mY nAmE iS NiCoLe! i HoPe i HeLp bY GiViNg gOoD aDvIcE! YoU dOnt hAvE 2 LeAvE YoUr NaMe..i UnDeRsTaNd iTs PrObAblY pErSoNaL! BuT JuSt ReMeMbEr i dO CaRe, sO YoU cAn aSk mE aNyThInG!
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what doi don if my friend keeps backstabbing me? (link)
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just dont hang around her b/c obviously if she is gonna backstab u shes not a true friend! as hard as it is not to hang around that person, its better not to than to get backstabed! u know what i mean?
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well. im fourteen, and my mom won't let me wear thongs yet!!! my sister said if i asked her she probably would say yeah, my sisters like 28.. i have thongs and stuff, but i want to be able to bbuy them with my mom, we were in rue21. and thongs are like .99 cents each, so i thought i'd buy my friends each one for christmas, my mom let me. but she won't let me get any!!! its not like im gunna let it hang out or anything, my panty line ALWAYS shows, and people pick on me for it. what should i do? I've tried without underwear, and find it completely uncomfortable. how old were u when your mom let you wear it? thanks (link)
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well just talk to your mom and tell her everyone else wheres them and they pick on you for your panty lines! also tell her your not gonna let your thong hang out if she thinks you are. it was the summer before i went into 6th grade when my mom started letting me where them! tell your mom that your almost in high school and thats the worst place to get made fun of! maybe she will let you start wearing them! i hope everything works out!
-NiCoLe!-
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i dot know what to do- should i call my former friend on her birthday and tell her happy birthday or should i leave her alone? i miss her since she let me go and everything but... what should i do? (link)
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i would call your friend! that shows that your a nice person and even if you aren't friends that you still care about her! tell her how you feel like that you miss her! and maybe ya'll could be friends again! hope this helps!
-niCoLe!-
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omg nicole cutting yourself does solve problems. example problem- trying to forget about things and move on was one of my problems..i cut i forgot about everything and moved on! point is you have to cut to know what im actually talking about
what do you think? (link)
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well i can see where u coming from b/c i have never cut myself! i was just trying to help and im sry if i offended you! i was just giving my opinion! i hope that helps!
-NiCoLe!-
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ok theres this one kid i have known for about 3 months and i think he is really cool and i have liked him for awhile... well my best friend has only known him for a month and went out with him... and like i really liked him the whole time but wanted her happy but she broke up with him bc she didnt like him all that much and now me n him want to get together but iono what she will say... should i talk to her bout it or just tell her i like him n i am prolly gonna hook up with him? some one plz help me
Thanks so much Love alwayz
Lost and Confused (link)
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i would talk to your friend! i mean if she doesnt like him i doubt she would care! but i mean if she does care then i would just forget about him b/c you never want to lose a friend over a a boy! i have had that happend and it is so not fuN! but if she doesn't care then go for it! have fun! hope everything works out ok!
-NiCoLE~-
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Well, I shop a lot at Abercrombie. And some of my friends aren't allowed to shop there. They'd be like 'Oh cute shirt, where'd you get it?' and then I would be like 'Abercrombie' and then they'd tell me that they weren't allowed to shop there. I don't see what's wrong with the place and shopping there. Can anyone tell me what's wrong or are my friends just being too closed minded?? Thanks and I rate. (link)
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if you ask me personally i like love abercrombie..most of my clothes are from there! some people go in the adult one with their parents..and some parents flip out b/c of like the pictureson the walls and what kind of clothes! sometimes some parents just think its too expensive! i would suggest you telling your friend about the kids abercrombie! if she can still fit in kids clothes! then maybe her mom would let her shop there! hope this answers your question! RaTe mE PlEaSe!
-NiCoLe!-
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ok...for the last day of school, before break, i wore white pants...because they were white, i work a thong...im not a slut, so i dont let it hang out, and i usually wear a belt with my pants, but these were nice pants that i didnt need a belt for...well during lunch, i was walking up to my friend and my guy friend wanted to hug me from behind, but ended up steping on my pants adn everyone saw i was wearing a thong. he didnt pants me, but some people saw the string...i know its not bad to wear thongs, but that was a pretty embarassing situation, and i didnt want everyone knowing. tommorow i go back to school, and i dont want everyone laughing at me...what do i do? (link)
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dont worry about people laughing at you! if they do then just tell them to leave you alone! its way better than having a panty line or having your panties hangin out! u know?
-NiCoLe!-
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i was at my friends birthday party and she liked this guy and so i kind of forced him in the direction of asking her out. And i am not really sure that he wanted to. But then i have been talking to him online and a couple times on the phone and i have started to like him.I have hung out with him a couple times. Then the most recent one is when me, my friend and him just went to her room and watched a movie. I wasn't really watching the movie all that much because i was drawing but my friend said that he wasnt really watching the movie either cuz he was watching me.
Then later on in the movie he moved really close and started drawing with me and i dont know why but when he touched me it made my heart beat faster. But right after the movie was over he had to go because he was going somewhere with his girlfriend and some friends. Since then everytime i am online he isnt on and everytime i have an away message up he gets on and leaves me messages like hey or why are you always gone or come back.i don't know if he likes his girlfriend but i am too afraid to ask him. what should i do? i want to tell him that i like him but i am not sure if i should, what do you think? help me please. (link)
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it sounds like he likes you more then his girlfriend. i would talk to him..if he does like you i would wait untill they break up and then tell you him you like him! i bet if he doesnt like her they aren't gonna last much longer! and if your friend thinks he was watching you instead of her or the movie thats another sign that he likes you and it probably wont last much longer! just wait and see what happens! ya'll will probably end up together sooner or later! i hope i helped! rate me please!
-NiCoLe-
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where is the best place to buy thongs?? where do u buy them.. i can find cute ones any where?
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i would probably say victorias secret, body shop, and rue 21 are the best places! sometimes tj max has cute 1s too! rue 21 and tj max usally have them 4 like 99 cents! they are cheap and cute! lol! well try to go look there!
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nicole
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nicole,
i was wondering if u have "started" and i just did and i need some help.. which is better pads or tampons? i will rate you (link)
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yes i have. well if you have just started then i would use pads, bc i mean thats what i did. but now i prefer tampons instead of pads. pads feel like a diaper now 2 me! well hope this helps you!
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nicole
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dear nicole,
i have this best friend.. and like at school we are best friends and at home.. she like never calls me. i want a best friend that like we do everything together with. but i want to know how i can get her to be the kind of best friend i want... the thing is is that my mom wont let me hang out with her.. but i like the person she brings out in me... what can i do.. sorry so long!
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First off I would talk to your mom about her! Tell her that she is a really good friend, and you like the person she brings out in you! Also add that she is your best friend, and that you want her to get to like her more! After you talk to her if your mom starts to let you hang out with her then call her and try to make plans! Maybe that will get you off to a start of making her the best friend that you want! I hope I helped! Rate me please!
-Nicole
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where is the best place to buy a fancy dress not formal or semi formal casual-fancy (link)
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i got my homecoming dress from The Body Shop! it was like 25 dollars and it was really pretty! or if that doesn't help you any try Jessica McClintock! or just walk around the mall until u find a store with a dress you like! hope i helped! :)! rate me please~
-->NiCoLe!
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hey nicole well i have this friend tht talks bad bout me behind my back all the time & then she never talks 2 me until i have people over or when i have guys over i think shes jus using me & i dont know what 2 do b/c i dont want 2 b mean 2 her but i dont want 2 b friends w/sum1 tht uses me ya knw so yea what do i do? (link)
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hey! well it sounds like she isn't that great of a friend! it seems like she is using you to get to your friends and guys! what kind of friend would talk bad about u behind ur back? i hate to say this, but if she is going to be that way towards you she isn't worth even trying to be friends with! she will probably try to crawl back to u sometime and say sorry for all this, but i wouldn't be friends with this girl! i would just let her know that u have better true friends then her that backstab people! well hopefully i helped!
-Nicole
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hey girl its nat...i like 3 guys and only one of them likes me back so if i was gonna go out with him but i wasnt sure if it was fair or not liking two other guys..i need help girl! THANKS! (link)
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okay..well guys can be weird sometimes! i mean go out with the guy that likes you! no its not really fair to him if you like 2 other guys but i mean if they dont like you then i would just still be friends with them but nothing else! hopefully you and the guy that likes you works out! i hope i helped!
-Nicole
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