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Question Posted Sunday January 9 2005, 10:19 am

I wanted to know is it okay to go out with your best friends Ex boifriend?? I knida wawnt to go out with him. But she says it is okay and totally fine with her but i am afraid that might do something to our relationship? Should I go with him or say no because of my friend???...

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ababycalledthecure answered Sunday January 9 2005, 11:26 pm:
That depends.
Regardless of what she says, if you date her ex things WILL change between you and your BF. Whether you want it to or not. Trust me on this ;)
So, if you think he's really really worth it, then go for it.
Just make sure he's really really worth it.

XO
ABCTC

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il0v33m0 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 6:19 pm:
Go out with the boy! First things first, if you DO go out with him, and your friend flips out on you, then what kind of friend was she in the first place to tell you it was okay when it really wasn't? Friends are honest with one another.. don't hold yourself back, if she says it's okay.. then she can't get upset when you date him.

♥ Ashleigh

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koshii answered Sunday January 9 2005, 2:41 pm:
There's a reason CarFacts exists--it's extremely useful to know just where something's been and WHY it got rid of.
The old wisdom reads "never date the ex of your friend", but you have to decide which of them is more important to you.
From your friend, you can find out just why she (or he) ended the relationship, and how he acts in a relationship, what his moods are, etc. Remember you're getting this from someone who doesn't want him, so take her emotions into account. She could be lying or cranky or what have you.
Do you really like him that much, or do you just want to because you've seen him around more often than a stranger? It's common to want a friend's ex because you've been jealous of their happiness and seen him near you and want your turn at it.
But don't be too hasty. He might not be as good as you think he is.

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reach_for_the_stars_14 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 2:22 pm:
i think that you should go for it, but before you do talk to your friend about it, if she is sure that she is fine with it then ask him out. but if it starts to ruin your relationship with your friend then somehow explain it to him and break up with him or talk to your friend bout it. i hope this helps,
~amy

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 1:52 pm:
its okay as long as she's okay with it. I hate that when my good friends go out with my x.. idk its just how i feel. Exspeacially if someone were to go out with one of my serious boyfriends. I would just hate it. I would just rather some double check with me before they do. So double check w/her. JUst if you are hangin out w/him dont b around her. And vice versa!! Keep those 2 relationships seperate!-trixx

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snoopy answered Sunday January 9 2005, 1:42 pm:
well if you really like him then go for it. he already broke up with her. but make sure that before you do anything you ask your friend if she stills like him. if she does, then you have a problem.... good luck!

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netsirk07 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 1:15 pm:
No, i wouldnt go out with him your friends ex boyfriends off limits no matter what sorry** :(

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c_assi_e_x_12 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 1:13 pm:
Well, if it's ok with her then you should be fine. If she's your best friend, then you shouldn't worry about her sabotaging the relationship. Just take things slow. Good Luck!!!





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amy529022 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:45 pm:
Well i think you should really make sure with your friend that its okay and wont make her mad beacuse i mean how would you feel if it was your ex?

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hottdancer134 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:33 pm:
DON'T GO OUT W/ HIM!!! your best friend might say it's ok...but like you said..it could definetly do something to your relationship w/ your friend. Maybe tell him that you can't because you don't want things to be all messed up w/ you and your friend. tell him your can still be friends though!! Hope this helps!

~Alyssa

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Karen answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:14 pm:
Yep, you should go out with your best friend's ex-boyfriend, since she said it was alright. But if she just recently just broke up with him, wait a while because she may still have feelings for him, even though she said it was alright for you to go out with him. Don't worry about it, she won't do anything to ruin your relationship. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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xoxsweetashley91 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:12 pm:
If your best friend says its fine, i would give it a shot. If she wants to hurt the relationship, tell the guy that you would just like to remain friends. If she was your true friend, she wouldnt do that anyway. Please rate! Hope I helped!

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