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Hey, my name is megan or megs, and i'm from Wisconsin, i know not an exciting state, but its not to bad. I am a Senior in High School and plan to go to UW-Stevens point in the fall. I have a very messed up and big family so i can answer a lot of family questions, the relationships i'm not the best at them, but i know the bad side to them. I love racing and dale jr. is my favorite in that department! lol. I love helping people, thats why i'm considering becoming a special education teacher. it gives me the chance to help others! so ask away.. i'm here for you!
E-mail: sweetiemegs21@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Wisconsin
Occupation: Activity Aide in a nursing home
Age: 17
AIM: sweetiemegs21
Yahoo: sweetiemegs_18
Member Since: December 7, 2004
Answers: 5
Last Update: December 7, 2004
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Well i have a boyfriend that ive been with for almost 6 months but ive known him for 5 years. He is a very jealous guy because that is the way he was brought up he is very sweet and loves to buy me things! I have another guy who is very nice and sweet also. LIke last week i went to his house and he had a cute teddy bear for me, when i talk to him on the phone he talks to me like he's known me for ever. He says stuff like "i love you", "i want to be with you forever and i will never leave you". He's very sweet like. I dont see my boyfriend only on weekends because he works 2 jobs. Like i said everytime i talk to him he is so sweet and my boyfriend is not that sweet. well i dont want to fall i love with this guy what should i do? please reply!!! (link)
Follow your heart... it will lead you in the right direction!


ok there's this boy i like but i don't know what to tell him i'm only a 13 tear old girl wh's really cofussed i don't know if he likes me. How do i find out if he likes me back? My best friend asked him out for me but he said no but now me and him are becoming really really good friends an i don't want to ruein our friendship. what sould i do? (link)
Play the friendship part of it out.... usually guys that are friends with you stick by you and you'd sometimes perfeer them more as friends than boyfriends. Plus you are only 13.. you have plenty of years to find someone that you may like more than him.. just think in a couple of years... "high school boys!" yummy! lol. Good luck!


I am having my 17th birthday party on friday and the theme is pink. I invited guys and they don't care that the theme is pink lol. But this is my first party where guys can come and I am worried something bad will go wrong or that my mom will stay downstairs or something. And what are some games we can play or things we can do that will be fun for both guys and girls? thanks and any other ideas will be great thanks (link)
well at my 17th party i was very nervous about things going smoothly, and i realized that i spent more time at the party trying to make things perfect and flawless, and i spent all that time worrieing when i could have been having fun. So dont think about it and just let it play out. and a lot of people wanted my mom at my party because they thought she was funny, so dont let your mom psych you out. As of games. i'm really not sure, at mine we played twister! lol. other then that we just chilled out side and had a bon-fire and talked and had lots of laughs. so dont worry about the games.. usually people there will diecide what they want to do.. *but do have a back up plan....just in case*
Good luck and Happy Birthday!


okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers! (link)
Just be honest with them, dont yell or make mean comments, if you are honest, and they can tell you are being honest.. then you will get further with explaining them the truth. Stand your ground and dont let them tell you what you did if you didn't do it!


OK, there are 2 parts to this. There is this guy at my school that I really like and I know he likes me back!! But I don't know how to tell him!! I had a crush on him since last year and people say I should ask him out. But you see, I have NEVER been on a date and I'm 13 years old!! Everytime I think about him I feel like I want to kiss him so badly. He just got a haircut and now he looks even cuter, that it's driving me crazy!! OK, the 2nd part is that ever since these 2 girls found out that we liked each other they have been teasing like "So, how's your boyfriend?" He has been acting weird like we used to flirt a lot and he would always smile at me and do nice things to me now he doesn't do that anymore!! Do you think he dosn't like me no more!!?? PLEASE TELL ME!! Sorry it's so long!! (link)
Well i was in the same position as you.. i didn't have one until i was like 13 either. And the best way to do it, is find a mutual friend and have them get the dirt on if he really likes you and all the good stuff. Then about the two girls.. when they say something like that just play along with it... then he'll see that you dont let others get you embarressd. The worst thing you can do is get mad about it.. see it as your opportunity to make your move! good luck!




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