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i have this friend that talks about me to my best friend nd my best friend tells me everything she says..my friend isnt the nicest person and she really hurts me but im afraid to confront her wat should i do? thanx a bunch!<3
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Why should you do anything dont appologise if your were going to because shes in the wrong no you. Leave her to it she isnt really a good friend if she talks about you behind your back!
good luck.
Luv roxie
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First how do you know your friend is really talking bad about you. The messenger friend may be jelouse of your other friend ship spend a day with the girl who is suppositly trash talking you. Have a good day don't bring up your other friend at all. Then later on tell her what's been going on let her know you want her to tell you if she has a problem because are you suppost to fix it if you don't know what the problem is.
I've had problems with this before. If it turns out she is talking bad about you and it doesn't slow down then just break it off and let your friendship faze out.
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if she is talking about you behind your back, then why is she your friend? i think you should confront her because if you don't, she will continue to do what she is doing. there is no way to stop a problem without going to its source. talk to her and see what happenes.
hope i helped.
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I think that you should really talk to her face to face but if ur really afraid to do that then atleast call her and tell her how you feal, if she REALLY ur friend she'll listin and work it all out !
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Well. its probaly jealousy if anything..i personally think any 'friend' who talks behind another 'friend's' back, then she's not much of a friend.. just confront her and ask what her problem is..talking is 9 times out of 10 the best thing to do..
-Christine
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you could be in a worse situation! But...I think you should confront your friend in the nicest way possible. Just say something like this-"I no that you are talking about me and why cant you just tell me about it! I thought we could tell each other every thing!" Hope I helped-love Madison
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it may be best to confront her, even though it is hard, make sure you are just nice about it, and tell her that she is really hurting you
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Hmm, maybe you could try to confront her through IM or something. Just say I've heard you've been talking about me behind my back. And see what she says. If she denies it, you can figure out she's not the best friend if she's lying to you. It depends on exactly what she's saying too..
-Hope I helped.
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Maybe just slip little hints to her when you see her. When she tries to talk to you, kind of just brush her off and leave. She'll get the hint. Sooner or later she's going to realize why you've been ignoring her. And when she confronts you about it, then you should tell her that you've heard that she's been talking behind your back. Good luck!
♥ Always,
Maria
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