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Hey There!
My names Emma, and i'm here to help you with ur problems. My favorite hobbies include: swimming, tennis, and hanging with my friends. I've experienced alot of heartbrakes and misfortunes with my friends, so i know lots of good advice! Feel free to ask me anything.

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Location: California/Finland
Age: 14
Member Since: December 7, 2004
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hey im 15f, whats the best way to quit smoking? i tried cold turkey and lasted 3 days. (link)
when you get a craving for smoking eat something that will keep you distracted. and once you survive 3 days. then ur practically over it. good luck.


I play basketball, and my best friends are all on my team. One of my REALLY good friends Dad, is alway hitting me, and throwing basketballs at me. I know that he's just joking around, but he does it all the time. And sometimes it REALLY hurts! I don't know if I should tell someone, b/c I think he's just kidding, is he??
PLEASE HELP! (link)
tell your friend


hey, does anyone have any good ideas for a band name? theres like 4-5 s in it and all i thought of is "strength in scars" but it sounds kind of like my firends band so i dont think were gunna use it.. thanks so much [i'll give you credit or whatever if we do use it lol just give me your first name of somthing] (link)
well if your a girl band and your kinda doing punkish stuff heres a name: Barbie gone Punk, or like Punk Rock Dolls.

if your boys and your doing punk rock: Momentary Silence

hope i helped


last year one of my best friends went out with this guy for about a month. they broke up because he never really liked her. this year the 3 of us have a class together so im with him alot. he told my best friend (his ex) that he kinda likes me and i started having feelings for him to. but my friend just told me that she really likes him and hasnt gotten over him since last year. i dont know if i should tell her i like him to or just ignore it. she wants to go out with him now because shes not going to the same school as us next year. should i say something to her or just wait to see if we still like each other next year when she doesnt go to the same school? (link)
o dear. i hate it when that happens. tell your friend that you really like this guy and he really likes you back! she shoul understand. she should also know that the guy doesnt liked your friend but likes YOU. good luck!


my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he idd'nt have time for a girlfriend school and training. So he broke up with me and was realyl rude about it saying all I did was care about myself and I was self centered. But yet last night he had girls over at his house. He has time for hoes but not a girlfriend? I'm really confused I really love him and everything what should I do? (link)
hes a weirdo. you shouldnt date someone like that. just direct your attention on something else or get a new hobby to forget about your ex. BUT if you really really love him, confront him and ask him why he did what he did. if things dont work out in the end. then hes just not good enough for you.


I want to loose wait but I crave candy and sweets all the time I do sit ups but I dont loose allot of wait plz help wut can I don (link)
candy doesnt add much weight to you sso you can still eat that occasionally, but loose all the big sweets like cakes. a good way to loose weight is by taking up a couple of sports hobbies like tennis or swimming and do those a couple of times a week. remember excersize can be fun!


I haven't been myself lately. And I don't know why. Ugh, I just feel like.. I'm not here, or something.. you know? My friends have noticed, my family... even this lady I take karate with asked me today if I was okay. I can't figure this out. Could I be depressed? I mean, I'm happy about a lot of things. But my life just seems so empty. Like it's missing something.. I donno. Maybe I'm just always tired. I DO need more sleep. And more exercise. Maybe that's why I haven't been myself... I donno.. What do u all think?? Help!! (link)
wow....i feel the exact same way right now...like i havent been depressed and then again i havent been very happy. i think were just missing something big in our lives. like sometimes i wonder whats the point? you should start a new hobby and try to accomplish something cool to make yourself feel better. good luck!


ok well i have sweaty arm pits i want to tell my mom but i dont know how to..like i was think of saying mom i think i have a problem do you think you can take me to the doctors..and she would probably sat why..i would be like because i have been sweating and i want it fixed..but its to embarrasing to say anything about it...do you have any suggestions? (link)
deodarant


I hardly see my mom and she goes to work at 5:30 in th morning and if I don't say goodbye to her befor she leaves I cry for an hour! I don't usally cry but I have been lately but only if I don't say goodbye to her. What is wrong with me?! Am I a baby or is something else going on with me?Please help me! (link)
dont worry theres nothing wrong with you. i know how you feel. you just have a very strong relationship with your mom and miss her, try waking up a bit earlier to say bie to her


Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not. (link)
do you only think hes cute? do you ever talk to him? think about those questions first then if you only think hes cute maybe you should get to know him better before telling him about your feelings


does anyone know any good sites to learn how to belly dance with step by step instructions or know how to belly dance. no instructors or videos/dvds (link)
http://www.shira.net/advice.htm



Hey guys =D here's my question.. there's this girl @ my school, we're pretty good friends. A couple of days ago, she told me she liked me in a more then friends type of way. Problem is i'm a girl & i don't swing that way. I want to tell her that i'm not attracted to her in that way, but i don't know how to do that without hurting her feelings... any ideas would be great! thanks! (link)
just tell her what you just wrote down in that question, she should understand. good luck**


Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love?? (link)
love is when you are in a very serious relationship, not one thats only lasted for about 2 weeks. love is very hard to describe, beleive me you'll know what it is when you experience it!


im a freshman n lately ive been talking to one of my friends brothers thats a junior at my school. my friend has told his brother that he wasnt allowed to talk to me cause i was his friend...and yeah. so im between 2 great guys here n i don kno what to do. so my friends brother invited me over to teach me how to play the drums n to jus chill...but what would my friend think? i wanna have them both as friends but will that ever work out? (i'll rate) (link)
of course you can be friends with both of them, unless it gets more serious then that. I have lots of guy friends. But it may get a little complicated them being brothers and all. If your friend doesnt like the idea then talk to him or plan something out.


My friend and i had a fight last summer. And then when school started she acted as if the fight never happened. Shes all like" Hey Buddy!!"
I dont belive she just be mad then be all nice.
She then made most of my friends turn against me. I'm not her friend anymore but she insists on being friends. How can i get her to leave me alone? (link)
It depends on how serious the fight was, if it was just something minor then it would make sense that shes trying to b friends again.Now if it was a huge fight then maybe shes just trying to forget about it. Talk to her and your other friends and tell that girl straight to her face that you dont wanna be friends with her anymore! *Good luck!


i am directing a play . i don`t know what one i should do . can anyone think of a googd play (link)
depends on what grade your doing this play for, Middle School? Lower School? High School? some good plays for middle school are: The Music Man. The original Cinderella, and Annie. High School: Grease, My fair Lady, Arsenic and Old Lace. HOPE I helped!***


Okay, does anyone know if when you just wear studs when you get your ears peirced, will the holes still sag? or is there any kind of dangly earrings that don't pull on your ears? I'm clueless and not sure if I want my ears peirced or not :/(sorry if I spelt peirced wrong...) I rate high ^_^ (link)
i just got my ears pierced and it was soooo worth it! basically what they do is you pick out small studs and they stick them into your eras with these little gun things. (only hurts a bit). AFTER that ur not allowed to take them out for 4 weeks. and you have to be really careful bout wearing dangly ear rings!


I am so ugly, all the boys make fun of me at school I've never had a bf but want one. What can I do? (link)
look, if you think that ur ugly no ones going to like you. you have to like yourself for who you are. boys love girls with a great sense of self esteem and who are always happy!! but if you have a serious problem about this, then try to wear some nice makeup (eyeshadow, mascara, lip gloss.) and dress to kill. just remember to be confident!! dont worry you'll find a bf some day. alot of popular girls havent had a bf either.


i think my friends r gettin' annoyed by me but they won't tell me. they've been kinda ignoring me and giving me looks....what should i do?
signed,
confused and lost (link)
i know how you feel! well first of all think to yourself have you done anything to upset them? if you havent then talk to them! talking has never hurt anybody and if they wont listen to you, then maybe you just shouldnt be friends with them. good luck!!


i found out my crush likes me 2! but he says he doesn't know if he wants a gf right now! so what shud i do? shud i wait for him?! (link)
just wait a couple of days to see what happens. if nothing does happen start to ask his friends some questions about your crush. and if their not any help, then TALK TO HIM! good luck!***




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