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IF a friend says bad things behind your back and you and her are the bestest friends in the world should you still be friends with them? I want to but i don't know if that is right or not??
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Well, first you need to talk to them about why they said bad things about you. Sometimes people say things they don't mean. If she does it again or there isn't a valid reason, it probably wouldn't be the best thing to be her friend again. If it was just a little misunderstanding, then there is no harm in forgiving her.
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friends dont do that. arent friends supposed to be nice? i dont know about you but talking behind someones back isnt very "nice"... either tell her to stop or dont be friends with her anymore.
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Well you shouldnt just ditch her you have to talk to her first-trix
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still be friends with her.. just like confront her and discuss y'all's problems
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every time my best friends talk behind my back, i always bring it up. if someone told you what your best friend said, don't exactly assume that it's true. ask her.. be like "i heard u said something about me" and if she did.. ask why and try to fix it. good luck ! =) hope i helped
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Yess but confront her by saying so i heard you told so and so about this. tell her it was rude and i want to be your friends but so far you are'nt acting like a good friend.You have an problem with her so make sure your piont is made and you dont come off as juding her to much.Tell me how it goes, good luck!!
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if one of my best friends said something behind my back, well it would have to depend on what they said about me, if it was bad and i couldn't believe that and i got mad.. all i gotta say is that its going to happen again and again, i know that you would want to stay friends with her but i wouldn't, sorry, i just know from expierence of a ton of friends who talked behind my back, and i realized they weren't really my friends. but i think it all depends on what they said, x0 Renee
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Yes, you should still be friends with her but not best friends because if you just walk away from a great friendship, how would you and your friend feel? Just talk to your friend and find out why she was talking behind you back and try making up! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I would stay friends, but maybe not be BEST friends. Try hanging out with different people for awhile and maybe confront this girl about it. It could be a misunderstanding if shes your best friend. Please rate! Hope I helped!
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