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I have this friend who is really mad at me or nothing
I have this friend (lets call her amy) and she always gets mad at me for nothing and I dont no what to do because we do a lot of stuff together but with her I cant say the wrong this or shell FLIP i dont wanna say like stuff to make her even more mad .. Sometimes I dont even think she is my friend because she takes it ALL OUT ON ME. What should I do ? HELP!!
--confused
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Confused, have u ever considered talking to you friend about how it is now fair the way she treats you. Hop i helped ♥ Michelle
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Confused. Well, if she flips out at you for the smallest things, have you tried to talk to her about it? If you have and it didn't resolve things, it might be best to chosing your words wisely or maybe hang out with her less. It sounds hard, but if you want to stay friends with her, it might be the best thing to try. And if it still doesn't work out, why bother being friends? I'm sure you have others. Hope I helped! ~Ashy!~
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I know EXACTLY how you feel. This situation is so simple to solve if you just think about it. First off, think of it from all angles. She is probably taking it out on you because you're her really close friend, and you do alot of things together, so she feels that no matter how mad she gets, you will always love her and you can make things better. She trusts that you can handle her anger better than anyone. A way to solve it, confront her. Again, my motto, be blunt. If you come right out and tell her she's being a bitch, and if she doesn't start treating you like the friend you are to her, then you're not gonna hang around anymore, I promise she'll think twice and treat you better. Also, let her know how much she means to you, and how much you value her friendship.
♥ Ashleigh
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Tell her that you dont like how she acts.. and tell her that you feel like she isnt your friend when she acts like a bitch towards you.. tell her thats childish what she does and tell her you dont wanna friend like that.. hope i helped.. and wasnt too mean ~*DEZ*~
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i think that you should talk to her tell her how you feel and if that doesnt work out maybe she isent your friend.<3 alex
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Have you considered that your friend has severe PMS? o_0 just give her time, she'll probably get a little better as time goes.. she'll get more mature and realize that you shouldn't make a mountain out of a molehill..
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leave her she has no wright to take all of he anger out on you so if i where you i would say see ya
hope i helped
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well if she gets mad at you for nothing... you shouldn't really be friends with her. I mean, true friends wouldn't do that. They'd understand and wouldn't FLIP. And if you actually did say the wrong thing...a real friend would want to work it out.
HoPe I HeLpEd
~GoTyOuRbAcK~
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sit down and talk to her about, maybe she going through a tuff time. Good Luck!
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It took me 3 full years of high school, and finally my senior year i found who my true friends are. Once you realize this it will make your life SO Much easier. I use to think i had to be friends with everyone... I was wrong, i only caught myself trying to please people who didn't really deserve my time, or my thoughtfullness. My best advice is to get rid of the people in your life who cause you stress and pain. Surround yourself with positive people who will always make you feel good about yourself and treat you with the same respect that you treat them and the respect that you deserve. You will find that you'll have friendships that are less full of drama and conflict, and much more gratifying and healthy!! :)
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is she going through stuff at home or is she having problems with her other friends? if that is so try and just (when you arent in a fight) say i know how you feel but dont bring up how she is getting mad- tell her is she ever needs to she can talk to you whenever. if she is just getting mad and has no reason- and you have even asked her if there is something wrong- then i would tell her she needs to seriously stop being so rude cause you deserve better! hope i helped! =) much love *brookie*
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just ask her, what's your problem? i thought we were friends! but your treating me like trash and i'm tired of it! that will show her how you are feeling and that your upset! hope this helps!
~Alyssa
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