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I have liked this guy for ages over a year and nearly all my friends have dated him. I think one still likes him. I have a strict policy not to date guys my friends liked, have liked or have dated. So I ask should I ask him out or stick to my policy?? Ps I am no glamour model
Thanx (link)
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He's dated all of your friends?! Well THAT'S promising.
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Well...at one point in time, you and I used to have a little something going on, not gonna say my name directly, because if you dont get it, well :P ON YOU TOO!!! lol, anyway, recently, I made a drastic mistake, well, drastic to the people in question anyway. This girl I've been dating, I've dated her before, but we decided to be friends, and we decided to give it another shot, 3 years later. Anyway, I started having second thoughts about the whole thing and didn't even think we'd last much longer, gut instinct thingy. So I was telling my best friend about it, and two weeks later, my girlfriend told her that we wanted to get married and all this. Well, you can imagine what had happened. I was yelled at by both parties for lying and being a "selfish immitation of my father". I was just wondering if you knew of any ways I might be able to patch this thing up, if ever, or if you're as lost as I am. From this, I probably do seem like an insensitive jack ass, but this is just the Readers Digest version of the whole thing. Whatever you can muster for an answer would be appreciated. THANKS!! Reach me at KamiMaster13@yahoo.com. Hasta Luego, Chica! (link)
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So you say you know me? Well I'm lost right there.. I might be able to help you with your problem if you share with me who you are. It would be very helpful.
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im soo horny
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Mas-tur-bate.
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I have this friend...and she is well moody very moody... like she is really awsome for like a coupal houres and then after that i cant stand her...her attitude is very snippy! her mom asks her to do a coupal of chores like once a week and she bitches non-stop! i dont know how to act towards this person anymore. she is a good friend (best) but we have our fights. i dont know weather i should keep her as a friend or drop her and just have her be someone i know? (link)
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Good question.. and hell, I know the answer, because I'm dealing with the same stupid crap as we speak. My situation is probably a bit different than yours though. Figure out what the hell the problem is, maybe you're the one being a bitch. Maybe you just think you're better than her, and maybe she just hates you Kristen.. but you never know. Like I said, keep sleeping around and maybe someone will love you, but I doubt it.
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i really like this guy...but i am afraid he wont like me and i am friends with his friends and they say he isnt into girls right now...but it feels likehe keeps flirting with me...what should i do?...should i ask him out?
ps. i rate 5's (link)
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I say go for it! The worst that will happen is he'll say no, in which case, you'll never regret not asking, and there are plenty of fish in the sea. :-p
♥ Ashleigh
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does anyone no any really good books. My mom wants me to get into reading (i hate reading) so i need a good book thatti wont hate to read!
anything will do! thanks a lot! (link)
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Well lately I've been reading the Anita Blake Vampire series by Laurell K. Hamilton. Very good books, but more for advanced readers. They're about a woman Animator, who raises the dead for investigations and deals with vampires and vampire killings. They've also got a very sexual, sensual side to them. My favorite book in the entire world is The Silver Kiss, by Anne Rice.. another romance/vampire book.. and I recently bought a book by her son, Christopher Rice called The Snow Garden. Very good books, I only suggest the best. Definately check into them.
♥ Ashleigh
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ok is it weird for girls to bite guys lips? cuz usually guys bite mine but iv never bitten theirs... and what about running my tongue across my bfs teeth when were making out? my firend told me thats good but i dont know... please help ill rate hi and if u guys have any other ideas please tell me! (link)
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The biting his lip thing, definately cute. I'm sure he'll enjoy it as long as you do it right. The licking his teeth thing, not your best choice. He might be weirded out about it, and besides.. what if he hasn't brushed his teeth? You might be eating some leftovers. Stick to the biting his lip thing, it'll drive him crazy. And another idea, suck on his tongue.. it seems to work. Not too hard.. but like, in and out of your mouth, it reminds them of something else.. lol. :-p
♥ Ashleigh
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All of a sudden, I've become EXTREMELY emotional. I just watched Titanic, and I cried and cried and cried. I watched Homeward Bound the Incredible Journey with a kid I babysat with, and when the animals came home I was choked up. What's wrong with me? 13/F (link)
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You're 13? Puberty probably. lol. It's also just emotions.. there are just times when you feel the need to cry, maybe about OTHER things.. and you let it out while watching a sad movie or such. Maybe it's because the movies are just sad! :-p Also, as you get older, and begin to understand true meanings of things in movies, you'll know you're crying because of what something really means instead of just what you think now is nothing. I cried when I saw Titanic the 3RD time, not even the first.. so it's normal.
♥ Ashleigh
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Does anyone know where i can find coca cola or Dr Pepper Bedsheets? (link)
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There's a bunch of stuff you can look at on this site.
http://www.2collectcola.com/page/ACC/CTGY/BD
♥ Ashleigh
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does anybody know where i can get music for free.. i really want to hear this song from like.. a year ago.. but i dont know where to find it?! i will rate 5s:) (link)
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BEARSHARE! It works miracles and it's free. :-p Here's a direct link to it -> http://www.download.com/BearShare/3000-2166_4-10295159.html?tag=lst-0-1
♥ Ashleigh
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I LOVE YOU PRINCESS. Theres no possible way to explain how much I LOVE YOU. I don't ever ever ever want to let you go no matter how bad we fight, no matter what may possibly come up Im always going to love you. ~KISSES HER ON HER NECK AND SAYS I LOVE YOU~ (link)
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And I love you Reggie. And no matter what happens between us, no matter how much we argue, or any stupid crap that comes our way, I'll never give up on us. You made all my dreams come true, and I'll be forever thankful for you.. we can make it through anything.. as long as we're together.
♥ Ashleigh
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Well I just need a lil advice. I got your site from a friend and i was just wondering theres this girl that I am totally in love with and I just don't know exactly how to prove it too her so i was just wondering if you could help me out PRETTY PLEASE. Thanks. (link)
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Well first, are you even with her? Do you tell her you love her? Those are things you could try. If you're not with her, ask the girl out. If you are with her, do things for her.. if you have money, buy her roses.. send her cards.. show her off and let her know you're proud of her.. let her know that you thank God everynight because you have such a beautiful woman in your life. It'll work, I know it would for me. Good luck sweety.
♥ Ashleigh
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Ok, there's this kid at my school, Drew. We sorta like each other, so on Sat. we had like, this 5 hour long convo, and we just decided to go to the Snowball together. (it's a dance). So anyway, today at school, I was telling my friends Jenny and Nicole (Nicole likes Drew) about it. Jenny was real happy for me, but I noticed Nicole just looked mad. So I just online a little bit ago, and my one friend was talking to her, and IMing me their convo, and turns out, she's real pissed about me going to the dance with Drew and just liking him in the first place, but I can't help it. I heard from Drew that he doesn't even like Nicole the way she does. So I IMed her saying I was sorry if I made her mad, but we both decided to go to the dance together. I told her to stop bein so weird about it cuz it has nothing to do with her. And then she signed off. Idk, I just want your opinion about this. Who's right and wrong here? And I want to go to the dance w/ Drew, but I don't want to upset Nicole either. What should I do? (link)
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See now, I've heard people say all of my life, that you shouldn't go out with the people your friends like. But I don't agree. If you were to hold back on all the guys your friends liked, you would be boyfriendless for life. :-p I say, go for Drew, you two seem like you have alot in common and if she's going to be upset because you're with someone that doesn't have feelings for her anyway, then she's wack to miss out on such an awesome friendship you two would have. Go for the guy.. good luck.
♥ Ashleigh
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I have this friend (lets call her amy) and she always gets mad at me for nothing and I dont no what to do because we do a lot of stuff together but with her I cant say the wrong this or shell FLIP i dont wanna say like stuff to make her even more mad .. Sometimes I dont even think she is my friend because she takes it ALL OUT ON ME. What should I do ? HELP!!
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I know EXACTLY how you feel. This situation is so simple to solve if you just think about it. First off, think of it from all angles. She is probably taking it out on you because you're her really close friend, and you do alot of things together, so she feels that no matter how mad she gets, you will always love her and you can make things better. She trusts that you can handle her anger better than anyone. A way to solve it, confront her. Again, my motto, be blunt. If you come right out and tell her she's being a bitch, and if she doesn't start treating you like the friend you are to her, then you're not gonna hang around anymore, I promise she'll think twice and treat you better. Also, let her know how much she means to you, and how much you value her friendship.
♥ Ashleigh
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I have a boyfriend and he's really sweet, but he dosen't live near me really.There's this other guy who goes to my church & today I told him I liked him & he likes me.I'm going to tell my b/f that I really don't feel a connection between us but I feel really bad about it.And when I found out he liked me, he wrote my name in a heart on his arm...& now I'm going to break up with him!¿!
What's wrong with me!¿!Plus my friend told me to trust my gut not my heart because your gut is a gift from God. But I'm having Second thoughts.Did I do the right thing¿¿¿ (link)
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Tough situation. I have been there though.. I think you should follow your heart. You don't want to be unhappy, and if one person makes you happier than the other, then the choice should be obvious. Pick the one that would lead you to worry less.. to feel more connected with the guy. If the one who lives further away, isn't who you want, or what you want, then just tell him. Nothing is more important in ANY relationship than honesty.
♥ Ashleigh
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Me and my 3 bestfriends have some problems we need to work out. We were so close last year. We told eachother everything and we were always there for eachother but alot of things have changed now. We don't trust eachother like we used to and I feel like our friendship is falling apart. I have had really bad luck in friendship. I got into many many many other fights with some of my other friends. One of them was so serious that she didnt even want to be my friend anymore! I didnt think that would ever happen with my 3 bestfriends tho becuz whenever i got in a fight with other people i always talked to them about it and they always made me feel better but we are starting to argue alot and to top it all off my other friend is trying to take my bestfriend away from me by inviting her over to her house nd not me or my 2 other bestfriends... our friendship is just really falling apart nd i dont kno wat to do anymore.. nd i feel like i wanna start cutting or something becuz i feel like i cant talk to anyone anymore! i just want things to be the way it used to be! I kno this is really confusing but thanx for reading this and pleaz respond.. it means alot to me! (link)
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First off, there is no better advice I could give you then, DON'T CUT. It is NOT wise sweety. There are plenty of other things you could do. Example, this is what I would do: Buy each of your friends a little present, a card, or a teddy bear of some sort, just some sweet little gift that shows you put thought into something.. and write them each notes about how you feel, and how you wish things were like they used to be. Girls are very difficult, as I'm sure you know, being one.. but you just have to approach the situation in the correct way. Give it a try, I wish you the best of luck.
♥ Ashleigh
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Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love?? (link)
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Love.. ahh.. such a beautious thing. Love.. when nothing around you matters.. and everything can be made okay with a hug.. when it doesn't matter what your friends think, or what your parents say, just as long as you have that person.. when you look into their eyes, you see your best friend.. and you know you could never trade them for anything.. you could find your way home in their eyes, and you know they would always be honest with you... always be there for you, always be caring.. and apologize for the smallest things just to make sure there's no fighting.. love can be explained in anything from a kiss, to a love note.. to a glance, it just depends on how you look at it.
♥ Ashleigh
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I wanted to know is it okay to go out with your best friends Ex boifriend?? I knida wawnt to go out with him. But she says it is okay and totally fine with her but i am afraid that might do something to our relationship? Should I go with him or say no because of my friend???... (link)
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Go out with the boy! First things first, if you DO go out with him, and your friend flips out on you, then what kind of friend was she in the first place to tell you it was okay when it really wasn't? Friends are honest with one another.. don't hold yourself back, if she says it's okay.. then she can't get upset when you date him.
♥ Ashleigh
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I dont know what catagoy this would fall under but, any way, here goes.
Lately I have been feeling depressed. I'm not sure why, but I'm bored with everything that was once exciting in my life. My friends, my crushes, my school work. My first term was excelent, but now all of my grades have dropped. I am so lost and I dont know what to do. I feel like I want to run away and start over new. I really need some support or help. Thanks . (link)
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Running away won't help. I'm not sure how your home life is like, but there will never be a place more welcoming. Depression has happened to the best of us.. when sometimes you just feel like crap and you wanna give up. Talk to a counselor.. I mean, I know it sounds sucky.. but they can really help. Just don't give up, life won't give up on you.
♥ Ashleigh
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I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long) (link)
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Just because he didn't SEEM upset when she saw him, doesn't mean he wasn't. Guys hide their feelings too. Maybe he was bummed because he was at the dance without a girlfriend, and it made him think about his relationship just ended. Don't let that knock you off your road to success. Talk to him, tell him you wanna hang out. If you need to, even offer to pay.. it gets the guys more interested in going the first time, then hopefully, your wonderful charm and cute smile will win him over and he'll want to chill ALL THE TIME.. on him. ;)
♥ Ashleigh
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