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i was at my friends birthday party and she liked this guy and so i kind of forced him in the direction of asking her out. And i am not really sure that he wanted to. But then i have been talking to him online and a couple times on the phone and i have started to like him.I have hung out with him a couple times. Then the most recent one is when me, my friend and him just went to her room and watched a movie. I wasn't really watching the movie all that much because i was drawing but my friend said that he wasnt really watching the movie either cuz he was watching me.
Then later on in the movie he moved really close and started drawing with me and i dont know why but when he touched me it made my heart beat faster. But right after the movie was over he had to go because he was going somewhere with his girlfriend and some friends. Since then everytime i am online he isnt on and everytime i have an away message up he gets on and leaves me messages like hey or why are you always gone or come back.i don't know if he likes his girlfriend but i am too afraid to ask him. what should i do? i want to tell him that i like him but i am not sure if i should, what do you think? help me please.
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it sounds like he likes you more then his girlfriend. i would talk to him..if he does like you i would wait untill they break up and then tell you him you like him! i bet if he doesnt like her they aren't gonna last much longer! and if your friend thinks he was watching you instead of her or the movie thats another sign that he likes you and it probably wont last much longer! just wait and see what happens! ya'll will probably end up together sooner or later! i hope i helped! rate me please!
-NiCoLe-
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i know you are suppose to care for your friends feelings so maybe you should ask her if she still likes him if she does and she doesn't know that u like him i think ushould tell her first after all SHE LIKES HIM TOO and after you guys hve talked it wouuld then be okay to tell him that you like him never be afraid and even ifhe likes his girlfriend he still should know because deep down inside each and every one of us is a SECRET and his might be that he likesyou too SO TAKE A CHANCE AND BE BOLD faceyour fears adn tell him how you feel the worst that could happen is he says he likes you but only as a friend and then WHO KNOWS in time maybe you two will grow to be more than friends........HOPE IT HELPS love HAYLERZ
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just remember the saying chicks before dicks. If your friend is a good enough friend then you don't want to lose her over a guy. Talk to him slowly sliding in the question about whether or not he likes his girlfriend. If he says yes. and it sounds like he is mad. just say that you heard that he liked someone else. or it looked like the were mad at each other today. little things like that work! good luck. hope everything works out.
♥ Katie
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he may like his girlfriend but it seems that he has a crush on you. you should tell him that you like him and see how things go from there. ask him how he feels about you. tell him you would like to know. also if he likes you and tells you so then ask him how he feels about his girlfriend, your friend. tell you have are feeling some mixed emotions and have been getting mixed signals from him and need to know where you guys stand. that should be pretty understandable for him and hopefully he will talk to you and let you know. so bring it up in a convo on the computer or when you are hanging out, as long as your friend, his gf, isnt around to over hear your feelings about him and his about you.
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Whatever you do, dont bring up his gf, because then he will obviously know that sumthins up, and he'll get kinda worried ya know? I know what your talking about with the gf and everything, but dont get yuor hopes up, cause then youll probably end up dissappointed. Time will tell if he realy likes you or not, but if yuor desperate, tell him, and you never know=)
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o0ok...hun everytime ive seen that happen the girl that hook the couple up always seems to like the guy. you just didnt relize it at the time cuz uyou wanted your friend to be happy. thats a bummer for you now tho cuz you really cant get wit him.
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When you're alone with him, casually ask him about his gf. Be like, "So how's your gf?" Act like you really care, and not because you want him. See what he says. If he says she's good and he loves her and stuff, you're just gonna have to accept it. I think he really likes you, so when/if he breaks up with her, I think he'll go to you. If he says the relationship isn't working out that great, that's a good thing. Because he'll eventually break up with her. Ok, now if they do eventually break up, what you have to do is be there for him (if he's even sad). If not, then ya. Now the hard part. Asking him out. I know a way that if he says no, you won't feel embarrassed and he won't even know you were asking him out. You go up to him while you're alone and casually say, "OMG, my friends won't stop bugging me!" When he asks you why they're bugging you, you say, "They keep saying we'd be soooo cute together and they won't stop. Idk, what do you think?" Then see what he says. If he says yes, there ya go, you have a new bf, congratulations! If he says no, say "Ya I don't either, we're better off as just friends." Sounds good, right? And if you still like him if he says no, you can't go out with him, so look for other guys, and it'll help you get over it. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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i would talk to him if i was you...if he likes you, maybe he'll break up with his g/f...if not, wait until he does...then invite him to watch a movie at your house or go to the movies cause he seems pretty good at wining you over...you never know...maybe you wont even see the movie you guys go too ;) good luck!!!
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I thnk you should tell him you like him.. jus tell him whats on your mind.. i think he might like you.. ~*DEZ*~
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just one day be liek so how is your realationship with your girlfriend????? and all that shit, liek say this also," look we've now hung out and stuff liek that and i think we are or look liek more than just friends,,,,,so do u liek me????hope ihelp happy valentines(((indeed2)))
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if he likes you and you like him..i think you should tell him how you feel, i mean he wouldnt be leaving little hints that he likes you if he didnt. I know he has a girlfriend but if he wants to be happy with you then he should be with you.. the girlfriend should just back off even though she was 1st. But babe, just tlk to him..ask him what he thinks and then go from there!
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i would just say it. just say something like i like you more than a friend and i hope that doesnt bother you. just ask him if hes happy with his girlfriend. thats what i would do
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