Alright, 4 months ago my boyfriend dumped me because he had some issues of his own to work out. In those 4 months I developed a crush on his younger brother, who is my age (15). My ex is 17. I asked his brother out and he said no cuz he can't date until he's 16, which is in a year. I know that the brother has feelings for me (his sister told me). Now, my ex-boyfriend has feelings for me, but I like his brother more than him right now. And one of my friends has a crush on him. What do I do? I have some feelings for my ex, but they aren't as strong as the ones for his brother.
First of all I am 37 years old and have had my heart crushed in the last couple of dreams of a 3 year relationship that was supposed to end in marriage this summer, so I think the advice you get from one mother to a young lady who isn't your mother and works primarily with troubled boys wil be good, but hard to take.
15 is young to date and dating young will eventually cause you heartache. Take things slow with whoever you date.
Dating someone who was 17 is too old for you. It really is. Boys that old want different things than you do and lets just face it, the majority of girls want to get into a relationship that will last, that "knight in shining armor" "Prince Charming", you know, the kind that they make up on tv, but remember that is tv.
Dating brothers is a big no no, what will his parents say? How involved in the relationship with the 17 year old were you. If your relationship got to be more than just dating and became sexual in nature (don't get me wrong, I am not scolding, just want you to be safe} but if it did, and you now are after younger brother, boys talk, especially brothers, and I have 2 of them when I was 15 one was 14 the other 16 and they talk.
Obviously you are in high school (I hope). Let me give you some old fashioned advice. You can be the captain of the cheerleading squad, the star center of the BB team, the honor roll student, or just an ordinary plain jane. In the end, come graduation day, all go their separate ways. All you really have once school lets out is your name. If you are still a virgin, be proud. Like I said, in the end all you have is your name. In planning my 20th class reunion I know those that dating everyone on the football team, and they don't show, or they do and end up drunk and doing the exact thing they did in high school, at the end of the night they will go home and make the same mistake, and some day with STD's that will catch up with them.
Leave the brothers alone. Leave them both alone. If he had issues of his own to work out, those issues are still their, and they will follow with his brother. Do you want the whole school to think of you ast the one that "screws" the brothers? I am not saying that you have, but that is the exact reputation you will get. And in the end, all you have is our name. Take pride in yourself and who you are. Don't be hasty to find someone so quickly after one has left. YOu have friends have fun with them. Why should you do the chasing anyway? Isn't it much more fun knowing that someone is chasing you?
Look elsewhere honey, keep your name one that your classmates will remember 20 years from now as the girl that was a good person, with good morals and values. I did and don't regret it. I also get respect from my classmates 20 years later and it isn't because I rushed to the bed.
If you go after little brother and most likely his parents will think you are wierd and a tramp. Now you have lost your good name. Your friends will think the same. I can't possibly believe that with all the fish in the sea that the only 2 people out there are 2 brothers. Isn't there more?
Go fishing!
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i really like this guy but i have nothing to talk to him with on aim... i kno people say intrests but iv tried that!! what can i talk to him about
anything you want
school
classes
siblings
parents
dances
movies
weather
likes
dislikes
friends
not friends
ex's
pets
what ever you feel interested in that day
^*^haylerz^*^
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In my school should I do lacrosse or track? I like them both but I'm not sure which to try out for. Can someone give me their opionon? Please don't say one is better than the other give me reasons why. Thank you!
lacrosse and track are both fun sports to play i myself am in track and i love it if i were you i'd go out for both of them as longas they don't occur around the same time and if they do choose the oneyou feel most comfortable doing and the one you think you'll have the most fun doing
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Okay...well i know this is weird..but i definetly need help lol. See everytime theres like a hott guy or jus even a cute one that like talks to me or is looking at me, even jus for a second, i start to turn red. AND the worst part is i don't even like them! I mean maybe it's because im shy...but im not really that shy. I don't know wat to do about it...but like i can feel my face get red, and when they're lookin at me i get embarrassed cuz know that they can see my face red... So wat can i do to make it stop...or at least control is better?!!
u know what my face gets red all the time
even if i'm just laughing or just warm
i asked my mom and other people what to do
and i didn't really find an answer
just be yourself and if your face gets red
they'll just have to deal with it
besides a natural blush is cute
or so my mom thinks
hope it help
haylerz
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hey
i'm a 16 year old gurl and i just recently started going out with one of my friends(gurl)and i dont know if i'm bi but i think i like her....anyways when i'm not with her i think about her but when i'm with her it feels odd and i dunno i just dont know how to act.....from what you here does this sound normal to you? and if i get anything like.....no its not normal cuz your with a gurl....i will give a very low rating anyways thx in advance to those who help!
some people say not normal
some say awkward
some say weird
but i say
its perfectly normal
you're 16 you've got your whole life to experiment and find out whats right for you. If dating women is something you're unsure about go right ahead and do it and find out the answer instead of sitting in your room and wondering. And since you might not have done this before feeling odd and weird around her is normal and you have nothing to feel ashamed of either
hop it helps
haylerz
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im a freshman n lately ive been talking to one of my friends brothers thats a junior at my school. my friend has told his brother that he wasnt allowed to talk to me cause i was his friend...and yeah. so im between 2 great guys here n i don kno what to do. so my friends brother invited me over to teach me how to play the drums n to jus chill...but what would my friend think? i wanna have them both as friends but will that ever work out? (i'll rate)
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO: you should talk to your friend NOT THE BROTHER your friend after all if it weren't for him you would have never met hsi brother tell him how you feel that even thoyou talk to him you still want to be GREAT friends
HOW TO DO IT: call him ask him over sit by him at lunch talk after school or online it doesn't matter the time or place or setting just as long asyou feel comfortable
RESULTS:i hope they turn out great let me know!!
~*haylerz*~
^hOnEySuCkLe43^
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i was at my friends birthday party and she liked this guy and so i kind of forced him in the direction of asking her out. And i am not really sure that he wanted to. But then i have been talking to him online and a couple times on the phone and i have started to like him.I have hung out with him a couple times. Then the most recent one is when me, my friend and him just went to her room and watched a movie. I wasn't really watching the movie all that much because i was drawing but my friend said that he wasnt really watching the movie either cuz he was watching me.
Then later on in the movie he moved really close and started drawing with me and i dont know why but when he touched me it made my heart beat faster. But right after the movie was over he had to go because he was going somewhere with his girlfriend and some friends. Since then everytime i am online he isnt on and everytime i have an away message up he gets on and leaves me messages like hey or why are you always gone or come back.i don't know if he likes his girlfriend but i am too afraid to ask him. what should i do? i want to tell him that i like him but i am not sure if i should, what do you think? help me please.
i know you are suppose to care for your friends feelings so maybe you should ask her if she still likes him if she does and she doesn't know that u like him i think ushould tell her first after all SHE LIKES HIM TOO and after you guys hve talked it wouuld then be okay to tell him that you like him never be afraid and even ifhe likes his girlfriend he still should know because deep down inside each and every one of us is a SECRET and his might be that he likesyou too SO TAKE A CHANCE AND BE BOLD faceyour fears adn tell him how you feel the worst that could happen is he says he likes you but only as a friend and then WHO KNOWS in time maybe you two will grow to be more than friends........HOPE IT HELPS love HAYLERZ
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o0ok.. my best friend well she claims we are best friends and i love her to death. but she is aloud to have more friends but if i go hang out with anyother friend she like gets upset with me n im like o0ok how n the heck is this fair. so if you could help me that would be wonderful ik so confused n have no idea what to do.
thanks
Megan
i think u should talk toher maybe she doesn't realize what she is doing talk it over adn work things out and if it continues to happen well then obviouslyshe isnt' as good of a friend she claims to be HOPE IT HELPS love HAYLERZ
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Ok, I like someone and they are a senior in high school. I know that we will never be together, but I can't help getting that funny feeling in my stomach whenever I am around them. Whenever they talk to me I feel like I am on top of the world. I don't want that feeling to go away. When I see them with someone else, I get jealous and I don't like being like that. What should I do?
one thing you could do is talk to him if u guys are good enough friends where you can talk to each other this should be no problem tell him how you feel and who knows maybe he feels the same HOPE IT HELPS love HAYLERZ
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I like my boyfriend, and i like to be around him. but im not sure if i really like/love him. Im 15/f. He says he likes me too, but we dont really have that much in common. I had my heart broken in the past and well i really dont want it to happen again so i was wondering if maybe thats why im not really into this guy. I want to be because he is awesome and one of the nicest guys i have ever met, but sometimes i think about things to much and then i start thinking he really isnt that interested in me. What would you do in this situation?
if i were u i'd five it somem time right now he may seem like a perfect guy but in time the real him will start to come out and youll see how he really is
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I want to workout my legs. i have no idea how though. im not even sure how to do squats right. pleez help! ( i also want ot kno a website that tells you if u are underweight/overweight... i used to have it but i lost it)
squats are not the only way to work out your legs on workout i find HARD and PAINFUL yet satisfying is to do wall sits all you have to do is lean kup agains teh wall in a sitting position depending on howlon gyou can hold it will vary from person to person but i would start out with a minute hope it helps Love, Haylerz
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