ok theres this one kid i have known for about 3 months and i think he is really cool and i have liked him for awhile... well my best friend has only known him for a month and went out with him... and like i really liked him the whole time but wanted her happy but she broke up with him bc she didnt like him all that much and now me n him want to get together but iono what she will say... should i talk to her bout it or just tell her i like him n i am prolly gonna hook up with him? some one plz help me
Thanks so much Love alwayz
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Addie14 answered Monday January 3 2005, 4:36 pm: Hello, i think taht you should ask your friend if it would be okay or just talk to her about him... if u really like this guy then try it but if u dont wanna loose your friend then dont... i wouldnt want that to happen.. i had a friend like that and she talk to me and she sisnt go with him.. so make th right choose [ Addie14's advice column | Ask Addie14 A Question ]
Lynessa answered Sunday January 2 2005, 11:14 pm: Well, you can talk to her but you knew him first so you have a right to do that! After all, he is YOUR friend and YOU liked him first. If she's a friend, she'll understand. [ Lynessa's advice column | Ask Lynessa A Question ]
MCalways answered Sunday January 2 2005, 10:15 pm: yes..I say talk to your friend! How would you feel if she turned around and went out with your ex! I know I would be real upset!! Explain to her hat you have liked him for awhile now, and you know that she broke up with him because of whatever..but you would really like to get to know him. then you know..ask her if it would make her feel weird and stuff like that. She might not even care if you went out with him! You just gotta talk with her hun!
Best of luck!!! [ MCalways's advice column | Ask MCalways A Question ]
nicole1 answered Sunday January 2 2005, 9:57 pm: i would talk to your friend! i mean if she doesnt like him i doubt she would care! but i mean if she does care then i would just forget about him b/c you never want to lose a friend over a a boy! i have had that happend and it is so not fuN! but if she doesn't care then go for it! have fun! hope everything works out ok!
-NiCoLE~- [ nicole1's advice column | Ask nicole1 A Question ]
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