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okay.... i really like this kid... but he has no idea, and ii dont kno what to do... he just broke up with his girlfriend..((a couple of months ago)) and is finally free.lOl soo what should ii do?? ii really like him!!!ii also talk to him on AIM... but ii dont kno what to say to him..pleaze help me with that 2!


lOve...
troubled love life (link)
it may be good for you to calmly tell him ! you never know, he may feel exactly how you do, and is just too afraid to let you know ! don't be afraid to tell him how you feel, it could turn out for the best ! :) let me know if things go good !


Hi. Could anyone tell me some good songs to
work out to?
Thanks (link)
just basically songs with like a good active beat, i heard that it keeps you active and awake while you are working out ! i do the same thing, usually tends to work lol !


i was wondering, why are there so many groups in skool? like preps, goths, punks, metalheads, populars, secondary populars, loners, gunks(a mix of punks and goths), and just "others". it all just creates mayhem, like a popular cant go out with a goth, or they will loose all their friends. i think it is so stupid. can you explain to me why people must insist on putting people in different catigories? does it really matter? (link)
there are stupid lables because people have to always feel better than someone else, i just ignore them, no it doesnt matter.. its not like the popular people are better than anyone else anyways.. popular has no meaning


i have this friend that talks about me to my best friend nd my best friend tells me everything she says..my friend isnt the nicest person and she really hurts me but im afraid to confront her wat should i do? thanx a bunch! (link)
it may be best to confront her, even though it is hard, make sure you are just nice about it, and tell her that she is really hurting you


Alright, these past two nights I've been crying myself to sleep because of my boyfriend.

I RARELY get to see him because we go to different schools, maybe once or twice every TWO/THREE months. :/ But we talk on the phone like every 2-3 days, and on the computer a lot.

So, a few days ago..Thursday, I was expecting him to get on the computer, but he never did..and I didn't call, because, I dunno. i just hate calling when he doesn't tell me to right at the moment..even though he told me I can call anytime. So, I don't know..I just started crying because I was so upset and stressed out from not seeing him anf stuff. Tonight, he hasn't gotten on, and I started crying again. I think a lot of you won't understand really, because you don't know how much I miss him, you have to know the situation better.

But..what do I do? Because, he hurts me a lot. I mean, this has happened multiple times. But like..a couple days after this goes on he finally comes online and says 'hi', and I CAN'T be mean to him..or tell him that he just made me cry. I don't know why, I just can't do it. It's like emotional abuse, and i just don't think I can take it anymore. (link)
i know exactly how you feel, my boyfriend is the same way. for a while, i wasn't allowed to see him because of my parents, but i now can and he can call me and stuff now (which he couldnt before) but he NEVER does. and we barely see each other either and he always tells me he will get online, but never does. and he told me the same thing that i can call whenever i want to, but i dont want to because i dont want to because he didnt tell me to or because i dont want him to hurt me again. i cry all the time.. i know this isnt really advice, but im just letting you know taht you arent the only one and that i share your pain


Alright, my girlfriend just ended her period and we were thinking of sex. I tried to get a condom but with no luck. Now I checked up on it and people say after a period, there is no egg. So I thought, even without a condom, if we had sex and I,"Pulled out early." If there is a chance of pregnancy. (link)
there is still a 75% chance that she can get pregnant.. we just talked about this in school, even if you pull out there is still stuff left.. pulling out isnt that effective at all


Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love?? (link)
i have a boyfriend, and i seriously love him more than anything. I am 15, and he is 16, going on 17. i am not allowed to see him,because of the age difference, and issuses with my parents. but i do anyways. i love him with my whole heart, and i know he loves me too. we are like best friends, and we can talk to each other easily. i think that love in this age if very possible, and extremely special, i mean, i think a lot of girls would agree with me, that it is hard to find a guy who isnt in it for sex or anything like that. but finding love at our age is completely amazing, but its when you are always there for each other, you alway put each other first, and when you are more than nice to each other. and you dont care about what they look like or something they say, because you love them for who they are on the inside. i have been going out with him for about 8 months now, and no matter how obsessive this may sound, we have our whole future together planned out, i know he is the one, and i love him more than anyone or anything. high school sweet hearts :p




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