an talkin to him about things and what happen im here if you need to talk -rach
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what happened when a guy gets an erection? can he get one from making out? (link)
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all guys are differnt -rach and jill
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Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not. (link)
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well dont tell him straight to his face that hes cute give it some tym and talk to him for awhile then flirt with him a lil and then mayb tell him hes cute -rach and jill
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What should i do ? if people thought u were crazy or ur friend was crazy ? Because they cut there self? and tryed killing your self (link)
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i really dont understand your question but i have a friend who cuts and that shit.. but i just try to be there for that person as much as i can -rach and jill
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hey ok i'm a 13/f and i'm on my period right now.. but i have a lil problem.. my tampon keeps falling out in a way if that makes sense.. please help!! lol (link)
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umm mayb you didnt put it up far enough? im not sure really what to say .. have you talked to you mother about it? i.m me x0xrach3lann3x0x for more info - rach and jill
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Hi. I'm a flaming homosexual and I love a 12 year old female but I'm 17. What should I do? (link)
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well this is rachel and i new you liked her.. but you dont know her well enough to love her and your 17 shes 12 almost 13 thats a 5 year differnce and im not really sure thats what you want or even she wants. you know where to find me if you need to talk! -rach
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i was just wonderin... well i just got my period for the first time yesterday and i wanted to know how many pads your supposed to go trough it one day? (link)
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i usally change mine everytime i go to the bathroom but it might be differnt for everyone!
-rach and jill
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okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers! (link)
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did your mom see it? well if they ask i would say you just have it there for when your ready because you should always be prepared. if u need any help i.m me x0xrach3lann3x0x - rach and jill
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Hey there. I started dating my best friend a while ago, you just moved here from Toronto, and he doesn't tell me a whole lot about his life back then. Anyways, we started having sex a couple of monthes ago. I'm on birth control so we don't use condoms, because we both hate them. Anyways, in october i got two infections, and was really sick for a week. I couldn't get out of bed, and i was in pain. I had an yeast infection and urinary tract infection. I went to my doctor, she gave me a lot of medicine. whatever, i got better, continued on with our way of things. Anyways, now in december, i seem to have another infection. I'm thinking it might be yeast infection but i don't know. It's different. He says he hasn't had sex before me, but with all these infection that i get, could he have, or could it be my birth control? (link)
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either hes lying or its the pills. id have his use a condom even though u guys dont like them i think you wouldnt get infections. thats just my opinion *jiLl and raCh
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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to (link)
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its really great that you want to use birth control and a condom.. but if your ready than do it and besudes you really dont need to tell your parents about getting birth control, theres ways not to have them know. and as long as your ready they shouldnt mind as long as they know your being safe by using a condom and the pill.. */rach and jill
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ok i know this isn't exactly sex related, but it's close enough. today i was putting on deodorant, and accidently got some on my chest. as i was going to rub it off, i notice that my right nipple was a different texture than my left-it felt like, rougher. also, the area surrounding it felt almost numb. is this normal?? i've never noticed anything like this before, but then again i don't often feel my chest that often, so i don't know if it's normal or not. any help would be greatly appreciated!! thanks so much (link)
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i really dont know what to say because that really never happened to me.. or i just dont motice because i dont look really. you should tell your mom she should know or if she doesnt, or you dont want to tell your mom go ask a doctor.
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i am gay, and i liek to have sex with other men...but my dick gets covered with shiet from their ass...and they wont clean their ass holes...how can i change their minds?
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well im a girl so i dont worry about that but in your situation if they dont clean themselves then i wouldnt even have sex with them.. not to be rude or anything but thats just gross!! and for them to change there minds you should tell them how gross it is and that might make them think differntly! -rach and jill
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No rude comments like the last time, but heres my situation. my bf had to get tested for a sperm count and it turns out that he has a low sperm count or is possibly infertile. We had sex a few days ago and while we were, his condom broke. He didnt cum yet though and he pulled right out and put on a new one. My question is, after hearing about everything related to this. Do you think theres a chance I could be pregnant? All info would help or anyone ever being in the 'broken condom' situation. Thanx. (link)
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well if your not really sure .. you might want to get a preg. test just to be sure and its great that he pulled out and put on a new one hes being carful.. but the best way to be sure is if you maybe get a test, -rach and jill
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Ive been with my boyfriend for along time and he wants to have sex and i dont no i love him soo much and he loves me i no he does and everytime we r together its soo perfect and he said hes not guna force me but he thinks this will lock r relationship and then we ll be together forever and ii rele think hes telin the truth...should i do it?
Sexually confused.. (link)
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you should only have sex if your ready.. and if u r use a condom or the pill or something.. you dont want to be unsafe. if you really love him and you know he loves you and your ready then you should *jiLl and raCh
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i dont want to sound stupid when i say this but im 14/f and me and my b/f have been together over a year now and well i havnt done anything besides kiss him, see ive never done anything with anyone and well lets just say i have what usto be a "sex god" for a bf until he got with me. I want to do somthing like give him a hand job or blow job because as much as he tells me he doesnt mind i know he does. im just wondering... how? i mean what do you do while your giving and hand job? what do you look at? how do you do it? i dont wanna totaly suck at it and i wanna know what im doing before i try it!! please anything? any tips? advise? anything?
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well if your bf says he doesnt mind mayb he doesnt but youve been together for awhile and its not to hard to give a hand job.. i.m for deatails x0xrach3lann3x0x .. -rach and jill
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