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love?
Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love??
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i have a boyfriend, and i seriously love him more than anything. I am 15, and he is 16, going on 17. i am not allowed to see him,because of the age difference, and issuses with my parents. but i do anyways. i love him with my whole heart, and i know he loves me too. we are like best friends, and we can talk to each other easily. i think that love in this age if very possible, and extremely special, i mean, i think a lot of girls would agree with me, that it is hard to find a guy who isnt in it for sex or anything like that. but finding love at our age is completely amazing, but its when you are always there for each other, you alway put each other first, and when you are more than nice to each other. and you dont care about what they look like or something they say, because you love them for who they are on the inside. i have been going out with him for about 8 months now, and no matter how obsessive this may sound, we have our whole future together planned out, i know he is the one, and i love him more than anyone or anything. high school sweet hearts :p
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In my opinion, love is when you can't picture yourself with anyone but this person. The person you love is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, I think. I consider love to be the greatest emotion known to humans. Love is incredible. There are no words to describe it.
However, I don't think love is a "can't think about anything else, can't breathe, can't eat" state of mind. That seems more like lust to me. love is something deeper, more meaningful. While lust does tend to accompany love, it doesn't mean the same thing, and I think a lot of people confuse the two.
While I do believe age really is a state of mind and not being, 13 year olds finding the people they're going to marry is unlikely. However, I'm 17 and I think I've found the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. Each to their own. I think love is up to interpretation. There is no one solid meaning. It means something different for everyone else, and I think that's kinda cool. -Siren =)
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[love is]: oNe oF tHoSe cAnT eAt.. cAnT sLeEp.. rEaCh fOr tHe sTaRs oVeR tHe fEnCe.. wOrLd sErIeS kInDa tHyNgS! and.. i dont think its too young because when i was 13 i was sooo in love with this guy.. and he was allll i could thynk about.. like.. when i went to sleep.. when i woke up.. and all in between.. and i didnt need him to be a good kisser.. or sweet talker.. or smooth guy or whatever any other guy would need to be..like.. he was like.. it didnt matter what he did.. i didnt care because i loved him.. because i liked him for him and i was kRaZzZy about him..and its like.. so hard to describe how i felt... and even thoughwe arent together anymore.. hell alwaes be in mai hart and i will alwaes love him!
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Toughest question to answer. Ever. Love means a mutual respect for someone. Knowing their bad points and still loving them. When they're on the shitter,you still love em.When you meet their parents,you still love em. If you fight and still half like the person,that's always a good start.
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love, hmm well i agree that maybe 13,14 year olds shouldn't be using 'love' i used to think i was in love before but now i just think to myself wtf... haha. love, well its indescribable ... the butterflies in your stomache, when you think about him a million x a day, where you just can't eat or sleep ... well thats for me, anyway. you'll know when you're in love. =) *xox=angie*
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love. I honostly think that you could love at any age, BUT only when your older can a person truly appreciate it. It depends on how mature you are, and if your willing to commit, and most youngins aren't. But yeah I think young love is possible. I've seen many of my friends, whome have dated there husbands since sophmore year of highschool.
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Love.. ahh.. such a beautious thing. Love.. when nothing around you matters.. and everything can be made okay with a hug.. when it doesn't matter what your friends think, or what your parents say, just as long as you have that person.. when you look into their eyes, you see your best friend.. and you know you could never trade them for anything.. you could find your way home in their eyes, and you know they would always be honest with you... always be there for you, always be caring.. and apologize for the smallest things just to make sure there's no fighting.. love can be explained in anything from a kiss, to a love note.. to a glance, it just depends on how you look at it.
♥ Ashleigh
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Love can hit at almost any age. I agree with the list Perfect Pixie presents, with some additions.
Love is...
...When you just want to be with that person, no matter what you're doing, even if it's just sitting there.
...When you would rather see the person and spend at least several hours with him/her even if you couldn't kiss/have sex/feel up.
...When everything you do, from eating to listening to music to reading of any kind reminds you of him/her.
...When you'd stand just outside the door if he/she needed to be alone, ready to go in as soon as he/she needed you.
...When all you need is for him/her to smile and know you love him/her, and the world shatters with the first tear he/she sheds.
~Kura
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omg, you're soooo right. I can't stand it when people are in such a hurry to grow up, then they long to be children again. Girls at my school always so "I love Brandon, I love Kyle" When they've gone out for like, 3 minutes.
I consider love something where you can just be yourself around each other and tell each other everything. When you're around him or her you feel your best, like you can do anything you want. The butterflies in your stomach flutter everywhere. Love is where you can laugh about things so ridiculous. That's what I consider love.
~MoRtY~
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when they care about you and always put you first. are more than nice to you. dont care if you do stuff or not. treat your right. be sweet to you. stick up for you!
uh, Im inlove... :)
cupcake!
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you can't really it to be "love" until your an adult.
~Alyssa
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I don't think falling in love really comes with an age. You could be 13 and in love or you could be 55 and in love. Only you can tell what love is. So, I consider it to be, whatever age your at, place or time, you could be in love.
♥ Krissy
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I don't think that most 13-16 year olds find love but I do believe that some do. Love is different for everyone, there is aboslutly no definition that goes for everyone. It's just what you want to believe it is and what you are capable of feeling. For kids and teenagers a lot of time they Believe they are in love, but they're not. And who cares? As long as they're not getting into trouble... let them think it. They will realize later on that they didn't, or maybe they did.
~Follow your ♥~ hehe ♥
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love is when you are in a very serious relationship, not one thats only lasted for about 2 weeks. love is very hard to describe, beleive me you'll know what it is when you experience it!
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You know what? I totally agree with you. I think people try too hard to grow up fast. It's not worth it. I mean, when you're like 18, you're going to be wishing you were twelve again. I think love is when you know who the right person is. You've gone through tons of people trying to find that right person and then, BAM! It hits you and you just know...love is when you find somebody that you can be yourself around and not be embarressed. Hope I helped!
((~)) C ((~))
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Love is when you can't stop thinking about someone and wanting to be with them forever. Yes, being in love between 13-16 is really young but everyone has a different maturity level.
-Karen
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Really, there are different kinds of ways to think of love. Basically, its what you feel in your heart....like you feel like you can be with that one special someone for the rest of your life.....
When your around the ages 13-16 a lot of teens our age are gonna say that they "love" someone....in other words, we're just all naive and we dont know what we want. Even little kids say that they love their little boyfriends or girlfriends. I used to say that i loved my past little boyfriends..but now that im a little older, I finally know the importance of saying "i love you" to someone. Thats why i havent said it anymore.
hope i helped
~Sammie~
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Well..the saying, "You can fall in love at any age" is partially true...some people dont fall in love until they are in their 20s or so, or maybe even older..it really just depends on the people, although, some people do think they are in love, but they really arent..but theres no exact age for when you can fall in love, but once you do, youll know
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Yes 13-16 is a young age to think about "the one". Love is a compclicated thing, and could sometimes end in disaster. But if I could explain love to you it will be this: Love is trust, someone you can share your deepest secrets with. Someone to make you laugh, someone romantic. Someone to tell you you're beautiful when you look absolutely horrible. Someone your comfortable to be around and simply just be YOU. I know I'm young, but from my experiences that's what I'd like love to be when I find "the one". It's a bond that cannot be broken no matter what.
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well all i can say is that when I was young (many moons ago lol) I definately felt love, similarly to how i do now. By love I mean that strong sensation where you feel like theres a rugby team jumping in your stomach every time you think of the girl in question. The kind of feeling where you would risk your life for her. Recently someone asked if you could feel love in 8th grade- I know i certainly could.
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Yes, 13-16 is young but not all 13-16 year olds are of the same level of maturity.
Love is hard to explain, it's a feeling more than anything. It's something you can't force, it just comes to you. I guess it's a really special bond between two people that is incredibly hard to break, it's alot more than just liking someone. When they are your everything and you literally can't live without them. I don't believe in puppy love. Love is love and that is that, you don't just feel a different kind of love because you are young.
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I know 13-16 is a young age to say you're in love, but i guess it could happen...i mean it happened to me at least. I consider love as being a feeling. I got this out of a book a while ago...maybe this will help you:
Love is…
…When you feel something more than friendship but can’t quite describe it.
…When you begin seeing someone in a very positive light.
…Suddenly being nervous, shy and unable to think of anything to say whenever you are near a certain someone.
…Wanting to be close to someone, both emotionally and physically.
…Being excited about going to school because you know you are going to see him or her.
…Wanting to look your very best when you know you will be seeing him or her.
…Caring for this other person in ways you haven’t cared before.
…Not hearing a word your science teacher said because you spent the entire class thinking about, or, better yet, staring at, him or her.
…Wanting nothing more than to see that person smile.
…Growing faint when that person smiles at you.
…Not caring if your friends don’t think he/she is the cutest guy/girl in the world because you do.
…Being willing to stick around and work things out when difficulties start arising.
…Rushing home to call or be called by him or her.
…Being able to be smart and fun around everybody until he/she shows up and then you are unable to say anything that even makes sense.
…Listening to the words to songs that you never bothered to listen to before.
…Wanting to read poetry in hopes it will express what it is that you are feeling.
…Thinking that everything he/she does is so incredible. You’ve never met anyone so interesting, so funny or so cute!
It might not be exactly what love is, but it is true, all of these things. And i believe you can be in love at any age. It's not something that comes with age...its just something that comes.
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Yeah i have notice that too. I think there more in puupy love. I think love is when you cant get the person out of your head and think about him all the time. When you get with him you know everything is going to be alright. You fell like you can tell him everything and he wont care if you do dumb stuff and make fool of your self in public.You arent afraid to tell him that you love him cause you know he will say it back and mean it! <---what i think. ya i havent been in love yet
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