ok i met this guy off buddypic a while back and hes got a salute and a lot of pictures so i know its him for sure and we talk on the phone and stuff....well he wants to meet me next weekened and hes already talking about fucking me in the car next weekend....hes like oh well have SO much fun....i have a boyfriend though of 5 months...and we promised to NEVER cheat on eachother..and me and my boyfriend havent even fucked..should i do this??
MummuM answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:04 am: You should definitely not meet him. First, he's talking about fucking you in his car? That shows one thing right there. He probably only wants sex from you. If I were you, I wouldn't risk losing a boyfriend of 5 months over a guy you met off an internet site.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
BabyBlue848 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 10:40 pm: Well hes probably just kidding about the fucking but I dont think you should but if you do take a couple of friends with you and make sure each one or all the ones that have on bring there cell phone that would probably be best [ BabyBlue848's advice column | Ask BabyBlue848 A Question ]
GankstaDesirez answered Saturday January 8 2005, 9:49 pm: Wow. Look and see what u said, and i want you to realize everything that is completely wrong with this situation. Number one, your boyfriend would be pretty distressed if he knew that you were even CONSIDERING meeting some guy you dont even know. Number two, He may not be all he says he is, and for you to be thinking, or contemplating...is honestly horrible. You could end up getting hurt, physically and emotionally. This guy could be a maniacal ass, which it seems to me that he is when he's talking about fuckin you in the car. And your boyfriend could find out, and lose all trust in you, break up with you, and possibly never talk to u again. You need to think of the consquences. [ GankstaDesirez's advice column | Ask GankstaDesirez A Question ]
IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Saturday January 8 2005, 8:13 pm: Think about what you just said, YOU MET THIS GUY OFF THE INTERNET, HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU, YO U PROMISED NOT TO CHEAT ON YOUR BF! you are a total backstabber. stop being such a fucking slut!
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jAyMiLyNnE answered Saturday January 8 2005, 6:56 pm: hun... i wouldnt... i mean you dont even really know this other guy and you have a boyfriend... does he no bout this guy? i dont think you should do anything with the guy... i'm sorry. its cool if you go n meet him but dont do anything... [ jAyMiLyNnE's advice column | Ask jAyMiLyNnE A Question ]
dancinqueen08 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 6:33 pm: No. One cheating is the worst thing you could do to a person. You lose the person's trust and you can never regain it. Two who knows how this guy is. He could be some crazy kidnapper and kill you when you go see him. Meeting guys from online is the worst idea ever. That is basically asking to be killed or raped. [ dancinqueen08's advice column | Ask dancinqueen08 A Question ]
BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Saturday January 8 2005, 5:43 pm: NO the gy online wants to have sex with you if hes already talking bout it, he just wants to get some and be able to say he did that... dont go for it becuase u will get hurt and then like what are you even thinking? you have had your boyfriend for 5 months? do you not care about his feelings? were you going to keep this from him... get off the computer and go figure out who the hell you are [ BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS's advice column | Ask BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 5:26 pm: Nope, don't do it. You promised you wouldn't cheat. Think if he cheated on you, how would you feel? Besides, I think the guy online is just looking for sex. I mean, he's already talking about it. Just tell him you can't meet him, and say you have a bf and you just want to be friends. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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crazyblonde0514 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 4:51 pm: Ummmm no... this guy sounds like a sick freak to me. No offense. If all he is talking about is fucking you, then he isn't a guy you should want to be with, or even have as a friend. I don't know the whole situaion but to me it sounds like he could be some psychopath who just wants to get into your pants. I know you've probably been told this a million and two times but no matter what i wouldn't reccomend meeting someone who've you met online. It's not safe and espcially this guy, he just sounds like a creep. You already sound as if you are considering messing around with him... well if you are going to meet him, don't do anything with him. You have aboyfriend, and you should respect him. Don't forget there are tons of diseases out there!!! But if you do decide to meet up with the dude, then be safe and smart hunny! Use your best judgement on this one! [ crazyblonde0514's advice column | Ask crazyblonde0514 A Question ]
Advice_x33 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 3:47 pm: no..if you really like your boyfriend, you wouldnt cheat on him..you definitely should not go with this other guy..you dont know what he might do [ Advice_x33's advice column | Ask Advice_x33 A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday January 8 2005, 3:25 pm: Definitely DO NOT meet him. Have you ever considered that he could be a rapist? Lets just say that you did meet him, were you going to have sex with him? Don't meet a boy just because he wants to have sex. Just don't meet this guy because you don't even know him that well, since you've only been talking to him on the phone. Hope I helped :)
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DrAnqel answered Saturday January 8 2005, 3:22 pm: think of the consequences, he could turn out to be something hes not, and your boyfriend will hate you, and who knows what else could happen. I'm not saying you shouldn't go, but you need to think about it, maybe bring a couple friends just in case. Good luck, be safe, don't have sex with that guy before your boyfriend. Hope I helped. -Angel [ DrAnqel's advice column | Ask DrAnqel A Question ]
x0_Blink182_Fan answered Saturday January 8 2005, 3:15 pm: Abosluty Not...that guy sounds like a complet skeez bag...If you only talk to him on the phone you dont know the true him...i would not go..he could be a rapist for all you know [ x0_Blink182_Fan's advice column | Ask x0_Blink182_Fan A Question ]
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