My name is Bianca. Here's the deal, I like giving advice to people, because I tell the truth. I am NOT going to lie. I'm not up for that jazz. I am a very blunt person, and if I have to say something, I'll say it. Whether it is good, or bad... I'll say it. I don't care what others think of me. I hate people who go out of their way to hurt someone's feelings. It is SO stupid. Anyways, I love you;;GOODBYE.
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Gender: Female
Location: Arizona
Occupation: student!
Age: 13
AIM: mYhEaRtiSyUrS x3
Member Since: January 9, 2005
Answers: 20
Last Update: January 12, 2005
Visitors: 973
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ok SO 1st of all Im NOT ABOUT to do this whole anonymous thing...second of all..Bianca I dont really talk to you but this is for everyone who thinks they're cool for talking shit over the internet...? Umm how about this..maybe just MAYBE..you could say it to her face! =O..theres an idea..from what i see..the one sending the anonymouos comments just looks scared and immature..and the last thing i hav to say is get over yourselves if ur guna pretend to be older then u really are..you could at least act like it to..haha seriously..stop being so immature..thank you all and have a wonderful day! Oh and p.s. sorry for gettin in your guys' business but this is getting old really quick :-)
*xKiSs0KiSsx*lOvEyOu!
>>ThE 1 AnD oNlY .. TeSlEaH* (link)
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thank you dear!=]
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Bianca, i freakin heart you. I've been reading this advice column, & its just full of a whole bunch of shit. I'm glad that all of theses bitches aren't getting to you:]
This is an ADVICE COLUMN, not a place to talk shit, do that sumwhere else. Seriously, it's pathetic.
I can't think of nething to ask for advice on right now, but i'm sure ill come up with sumthing later. -Megan- (link)
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megan youre awesome
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if it is mayra, hint.. "zach doesnt like you.. blah blah" then YOU mayra. need to grow up. if its not you okay then. YOU'RE ALL DUMB, its girls like you guys who can't back their shit up. all you do is talk behind eachothers backs. and you NEVER say anything to their face. "LyKE OoOmMMGg!g! 11!!! bIANcA IS LIkE So FrEAKINg GAyyYYy! AND iM sOo PerfeCT!" NOT check your sorry asses in the mirror. YOUR NOT TOUGH SO DON'T PRETEND LIKE YOU ARE.
now, everyone SHUT UP and leave bianca alone.
and breanna, maybe it wasnt you who posted in HERE but it was you posting in her journal. and she has proof. werent you being a drama queen about OMG PEOPLE KEEP POSTING ANONYMOUSLY. [dont you find that a little hypocrytical? because i do, and so does everyone else] it was probably one of your "best friends" because you all seem to talk shit about eachother 24/7.:D lets all learn how to be mature 13/14 year olds okaY? because were not in THE 3RD GRADE ANYMORE.
DROP THE SUBJECT AND LEAVE IT ALONE.
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it was carissa.
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this is breanna i havent posted one annonymous comment in this stupid advice column this is the 2nd time ive looked at it since i`ve since it in biancas pro. stop making accusations about me// assuming things. i kno whos posting but theyre one of my good friends && im not willing to tell who they are but check the stupid IP adress or w/e its not me and if u dont believe me then whatever and how am i drama queen again..? because IM NOT THE ONE POSTING .. whoever it is, is probly trying to be funny which alot of people think it is. trust me people talk at lunch but it sure as hell isnt me so get ur facts straight. bye (link)
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you can't do IP adresses on here, and even if I could, I wouldn't be able to find out who is doing it because all of them are anonymous. and, do I REALLY care if people talk about me? hmm. NO. I could care less. I just hate stupid anonymous posters who think they're cool. It isn't funny, it's MEAN. and I've come to the conclusion (based on all of these hints they've been giving me) that it is Mayra. It could possibly be her, but it could possibly not be her as well. So, whoever you are, anonymous, please stop. YOU AREN'T COOL. GET-A-LIFE.
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its Alicia! i know its not a question but.. ALL OF YOU ANONYMOUS PEOPLE NEED TO STOP POSTING IN HERE!! seriously, if you have a problem with the people in here, or Bianca herself, GET OVER IT and GROW UP! you think your cool for commenting in here anonymously, but your not. and dont blame all this drama on Bianca, when you yourselves are causing it. thank you and GOODBYE.
P.S. Bianca, you are beautyful inside and out no matter what anybody tells you! stay sweet my darling! (link)
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thanks
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OH MY GOD.
breanna shut up.
YOU'RE A DRAMA QUEEEEEEEEEN.
ALL OF YOU NEED TO GROW UP && BACK OFF.
leave bianca alone and GET A LIFE. quit ruining other peoples.
you're all selfish little concieted brats.
and you have NOTHING to be concieted about.
KAY THANKS BYE.
:D (link)
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you're sOo silly i love youuu
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Oh what bitch I thought Ali was your so called "Best Friend".Why would you take the blame out on her? Your such a GREAT friend.
P.s - I wasn't saying for you to go slice yourself. I was just saying that was my name cause I do it everynight, it makes me feel happy :] (link)
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Did I say to take it all out on her? no. I said don't take it ALL out on me. Meaning, she deserves some of the blame as well. I was telling the truth. What more can you ask from me?
I love how you said I start all the drama... You're doing it right now.. You are causing drama by all of this... =/ I just wanted to help people in need of advice.. I don't need your criticism. If someone wants to kill me, then let them.. I don't really need your thoughts of me... If you dislike me that much, then don't bother talking to me. It's not worth it, you're wasting your time.
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Hey everyone this is Caitlin. I'm pretty sure i know who is making those anonymous comments. and didn't you yourself complain about all the anonymous comments in your journal? why yes, you did. so why dont you stop being a hypocryte by commenting anonymously, stop causing shit, and get over the drama. seriously i know everyone says just grow up but you REALLY need to. you wouldnt feel too great if people were doing this to you so just stop, please. IF YOU DONT HAVE ANY THING NICE TO SAY , DONT SAY ANYTHING AT ALL. thank you and goodbye.
*another thing, people seem to think it was ME making the comments, but i can honestly assure you that it was not. (link)
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thanks
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what is the definition of a true friend to you? (link)
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If this is the stupid anonymous person, LEAVE ME ALONE. if you're calling me gay, and two-faced and crap.. STOP! it's retarded. you're obviously the one who talks crap, because you won't even tell me who you are haaah bye
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Why are you so gay?Like seriously tho.You talk so much shit but when you tell people,you make your self seem all innocent but your fuckin NOT! Your the cause of most of the drama at our school. If you left everything would be WAY better. WTF STOP TRYING TO RUIN OTHER PEOPLES RELATIONSHIP!.. Zach doesn't like you.Sorry truth hurts!Heh.That's all I have to say.Bye.
-Go Slice Yourself (link)
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Uhm.. I'm not gay. I don't talk crap and act innocent, that'd be being two-faced.. which I am NOT. I tell people things to their face. I wouldn't say anything behind someone's back that I wouldn't admit to their face. And, how does drama all start with ME if I don't even eat with any of my friends? I never even SEE my friends. And, I wasn't trying to ruin their relationship, I was telling him the truth. Oh, and BY THE WAY, Ali was with me saying it as well so don't blame me for ALL OF IT. And, I DON'T EVEN LIKE ZACH! I LIKE NATE! And.. hun, maybe you didn't know this, but I AM LEAVING. I am leaving in April so shut up about it. And, no, I'm not going to "slice myself" because I don't do that anymore. It's stupid. QUIT TRYING TO PUT ME DOWN. IT'S NOT WORKING.
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my mom and dad are getting a divourse adn i cant have joint custody i have to pick one parent who should i pick?
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This is a question you must ask YOURSELF. Compare your relationship with both parents. Who would be best to talk to while going through hard times? That might help.. But I don't know anything about how your home life is, so I can't help you. This is a personal struggle that no one else can help you figure out. It's all on you to make the correct decision. I'm sorry that I could not help you with this one.
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bianca i adore you.
why are your "friends" such little drama queens?
why do they feel it necessary to post anonymous comments cough*breanna&caitlin*cough
maybe because they're jealous of you.
they need to grow up and realize saying "well you're ugly and no1 likes you" is completely pathetic. because well you are 10 times more gorgeous. and the whole no1 liking you part is crap. we like you more than them :] (link)
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you know what, i really don't know why they dislike me so much. have I done anything? no. I'm doing a good deed by helping people out on here and in return, others feel it is necessary to leave anonymous posts telling me this? okay, GROW UP.
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i hope you get raped (nevermind cuz we all no you want to be raped) and shot (link)
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excuse me, but that is not asking for advice. but, no thank you, i'd rather NOT get raped. though,if you REALLLLY feel the need in shooting me, tell me your name first, then I could see if maybe your reasons for my death are worth killing me over.
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do you think that loseing wieght would be smart to just impress a guy or be cool or to just get healthy... guys are seeming to only like the skinny girls.. im not fat,fat just the stomach area could use some work..?it's not the working out question.. its how do i avoid the school lunch! it's horrible.. i dont always have the time to pack it but hmm i just don't know i want to get skinner but whats the steps i need to take!
thanks!!! i love you. (link)
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Okay my dear!! Impressing a GUY is something you should definitely NOT be worried about. If a guy truly likes you, he will like you for who you are, not your outer appearance. Working out can be SO much fun if you are with your friends. Consider finding a close friend who will work out, go jogging, or whatever you choose to do! Pump up the tunes beh beh ;] If it is your stomach, then I, personally would do about 200 sit ups EVERY day. Maybe you could do 100 in the morning, and 100 at night. You could even split them up into 50 if you want! Whatever you choose to do! And, if you don't have time to pack your lunch, then just find someone that looks healthy at school. Stay away from bagels *bread is fattening* Uhm, donuts.. big no no. Candy, YUCK! uhm... anything that looks like junk food and stuff, just try to replace with something healthy! If you don't have time to make lunch in the morning, make it at night and keep it in the fridge! Well... that's about all=] hope I helped! byeee
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Ok...there is this guy that I seriously have reason to believe that I am in love with him. I have liked him since summer. We are close friends. I trust him and he trusts me. We talk all the time and sometimes he hurts me...but not on purpose. He knows that I like him, but we never talk about it. I seriously believe that I love him , but I dont know what to do.... :-/
-Hopelessly fallen (link)
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Well, if you aren't dating him, you can't possibly be in love with someone that you are not dating. You might have strong feelings, but it isn't love. You need to find out how he feels about you, and then let him know how you feel. Don't tell him first, because if he DOESN'T like you, then he might break that trust you guys have, and say he does like you, just to make you feel better. If he DOES like you, he will tell you he does. He won't say "i dunnnno" or anything like that. He will be completely honest! I hope I helped =]
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i want a boyfriend =[ (link)
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aww, i do too! find someone SPECIAL!
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im getting sick n tired of my boyfrend. he makes me uncomfterbol and his dingaling is shrinking. or so it seems.. wut should i do.. shold i break up wit him or wut (link)
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Wow, that question was a little on the weird side. I would very much appreciate it if you didnt talk about stuff like "dingalings" on my advice website. thank you.
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why are you such a slut and why do you backstab your friends and shit and why do you think your cool when your not and i herd people are comeing to kill you with gunns and knifes so be careful (link)
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oh wow! more than one question!
why are you such a sl*t?--well, i'm not really a slut... i don't dress like one.. i don't act like one, sorry if i come off as one?
why do you back stab your friends?-- uhm, i don't. people who are rude to me definitely deserve the rudeness in return, so that is what i do=]
why do you think you're cool when you aren't?--uhm, last time i checked... i was saying I don't have many friends because I'm in concert band and eat ninth grade lunch.. so, i don't think i'm cool. hah.
and, if people are coming to kill me with guns and knives, that's cool, i don't care. they can suffer the consequences of going to prison. hah!
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hi. erf.. i cut myself and i wanted to know if there is any thing to make u stop/get ur mind off of it?? i heard that snapping rubberbands help.. but it isn't working.. help (link)
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Okay, I'm not going to tell you to stop or anything, because believe me, I've been in the same situation. You feel alone, and don't want to listen to what anyone else has to say about it. I can understand the rubberband snapping, but it still causes pain, and pain is something you can control. If you'd rather do something that won't cause you pain, then try writing. I did it. I actually wrote three notebooks full of poetry. Once my parents started reading them, and noticing my cuts, they sent me to get help. It's embarrassing to not be able to hang out with your friends because you have to go to your psyichiatrist instead of going to the mall for instance. I'm sure your family, and friends would miss you dearly if you died. But it is a proven fact that cutting is only to cause pain, it doesn't NORMALLY kill you. It's just a way to let out your emotions. Now, I'm not trying to tell you that you should hang yourself to die. Afterall, that wouldn't be giving you positive advice, at all. It would be the best if you talked to someone about this. It most definitely helped me. I don't know what exactly is going wrong, and is causing you to feel so negatively about yourself that causes you to cut your wrists, but hun, it should stop. How would you feel if say.. your parent or guardian died? Pretty upset, right? Okay.. Now imagine how they would feel... Their own child/grandchild/cousin, whatever the case. It isn't healthy. Consider putting yourself in their position.
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I have a boyfriend and he's really sweet, but he dosen't live near me really.There's this other guy who goes to my church & today I told him I liked him & he likes me.I'm going to tell my b/f that I really don't feel a connection between us but I feel really bad about it.And when I found out he liked me, he wrote my name in a heart on his arm...& now I'm going to break up with him!¿!
What's wrong with me!¿!Plus my friend told me to trust my gut not my heart because your gut is a gift from God. But I'm having Second thoughts.Did I do the right thing¿¿¿ (link)
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Well, breaking up with him and then jumping to the next guy in line wouldn't be the right thing to do. Honestly, how would you feel if you were him? I'm sure by breaking up with him and moving on within a few days would make him feel like he isn't good enough. Wait about two weeks or so, then consider hooking up with the boy from your church. It will be worth the wait. You will get to know him very well within the next few weeks, so take things slowly. =]
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