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Me and my 3 bestfriends have some problems we need to work out. We were so close last year. We told eachother everything and we were always there for eachother but alot of things have changed now. We don't trust eachother like we used to and I feel like our friendship is falling apart. I have had really bad luck in friendship. I got into many many many other fights with some of my other friends. One of them was so serious that she didnt even want to be my friend anymore! I didnt think that would ever happen with my 3 bestfriends tho becuz whenever i got in a fight with other people i always talked to them about it and they always made me feel better but we are starting to argue alot and to top it all off my other friend is trying to take my bestfriend away from me by inviting her over to her house nd not me or my 2 other bestfriends... our friendship is just really falling apart nd i dont kno wat to do anymore.. nd i feel like i wanna start cutting or something becuz i feel like i cant talk to anyone anymore! i just want things to be the way it used to be! I kno this is really confusing but thanx for reading this and pleaz respond.. it means alot to me!<3
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i would definately talk about it with them. Or another way is to write a note/letter to them. I always seem to be better at writing my thoughts and feelings because I get too choked up and forget to say things when I'm talking. Friends are so important, and most of the time, it's easy to get through things like this with them. If they are that important then take charge in things and if they feel the same, they will respond.
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First off, there is no better advice I could give you then, DON'T CUT. It is NOT wise sweety. There are plenty of other things you could do. Example, this is what I would do: Buy each of your friends a little present, a card, or a teddy bear of some sort, just some sweet little gift that shows you put thought into something.. and write them each notes about how you feel, and how you wish things were like they used to be. Girls are very difficult, as I'm sure you know, being one.. but you just have to approach the situation in the correct way. Give it a try, I wish you the best of luck.
♥ Ashleigh
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