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Q: I have liked this guy for ages over a year and nearly all my friends have dated him. I think one still likes him. I have a strict policy not to date guys my friends liked, have liked or have dated. So I ask should I ask him out or stick to my policy?? Ps I am no glamour model

Thanx
Dear Dilemma-
Even though you like this guy, and have for over a year; I would stick to your policy. I've learned throughout life that guys will always come and go, but friends are the things that matter. Stay true to them.:)
-silencedmisfit

Q: okay i don't understnad when people say or its on an icon or something what dose it mean when they say its ther Anti drug?
"Music is my anti-drug." All that means is that instead of doing drugs, the person practices music, or loves music. "Sports are my anti-drug." Instead of doing drugs, this person does sports. Get it? hope i helped!:)
-silencedmisfit

Q: how do you get a guyy to ask you out??
Dear ?-
Maybe the real answer would be to ask the guy out yourself! I know in this day and age, times have definitely changed. Statistics actually show that more girls ask guys out, rather than the guy asking the girl... give it a shot! ;)
-silencedmisfit

Q: I just found out my boyfriend is a bisexual...i don't know what to do, it freaks me out

Lucy
Dear Lucy-
The first thing you should do is bring this issue up with your boyfriend. Confront him about it and ask him why he feels the way he does. If it really concerns you, you should break it off. Contrasting morals form an unhealthy relationship....
-silencedmisfit

Q: Im not yet either but Im scareed I will become. Earlier this night i tried to make myself throw up. Im 14 5'1 and wiegh about 103. Most people think Im crazy because I think Im fatter than most people, but I do. How can I overcome this feeling, and actions. I know that if i become either it will be very hard to stop. please! I need help very bad! Im not afraid to admit it. so please if you read this, answer my question! please!

♥ scared
Dear Scared-
A lot of girls suffer from Anoxeria and Bulimia, so you're not in this struggle alone. One of the main problems is the society today has built up this perfect image they think all girls should look like. You can find it in supermodels, magazines, tv shows... you name it. Don't get sucked into the media world! You have a God that created you, and loves you for who you are; he made you to look the way you look... and in his eyes you're perfect. You're not fat, and you don't need to lose weight. If you need further help, I would suggest seeing a counselor before this becomes any worse. Hope your situation gets better!
-silencedmisfit

Q: Hey,
well ive liked this guy for a long time now, and i heard he likes me to but hes gone out with a couple of girls...
now its like hes been ignoring me and i told my friend and she asked him and he said its cuz i was ignoring him...
but he said that he likes this girl danielle.
so what should i do?
i realli like him...
Dear Help-
I think that you should let this guy know-yourself- how you're feeling. Do it yourself to let him know that you aren't afraid. Maybe he just wants to hear it that you like him from you. Hope things get better.
-silencedmisfit

Q: um well my brother in college just told me that he is suffering from depression but he says hes going to counseling but he lives 600 miles away so its hard to know for sure but like he normally tells me pretty much everything but he wont talk about what is so bad and i dont know what to do, cuz he lives so far away and whatever. any ideas?
Depression can be a hard thing to go through, and difficult to talk about. Sometimes you can't really explain the way you're feeling inside, and why you're feeling so sad. I would just continue to write him, or talk to him on the phone; and let him know that you are going to be there for him no matter what. Make sure he knows that you love him and care about him. With time, he may open up... Best of luck.
-silencedmisfit

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I want to try and help anyone who asks me something.... and I'll help to the best of my ability- mind you i'm not perfect.:-/

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