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My name is Ashley and I'm 16 years old. I have brown hair and green eyes. I live in Tampa Florida. I was born on September 1 (hence the 9,1 in the username). I dont give that stupid advice your mother gives, I give you what I feel is right.

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Ok I have these little bumps in some place my skin (such as my legs, knees, elbows, and back of my upper arms). They're the same color as my skin and aren't big or anything, but I don't know how to get rid of them. I asked my mom and she just told me to scrub my skin more in the shower...but it isn't helping. It just looks like I have small goose bumps on me constantly!
How can I get rid of them? I will rate you well if you give a good answer!

I went to dermatologist and they told me I have keratosis plaris (im PRETTY sure thats the spelling). Type it in on google, and look at the pictures and see if its the same thing you have.
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In the past couple weeks, ive gained 10-12 lbs and i cant stop freaking out. My exercise and eating habits havent changed and i dont know why but i keep putting on more and more weight. I feel so disgusted with myself. Can anyone explain to me why ive gained all this weight all of the sudden? (No, im not pregnant.) I dont overeat. I actually burn all my calories. Any way i can lose all this weight because exercise and eating healthy arent working?

Well if you already exercise, it could be muscle. In case you didnt know, muscle does weigh more than fat, so hun, dont worry! Every female gains some weight and im sure you still look great. Without thinking maybe you are eating more than normal, so just watch your portions.
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well were havin celeb day at school besides the olsen twins can anyone think of two celebritys me and my friend could do?

thanx a bunch!

Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie
Hilary and Haylie Duff
Madonna and Britney Spears

Have fun! Please rate!

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This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!

- I appreciate that
- I love you (only if you mean it!)
- You look great
- Laugh at her jokes
- You`re brilliant!

Just show affection! Girls LOVE being kissed and touched

please rate! hope i helped! :-)

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I'm about to make my friend a cd and he said to put whatever songs are cool and new and I like all old music. Does anyone know any good songs that are r&b and are new?

haha, yeah i was reading the other responses and thought they were all rock bands. anyway download these r&b songs

Usher- caught up
Mario- let me love you
Ashanti- Only U
Ludacris- Get Back
Ludacris- Number 1 Spot
Sir Mix A Lot- Baby Got Back
Ying Yang Twins- Salt Shaker
Lil Jon and the Eastside Boys- Lovers and Friends
Lil Jon and the Eastside Boys- Get Low

Hope I helped! please rate! :)

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ok so i am going to breed gerbils. I was wondering is there any good websites with pics. and info on gerbils!i rate high!
thanx!

i went to google,
http://www.agsgerbils.org/Gerbil_Care_Handbook/breeding.html

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My mom broke up with my dad 9 years ago, and has been living with my stepdad since. I was on her computer, and found that she has been flirting with a guy from Texas (thousands of miles away), and they are planning on meeting in Seattle this weekend.

She hasn't told anyone about it, like me, my stepdad, ect. She said she was going to Seattle for a "craft get-together".

Should I be really upset, storm out, and demand to live with my dad? Or be happy for her that she is happy...and having an affair. I guess I'm still in shock.

I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm not sure how to react. It was probably wrong to look on her computer, but I just had a hunch.

Tough decision. If I were you, I would calmly bring it up in conversation and say "you know mom, I read your computer, and i know what you`ve been up to in Seattle." Dont yell or scream, REMAIN CALM! Be happy that your mother is happy, but try to get her to state the truth to your stepfather because hes the one whos getting hurt in this affair.
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I was once a moderator, then left the site for a week, now it says to become one again I have to update my column. How do I update again? I tried what I thought was everything, but nothing happened. Thanks a bunch

All you have to do is answer a few questions, and get rated highly! PLEASE RATE! HOPE I HELPED

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Background info: I am one of those people who are totally against fads. I speak my opinion and let others know that I'm not another copy!

A little more background: I saw an extremely cute shirt, an adorable skirt, and awesome pants at AE and A&F. I really want to buy them, but people might see me as a traitor or something.

My question for you to answer: What should I do if I want to buy clothes at stores that I am known to diss?

i would say do what you want because if you speak your opinion anyway, then no one should have an issue. and if people say anything, just say "and you care, why?" lol. it usually gets people flustered. if someone judges you on fashion then they should just grow up because thats ridiculous.
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Ok so i recently signed up for myspace and have been going through old yearbooks and i ran into this girl i knew in junior high (im 18/m now) so i sent her a message saying she probably doesnt remember me but i went to school with her and just wanted to say whats up. she responded saying she doesnt remember me and im at a loss for how to respond. i was thinking of saying soemthing like "ok well i cant say im not disappointed but i didnt really expect you to remember me, if you ever wana talk about how much the school sucked or anything like that feel free to message me" but i was wondering if soemthing else maybe better. should i try to job her memory? should i reply with "oh well no big deal" or is there a even better response i have yet to think off? responses asap would be best. oh and not saying that romance is the last thing on my mind in this situation but it really isnt the reason, we were fairly good friends back then and i just wanted to get back in touch with her. thanks all for your help.

why dont you say like "oh yeah, i was the kid who....." then put in something funny you were known for. or just say that you used to be good friends and you would be interested in rekindling the relationship. that should break the ice. PLEASE RATE! HOPE I HELPED!

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theres this really annoying ugly ignorent kid at my school saying stuff to me and id like to give him some good comebacks because im sick of his attitude and the way he talks to girls... anyone have any good comebacks?

Just as BeautifulMadness said, if he says "suck my ****" you can say "sorry, but i choke on small objects"
or to anything he says say "oh yeah. youre cool now." but make sure you have friends backing you up.
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Can anyone tell me any good websites for a 13/f to look at that don't need sound? I'm insanely bored a lot of the time, and I'd like to find some new intresting websites to look at. Thanks!

hey babe, have some fun with these.

- bored.com
- neopets.com
- flash-gear.com/copter

have fun!

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for my school i have to like read lots of books. Does anyone know of any teen books that are good, but not to to long?

any of the books in the Gossip Girl series if youre a female. Otherwise if you are a male, you could try reading Animal Farm, 1984, or To Kill A Mockingbird, which are all for either genders! PLEASE RATE! HOPE I HELPED

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(15/f)
how can i like.. "come out of the closet" to 4 of my best friends.. i tell them EVERYTHING and i just hate hiding from them. they know i'm in a relationship, they just don't know its with another chick. please help.

If you tell them everything anyway, they should totally understand! Just explain that you feel the most comfortable in the relationship you are currently in, and they shouldnt look at you any differently because of your sexual preference. Just follow your heart! PLEASE RATE! HOPE I HELPED!

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OKAY heres the deal i got this areo sweater for christmas its pink with a deep V and a cute little brown belt and jeans and OMG the cutest earrings ever they have 3hearts going down with diamonds in the middle of each one..........Do you think this will be a cute outfit for the Dance or what??

PS----i dont have a date so i was tryin to make sure that i made all the ppls who could've asked me DIE

sounds adorable, babe! have a blast at the dance, it seems like you`ll look amazing! PLEASE RATE! HOPE I HELPED

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I just found out that the guy i like is friends with my worst enemy, whom is really very rude to me, and now Im afraid to talk to him. What should i do?

i would talk to him and say listen if this chick says anything about me, dont believe it! if hes a true sweetie, he`ll listen to you :) PLEASE RATE! HOPE I HELPED!

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i have swimming every-other day first hour at my school. basically, we have to swim for 50 minutes, and then we get 10 minutes to shower - change- and get ready, and then itsoff to our next class. i`m very much a girly-girl, hardly ever seen without my makeup on and spend over an hour getting ready for things. I NEED HELP how am i suposed to get ready in 10 minutes?! and how can i do my hair really cute when it`s wet?? i don`t really care about not having time to put on my make up, because i don't really want to be known as the barbie. BUT i dont want to have gross nasty hair either! HELPPPP

bring mousse, gel, hairspray, etc. and scrunch it and put it half up. i always do this, its adorable! then you can still do makeup and look great! PLEASE RATE! HOPE I HELPED!

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I was just wondering...what are some good virtual pet sites? Please do not say Neopets! Thank you! :O)

http://www.adoptme.com
http://www.virtualdog.com
http://www.virtualpet.com

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I have an ipod mini, but it wont turn on. I had it for a while now, and it hasnt been able to turn on since last night. Its not on hold, and i dont know what to do. Please help

Maybe the battery is completely dead. I would try charging it, or take it to the nearest Apple Store to see if they know what to do if everything else looks fine.

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Has anyone seen the movie "the boogeyman" ? is it good? is it scary? thanks

hey babe. dont waste your money, i actually JUST got back from seeing it. it was so computer animated! i wouldnt recommend it, but whatever suits you :) PLEASE RATE! HOPE I HELPED

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