Hey, theres this guy. Me and him lately, we've been fighting. I don't really know him in real life. But he was a good friend. Well, what happend was he made a "bet" with a guy who will remain nameless that he could win me over. "Nameless" and me have loved each other for about a half of a month now. We never started dating because we wanted the space and everything. And this guy goes and says he makes a bet after making me cry and everything. You get me so far? I know I can be confusing sorry. And well, then, today, after he made the bet. I asked "nameless" about it and he claims there was no bet, and I actually believe him. He never lies to me. And well, this guy who screwed around with my mind I really don't know what to do. I want to be friends. But I'm scared the same thing will happen again. But he was such a good friend. He always helped me out when I needed it. What should I do? Please, tell me. Should I try and be friends again, or just not be friends and try to forget him?
arialuvsu333 answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:05 pm: if you guyz have been friends for a while, and hes helped you out through everything then i suggest giving him andother chance. I mean, that still wasn't right of "nameless" and the guy that you like to make a bet. but, you have to remeber that nobody is perfect, people make mistakes. This happened to be their mistake. I would just tell both of them that you didn't think that the bet was very cool, and that if they were your real friends they wont do it again. Let them no that your mad and upset, but still be nice to them, when they give you and apology (which they should) forgive them and then act like it never happen. Chances are if your mature about this they'll be to. They will feel bad about doing that to you!
Hope i helped!
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xSammieXlubsXux answered Sunday January 9 2005, 12:01 pm: I think that, since you care for him so much, that you sould give him one more chance. And if he screws up again...then you'll kno what to do. For example: whoop his bum bum if he acts up again...LOL!! :)
dollbaby answered Sunday January 9 2005, 9:16 am: this my not be what you are looking for but here is my advice... stay away from him and blow the bet off dont let some boys ruin your life. Also you should wach out in the long run just incase.
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