Gender: Female
Location: WI
Occupation: Student
Age: 21
AIM: pinklove353
MSN: pinklove53@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 10, 2005
Answers: 8
Last Update: January 10, 2005
Visitors: 904
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Me and my 3 bestfriends have some problems we need to work out. We were so close last year. We told eachother everything and we were always there for eachother but alot of things have changed now. We don't trust eachother like we used to and I feel like our friendship is falling apart. I have had really bad luck in friendship. I got into many many many other fights with some of my other friends. One of them was so serious that she didnt even want to be my friend anymore! I didnt think that would ever happen with my 3 bestfriends tho becuz whenever i got in a fight with other people i always talked to them about it and they always made me feel better but we are starting to argue alot and to top it all off my other friend is trying to take my bestfriend away from me by inviting her over to her house nd not me or my 2 other bestfriends... our friendship is just really falling apart nd i dont kno wat to do anymore.. nd i feel like i wanna start cutting or something becuz i feel like i cant talk to anyone anymore! i just want things to be the way it used to be! I kno this is really confusing but thanx for reading this and pleaz respond.. it means alot to me! (link)
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i would definately talk about it with them. Or another way is to write a note/letter to them. I always seem to be better at writing my thoughts and feelings because I get too choked up and forget to say things when I'm talking. Friends are so important, and most of the time, it's easy to get through things like this with them. If they are that important then take charge in things and if they feel the same, they will respond.
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i REALLY like this boy..his name is blake. well usually everyday after school while we r goin to the buses i see him. one day i accidently hit him with the door and when i walked outside he was like hey dont hit me with doors! and when we are walkin down the hallway, ill walk behind him and hell turn around and then hell see me, turn back around, then turn back and look at me for like a minute. then, today i was walkin wit my friend jessie and we were talkin to blake and then she turned down a different hallway so me and blake talked for like 3 minutes about nothing so then i started walkin in front of him and i was talkin on my cell tryin to find out who this one person was and he kicked my bookbag. well i turned around and he was talkin to this one girl and they both were starin at me and i mean he was lookin RIGHT at me. do u think he could like me? he knows i like him.do u think he was flirtin wit me at all? (link)
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I have a boyfriend and he's really sweet, but he dosen't live near me really.There's this other guy who goes to my church & today I told him I liked him & he likes me.I'm going to tell my b/f that I really don't feel a connection between us but I feel really bad about it.And when I found out he liked me, he wrote my name in a heart on his arm...& now I'm going to break up with him!¿!
What's wrong with me!¿!Plus my friend told me to trust my gut not my heart because your gut is a gift from God. But I'm having Second thoughts.Did I do the right thing¿¿¿ (link)
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Breaking up with someone is as hard as them breaking up with you. You obviously care about the other person but if things will be better for both of you if you aren't together than it's worth it. Just try to be friends because that's whats important and you wouldn't want the time you shared together to be completely ruined
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15/f. I have liked this guy since last year. And he told me last week that he liked me too. I am not allowed to date until I turn 16, which is in a week or so. The thing that worries me about going out with this guy is that he has done things that I have never done. I've never made out wiht a guy and he has made out with all the girls he's gone out with, and he has fingered a girl. I wouldn't mind making out with him, but getting fingered is not what I want to do. What should i do if he tries to finger me. Thanks in advance.
Signed:
Unsure (link)
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just start things slow and keep them simple. I'm sure after a few months into the relationship, things will get more complicated and you'll be ready for it. You're 16, there's no hurry
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hi. erf.. i cut myself and i wanted to know if there is any thing to make u stop/get ur mind off of it?? i heard that snapping rubberbands help.. but it isn't working.. help (link)
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I used to be depressed and cut myself too. it is hard to explain why people do it but I guess it gave me a sense of being able to have control in something in my life. I don't know how or why I stopped doing it. My friends would see it, my parents would see it but i just made up lies about it. And then after it healed I saw the scars from it and realized that no matter how bad life is at the moment...i don't want a reminder for the rest of my life
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i am a 13 year old girl, and i tried my boyfriend's ciggarette the other day, cuz i just wanted to try. he didnt force me into it, i just wanted to try ; like i just said. so then the next day i craved for one soo badly and i bit my nails which i never did before. and i just want some kinda smoke in mah lungs now ! am i addicted already ? what should i do ? (link)
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i am 21 and quit smoking twice and now for good. You don't realize how bad it is for you expecially at your age...it can do a lot of harmful things and it's such a waste. I would stop and tell your boyfriend to do the same if I were you
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this question pertains mostly to girls
alright f/15 here i was just wondering about how long can u masterbate without totally exploding? like for me im usually only masterbating for like 10-30 seconds and i want it to last longer!please answer back@ (link)
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i agree with the some of the others. Just do it slower, that's what I do...and if you don't have a vibrater, you don't know what you're missing out on
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A while ago me and me best friend experimented( not below the belt). My friend and i are 13 and girls. After i loved that it happened and i want to do it again. I don't like her like that it's just i liked what happened between us as friends. I sended signal to do it again to her. I think she wants to do it again too. We even make jokes a lot about. I sounds like i like her. I let her know that i wanted to do it again, but i'm afraid she'll not want to be my BFF if actually ask her to experiment again. What should i do?? (link)
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you are toooooo young
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