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Mixed Feelings
I have a boyfriend and he's really sweet, but he dosen't live near me really.There's this other guy who goes to my church & today I told him I liked him & he likes me.I'm going to tell my b/f that I really don't feel a connection between us but I feel really bad about it.And when I found out he liked me, he wrote my name in a heart on his arm...& now I'm going to break up with him!¿!
What's wrong with me!¿!Plus my friend told me to trust my gut not my heart because your gut is a gift from God. But I'm having Second thoughts.Did I do the right thing¿¿¿
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Tough situation. I have been there though.. I think you should follow your heart. You don't want to be unhappy, and if one person makes you happier than the other, then the choice should be obvious. Pick the one that would lead you to worry less.. to feel more connected with the guy. If the one who lives further away, isn't who you want, or what you want, then just tell him. Nothing is more important in ANY relationship than honesty.
♥ Ashleigh
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If you dont see your bf and you dont have as strong feelings ad you do this guy at your church that you sound lile you like him alot. I would break up with your bf. 1. because you dont see him that much 2. you like someone else who likes you and you see more.
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yes you did do the right thing because if you realy dont think that things areworkin out wit your old bf than you shouldent stay wit him cuz if he found out he wouldent of been so happy and you would of felt even worse and i hope that things work out wit you and the kid you like now go good!<3 alex
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well its your choice but if i where you i would go with the first guy cuz he was with you first and you need to be with your first love unless thair is a good reason( having feelings for some outher guy isent right)
well hope i helped
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Well, breaking up with him and then jumping to the next guy in line wouldn't be the right thing to do. Honestly, how would you feel if you were him? I'm sure by breaking up with him and moving on within a few days would make him feel like he isn't good enough. Wait about two weeks or so, then consider hooking up with the boy from your church. It will be worth the wait. You will get to know him very well within the next few weeks, so take things slowly. =]
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Breaking up with someone is as hard as them breaking up with you. You obviously care about the other person but if things will be better for both of you if you aren't together than it's worth it. Just try to be friends because that's whats important and you wouldn't want the time you shared together to be completely ruined
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If you don't like your boyfriend anymore, the only fair thing is to tell him the truth. Why would you want to lie to him and be with him when you like someone else. If you do care about him you'll tell him the truth. This doesn't mean tell him that hes gross and you hate him (haha) it just means give it to him lightly and try to remain friends. ♥
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i would go with the guy from your church- in the end dont you want to be happy? and your heart will tell you who you can be happy with! thats what life is about- we work hard but its all just to be happy!!! much love <3 *brookie*
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well...i would just say to follow your heart on the guy thing! if you want a b/f who lives closer to you and that you see more often, go out w/ him! just don't tell anybody for a while! if your ex- would find out that you dumped him for another guy, that's when all the trouble starts! hope this helps!
~Alyssa
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