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A crush to me!
Well i have a boyfriend that ive been with for almost 6 months but ive known him for 5 years. He is a very jealous guy because that is the way he was brought up he is very sweet and loves to buy me things! I have another guy who is very nice and sweet also. LIke last week i went to his house and he had a cute teddy bear for me, when i talk to him on the phone he talks to me like he's known me for ever. He says stuff like "i love you", "i want to be with you forever and i will never leave you". He's very sweet like. I dont see my boyfriend only on weekends because he works 2 jobs. Like i said everytime i talk to him he is so sweet and my boyfriend is not that sweet. well i dont want to fall i love with this guy what should i do? please reply!!!
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Well, you can't stop youself from falling in love. If it happens, it happens. I think you're already starting to have feelings for this guy and it seems like you're not so into your boyfriend anymore. If you realize that you're really starting to have feelings for this other guy, you need to break up with your boyfriend because it wouldn't be fair for him to have you liking someone else. It seems like that's the way things happen, but you never know. It seems like you've had a good friendship with your boyfriend so if you do break up with him try nad keep that. It might not be possible if he is the jealous type and he sees that you dumped him for someone else, but it's worth a shot. I just think you need to stop the feelings with one guy or another before you hurt someone's feelings because it seems like you are leading them both on. I'm sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear, but that's what I'm getting from the situation.
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okay figure if he likes u or not!
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Follow your heart... it will lead you in the right direction!
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Well it sounds to me like this guy who likes you might make a better boyfreind. But if you don't want to fall in love with him you have to tell him not to say he loves you because you have a boyfreind already. You have to overcome your feelings and tell yourself you love your boyfreind and not this other guy.
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IT seems unavoidable to fall for the other guy, he sounds amazing. IT shouldnt matter if your bf buys you things, but you say he's sweet... You need to decide who you like better cuz i think ur friend likes you and he sounds like a keeper. Hope i helped!
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It sounds like you're already falling in love with him and out of love with your guy - it looks like it might be time to break up and get the new guy.. Sorry to say it, but I don't think theres anything you can do to KEEP yourself from falling more in love with that guy..
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just dont really talk to him on the phone or dont go over to his house
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hmmm... sounds like you like guy #2 more than your boyfriend.. what you should do is.. break up with your boyfriend and be single for a while so you can gather your thoughts, feelings, and emotions, and then once your concluded who you like.. go out with them *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Sounds to me like you have already fallen for this guy.. Not to mention in my opinion and im sure im not the only one, but this in my book is considered cheating. If I was you id choose quick or most likely you will loose them both. You have history with the first guy however you are deceiving him by doing what you are doing let him go.
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Well from what I hear, you sound dissatisfied with your current relationship, and this new guy is showing you what you are missing. If you are not happy in your current relationship, maybe it is time to take a break and try dating some other people. But if you are completly happy with what you have, and don't want to loose your boyfriend, I would leave the other guy alone.
My vote: See other people. Don't settle for someone just ok.
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