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Moms stupid boyfriend
I really really really hate my moms boyfriend and everyone thinks he's so nice and that im crazy but im not. It's hard to explain but what should I do! Im thinking of moving with my dad is that the right choice? I've talked to my mom but its like she wont listen she always tells me to be open minded but shes the one who need to know that I cry every night and I'm really hurt inside because I dont like him. please help!
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You have every right to feel this way. And I'm sure you're dad would be happy to have you live with him. You can calmly explain this to both of your parents privately. Just tell your mom that you'd feel more comfortable living with your dad because you don't really like your mom's boyfriend that much. You can say the same to your dad too. I hope things get better for you.
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My friend has the same problem, except-
It's her step-dad, and she hates her dad as well.
Talk to your mom one last time, just plainly say-
"Mom, I've tried giving your boyfriend a chance, and I've tried to be open-minded, but it isn't working out. I know you really love him, but I don't think him and I can get a long. You love him, but you love me too- please listen to me. I've been thinking about going to live with Dad, I just want you to know how I feel."
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Ok Is there a reason you dont like him? If your mom wont listen i kno it may sound crazy but talk to her bf. Tell him how you feel about him, maybe he can try to make you feel more comfortable around him. As far as moving in with you dad that is something you would have to decide .,. if he lives in a different state then what are you going to do about all your friends.
But i have a feeling your mom isnt going to break~up with her bf inless she see's serious problem like he is abbusing you. But its your desion!
Good Luck!
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Move in with your dad, that should show her how you feel. If she decides to pay attention to your feelings and break up with the guy, then you should go back if you want. It's hard, but it's the right thing to do in this situation. Your mom should realize your feelings. Hope I helped. -Angel
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hey, i think you posted this up before, or it was someone else, just give the guy a chance and think of your mom for once, if she really likes him then give him a chance too, i dont like my moms bf but i have to deal with him bc she likes him and i just want my mom happy, x0
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I can help. I've been there before and believe me it is hard i know.Choosing between youre mum and youre dad is never easy, but youve got to think, is this guy really worth tears i mean come on. Be real u cant hate youre mum shes only telling you these things because she likes what she has with this guy and she doesnt want to lose him.. but u dont need to like him so you think bout one thing, what would make you happy?? Talk to youre dad about it ask him if you could stay there with him. I mean at the end of the day im sorry to say you can really only help yourself... But remember and think about yourself for the present and worry bout the futre when it comes... ok hope i have helped
anthony
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If your hate is this strong towards him..then yeah, maybe you should move out. Even if its just to stress the point to your mom. She probably thinks that you just have to "get to know him" and stuff like that. Move out and let her know what your all about!
Best Of Luck
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Hey, I'm not quite in the same postion your in...but I know it must hurt not to like your mom's boyfriend. But it might be best moving in with your dad even if it hurts your mom. Drop some in the inbox if you need..!
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I know exactly what you mean, my dad's going thru the same thing. Just let her know that you don't rally care for him. but be calm about it, you don't want a huge blowout over it. Don't go all extreme and move in with your dad. but let her know how bad it hurts you. And make sure she knows that who she goes out with affects the both of you and not just her. She should be open minded also and listen to you.
Cindy
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