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The Forgotten Friend
SORRY ITS LONG
There's this guy I've known for a really long time. We were best friends when we were babies, toddlers, all the way up to second grade. He came to my house every day and we were almost inseperable. But in second grade he moved away. Not far away, just the other side of town. But I didn't get to see him as much because we didn't really hang out as much at school as we did at home. And then summer came, and I didn't see him at all. So comes third grade...and we just....aren't talking. We didn't fight, nothing happened, we just seemed...apart. Since then I haven't talked to him much even though the memories I have of him are really strong and really wonderful.
My question is....why did he forget about me? And since we're apart, how can I become his friend again? And why hasn't he thought about becoming my friend again, after all the good times?
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He might not have forgotten about you he just might not be interested in the same things that he used to be and he might think that you are. Time can change people alot.
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Sweetie, people grow up. The exact same thing happend to me. In fourth grade, my best friend and me were seperated into different classes for the first time, and well, we stopped talking and we still hardly do. What happens is, you lose contact because since you were seperated, even by him just moving across town. He's made new friends and started hanging out with them more and not you. And he's been with them, that's the reason he forgot. And he probably has thought about being friends, but after what has happend. He's scared that you might be mad at him for not being there all the years and having just suddonly pooped up again. Just approach him yourself. Don't wait for a guy to make the first move. They always talk about how woman want equal rights. But the thing is, if they have equal rights, why can't a man hit a woman but a man can hit a man? And why can't a woman do what men have done for so long, like ask them out, or talk to them about being friends, or ask them to hang out? It makes no sence. I'm sorry. I'm babbling. I hope I did help though. Good luck!!! ~Ashy!~
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just becuase he hasnt talked to you doesnt mean he has forgotton about you. maybe you guys have grown apart. try callin him an talkin to him about things and what happen im here if you need to talk -rach
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Well maybe he thought you didn't want to be friends with him? If you see him now--just start talking to him about maybe how fun it was when you were little. Ask him if he remembers. Tell him you remember really well and you were sad that you guys haven't talked in awhile. Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. Just keep in touch with him, and hopefully you'll guys will be friends again ♥
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