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im a freshman n lately ive been talking to one of my friends brothers thats a junior at my school. my friend has told his brother that he wasnt allowed to talk to me cause i was his friend...and yeah. so im between 2 great guys here n i don kno what to do. so my friends brother invited me over to teach me how to play the drums n to jus chill...but what would my friend think? i wanna have them both as friends but will that ever work out? (i'll rate)
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WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: you should talk to your friend NOT THE BROTHER your friend after all if it weren't for him you would have never met hsi brother tell him how you feel that even thoyou talk to him you still want to be GREAT friends
HOW TO DO IT: call him ask him over sit by him at lunch talk after school or online it doesn't matter the time or place or setting just as long asyou feel comfortable
RESULTS:i hope they turn out great let me know!!
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Ask your friend y he doesnt want you to talk to his brother maybe he gets annoyed i got 2 brotghers it gets really anoying when my friends talk to them and not me he may just want attention try to spend time with his brother and your friend
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Well first, Just tell your friend that your friends with both of them. He really cant stop you from hangin out with anyone...but just try to hang out with both of them the at the same time
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of course you can be friends with both of them, unless it gets more serious then that. I have lots of guy friends. But it may get a little complicated them being brothers and all. If your friend doesnt like the idea then talk to him or plan something out.
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Seems to me like they both have a thing for you. You could just keep chilling with the both of them until they realize that they just have to deal with the fact that you want both of them as friends. But, if you are planning to get serious with one of them and be more than friends, that might not be a good idea cuz it will start a lot of drama between brothers, unless of course you and the brother you like will be able to deal with the drama. But yeah, those are your options, good luck! :)
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talk to your friend. Find out the reason why your "off limits" If it sounds reasonable it might help you decide what to do from there!
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You need to talk to your friend..... I think this friend is a little jealous make sure he knows that you two will always be friends no matter what happens. Tell him there is nothing wrong with you being friends with the both of them... make sure you are really nice to him about it or you may just end up losing someone who sounds like a great person and friend... Sit him down tell him that all three of you can hang out.... Break it to him gently... tell him you will always be there and care about him... hope i helped.. Bunches of Luck
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You should try talking to you friend. Maybe he thinks if you start talking to his brother and become friends you might ditch him... He probably just doesn't want his brother to replace him or doesn't want you to talk to his brother and ditch him... Just try to talk to him and let him know you want to be friends with both of them... You should try to include your friend somehow if you let his brother teach you to play drums. Good Luck!
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