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Hiya

Hey, my name is Ashley. Yes, I know. Most people wouldn't give out their name on the internet. But I am a very open person. And if anyone needs help. I will try to help the best I can. I have had a lot of experiences in the past and have learned from them. If I don't know an answer to your question. I will ask someone who will know or tell you someone else you can ask. But, most questions, I should be able to answer. *Purrs* ^___^

Thanks,
~Ashy!~

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I have really bad dandruff on the back of my head and there are like yellow spots on my scalp there

is there any way i can take care of this????


thanksss

Well, for one, go to the store, any pharmacy and ask about dandruff shampoo's. Or if that doesn't work, there is a skin condition called emphazema (not sure of spelling) and you might have to see a doctor. Hope I helped!

~ASH~

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Okay, there is this really hot guy in my science class. I know that he knows I like him, but I dont think he likes me. How can I find out without having
one of my friends ask for me?

Why not go up to him yourself? Woman are always saying they want equal rights but they expect men to do all the work still. Like with dating. They always expect the man to go up to the female. I am a girl, and I've asked every one of my boyfriends out. Truely, I have. Hope I helped! ~Ashy!~

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I have this friend (lets call her amy) and she always gets mad at me for nothing and I dont no what to do because we do a lot of stuff together but with her I cant say the wrong this or shell FLIP i dont wanna say like stuff to make her even more mad .. Sometimes I dont even think she is my friend because she takes it ALL OUT ON ME. What should I do ? HELP!!
--confused

Confused. Well, if she flips out at you for the smallest things, have you tried to talk to her about it? If you have and it didn't resolve things, it might be best to chosing your words wisely or maybe hang out with her less. It sounds hard, but if you want to stay friends with her, it might be the best thing to try. And if it still doesn't work out, why bother being friends? I'm sure you have others. Hope I helped! ~Ashy!~

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Is it wrong for people to have cyber sex when they are in love with someone else? and what are your view of people having sex as friends.. like in real life.. just friends like fuckbuddies?

It depends on the situation. For instance, in my opinion, if you need a release and you can't get it from cybering with the one you love, then yes, it is alright to find someone else. But if you are already getting what you want from the person you love, why would you cyber with someone else? What is the point? Cybering isn't meant to be for fun. It's meant as a release. Like pornography, it's used to help someone who is masturbating to have an orgasm.
And about the casual sex between friends (csbf), no. Actually, I am highly against csbf. Because why would you need that when you have your own fingers and hands to use to be able to release. And yes, some people find it a lot better and easier to have sex with someone instead of maturbating. But most people find masturbating alright. This is just my opinion, so feel free to ask someone else this question. Hope I helped! ~Ashy!~

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SORRY ITS LONG

There's this guy I've known for a really long time. We were best friends when we were babies, toddlers, all the way up to second grade. He came to my house every day and we were almost inseperable. But in second grade he moved away. Not far away, just the other side of town. But I didn't get to see him as much because we didn't really hang out as much at school as we did at home. And then summer came, and I didn't see him at all. So comes third grade...and we just....aren't talking. We didn't fight, nothing happened, we just seemed...apart. Since then I haven't talked to him much even though the memories I have of him are really strong and really wonderful.
My question is....why did he forget about me? And since we're apart, how can I become his friend again? And why hasn't he thought about becoming my friend again, after all the good times?

Sweetie, people grow up. The exact same thing happend to me. In fourth grade, my best friend and me were seperated into different classes for the first time, and well, we stopped talking and we still hardly do. What happens is, you lose contact because since you were seperated, even by him just moving across town. He's made new friends and started hanging out with them more and not you. And he's been with them, that's the reason he forgot. And he probably has thought about being friends, but after what has happend. He's scared that you might be mad at him for not being there all the years and having just suddonly pooped up again. Just approach him yourself. Don't wait for a guy to make the first move. They always talk about how woman want equal rights. But the thing is, if they have equal rights, why can't a man hit a woman but a man can hit a man? And why can't a woman do what men have done for so long, like ask them out, or talk to them about being friends, or ask them to hang out? It makes no sence. I'm sorry. I'm babbling. I hope I did help though. Good luck!!! ~Ashy!~

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ok well i dont eat anything really... i would say im becoming anerexiox. i know its not good for you but does it mmake you lose weight?

Truthfully, no it does not make you lose weight. It actually will make you gain weight if you start eating more. If you start eating more, you will gain a lot more. Because, what happens when you stop eating is your body doesn't think you're getting enough nutrition so what happens is your metabilism slows down a lot and less of your food is processed into engery and fat. It will stay in your little belly for a long time until it gets processed. If you start eating more, yes, it will gain you some weight (And if you are anorexic, you should gain weight) but, after a while, if you excersize, and eat healthy and drink lots of water. Your metabilism might go back to normal and you will stay a nice good, healthy weight. I hope I answered your question without confusing you! Ask me more about it if you'd like. I've gone through that. I stopped eating completely for about 2 months once. ~Ashy!~

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hey i am going to formal soon and i got a dress and its really long down to the floor and stuff but soo pretty. and so then i find out everyone is wearing like shorter drsses like to their shins but mien is past the floor so wat do i do? i dont wanna be over dressed but i love this dress... wat wud u do

Why bother buying something different just to look like the others when you sound like you love this dress. I would wear it. Believe me, I felt out of place atmy school's Semi-Formal. I was like, the only one wearing pants. But I wore them anyways. Who knows, maybe everyone will love you dress and keep asking where you got it and everything. Go for it, girl! :D ~Ashy!~

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My friends and I might be taking a trip to New York! My crush is going on the trip too! I already told him i liked him! what should i do during the trip with my crush? any suggestions on what i should o or say to my crush?!

Just give hints towards him about things you really want to do. Spend time with him. Who knows, after the trip, he might even ask you out. Heehee. Just remember to flirt, and not to be too clingy, or he might not like that. And if you can muse up the strength, ask him how he feels about you. Good luck! ~Ashy!~

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