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Dilema, urgently needs attention ie. my love life!!!
I have liked this guy for ages over a year and nearly all my friends have dated him. I think one still likes him. I have a strict policy not to date guys my friends liked, have liked or have dated. So I ask should I ask him out or stick to my policy?? Ps I am no glamour model
Thanx
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Umm Well if you really like him I see no reason why you can't date him you know? Your friends have all done it but maybe talk to them first about it
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That's a good policy to have, and it shows that you're loyal and all.
I think you should go for it, but if you want to stick to your policy then I'd ask he friend who you think still likes him if she does.
If she says yes, then you should probably leave it. If she says no, however, definitely fo for it! Then, if she's lying about not liking him, it's her problem.
Good luck!
Sophie xxx
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Dear Dilemma-
Even though you like this guy, and have for over a year; I would stick to your policy. I've learned throughout life that guys will always come and go, but friends are the things that matter. Stay true to them.:)
-silencedmisfit
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He's dated all of your friends?! Well THAT'S promising.
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your policy is stupid. i dont want to come off as an asshole, but your policy is so stupid that i cant even express my thoughts on it. so the answer to your question is drop your policy and pretend it never exsisted. why should you hold out on love because your friends are in highschool. meaning theyre going to like A LOT of people.
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If you have liked this guy for a long time, then you should go for it and ask him out. You don't always have to follow your policy because if you love someone, a policy can't change that, right? You need to ask him out. You should talk to his friend of yours who likes him and tell her that you like this guy and that you are going to ask him out. Just make sure she is alright with this and then ask him out.
-Karen
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Since you like him that much, I say go for it, after you talk to your friend that likes him, get it settled and make sure she knows how much he means to you.
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I think that you should ask this guy out! If you lik him go for it!! I know that policy l0l but if none of your friends care and still like the guy then it doesnt matter!! x0
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You like him. Screw you policy - why limit yourself like that? That doesn't make any sense - doing that will just make you miserable - if you like they guy, then act on it... ask him out.
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