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Im me. Thats it really, ive been throo a lot in my life and have been guided by a lot of very good people. So now i think its my duty 2 help other peiop,le in anyway, with anything. I mean it if u have nething 2 ask or 2 moan about im ure man, just ask me. I dnt make fun of ne problems or of ne1 with a genuine problem. So drop me a line if ya feelin like u need help!!
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where can i learn to cook? i can't... any websites anyone knows of?
There are several... try http://www.bbc.co.uk/food and look on there.... else try google and search cookery, cooking etc... ive looked myself ;) hope i hlped
13/f -- I am really scared because recentyl i was dared by my friends to go to porn websites on my compter ..But i deleted my history right after -- then i read something about people going to jail and i was wondering can you go to jail for looking at internet porn? I promise myself i will never do it again and i know it was really wrong but i dont want to go to jail!! And im crying im so scared ..what do i do?
HAHA dnt worry urself over it!!!! U cnt go to jail... UNLESSS its underage porn or kiddy pron..netiong else is legal... Just b careful... the best way is NT to view it at all!!! hope i helped
Ok heres my question: I'm so sorry if it's confusing. Let's say your sister(if you have one) has a friend from school that's a guy and she sees him everyday when he's there and he calls her once in a while and talks to her on the phone. Well, what would you do if one night you and your sister's friend started talking on the phone and really started to like each other? Then what if he asked you out? Would you go out with him even though you have never seen what he looks like?
I wouldnt! Think of it, do you really want to sell youre sister out?! I mean youre family are youre loyal friends and you should(even though sometimes you think you shouldnt) hold them the closest. And think that guy might only go with you for a while then dump you,whereas youre sister wont, but i doubt she'll be in the mood for talking to you if you sold her out. The best way is if you think you really like this guy, is to talk to youre sister and drop hints about her liking this guy and that.. And if you find out that she only likes him as a good friend then go ahead and meet the guy and take it from there. If of course she does like him then hang back and grit youre teeth. Because just remember.... BLOODS THICKER THN WATER!
Ok im a 13 year old female and im five two. I weigh one hundred and thirty two pounds and I want to lose like twenty five. the diets dont work and i feel really fat. help me please i rate high.
The best way is to lose all the sweet food and all the fatty foods and get more excercise.. Diets dont work at all, i kno tht up there is a kind of diet but you dont need to change what you eat jus cut down on the sweets n stuff, fizzy drinks as well.. Join a club or something.. go out a jog or what ever every day and i'm sure youll lose the pounds!
hope i helped
anthony
At school...im popular, but im kind of ugly. i like boys but they dont like me back more than a friend. At dances im afraid to ask boys to dance and they never ask me. I'm not afraid of dancin with them i'm just afraid if they'll say yes or no. It's the same reason why i dont ask boys to go out with me or something. To top it off, im at a brand new school this year and i dont really know what they would say, if they're like the boys at my old school or not. What should I do?
You should take it easy, get settled down forst and make friends first. Then get to know whose goin with who and who u like, after that then get talking to the guys. But dont get to friendly, jus talk to them and make passing comments bout liking them more than friend, but dont dwell on it youll scare them away. Just wait a little while and then ask him through a letter or get a friend to do it. Wots the worse that could happen seriously, he could say no but theres plenty more fish in the sea.. Rejections hard... hell i've wrote the book on it! But its life and you just gotta keep trying, no point trying once and sayin f** it! Keep going, give them a reason to like you other than looks and you should get a good man.. If all a man looks for are looks then hes not much of a man.
hope i helped
anthony
ok i love my boyfriend and everything but whenever well be on the phone and hell have to eat or something,..hell say ill call you back in like 20 minutes...and hell be like i love you so much ill talk to you in 20mins babe i love you...but then hell acll me back in like TWO HOURS!! i talked to hmi about it earlier tonite and hes like well stuff comes up i either have to leave w/ my parents or have to do chores or something and then hes doing it again right now!!....hes not getting the hint!!! what can i do??
I think you should seriously talk this through with him. I know you have, but tell him that you want straight answers and not a mask of the truth. Otherwise you have two options, believe him and stick with it and get angry, or jus leave him, i say that like its easy but i know its not.... Or wot else you could do is call him back if he hasnt phoned, dont do this all the time or youll frighten him. But youve gotta ask yourself.. is a guy who lies to you worth the hassle and stress. Talk to him mainly
hope i helped
anthony
I really really really hate my moms boyfriend and everyone thinks he's so nice and that im crazy but im not. It's hard to explain but what should I do! Im thinking of moving with my dad is that the right choice? I've talked to my mom but its like she wont listen she always tells me to be open minded but shes the one who need to know that I cry every night and I'm really hurt inside because I dont like him. please help!
I can help. I've been there before and believe me it is hard i know.Choosing between youre mum and youre dad is never easy, but youve got to think, is this guy really worth tears i mean come on. Be real u cant hate youre mum shes only telling you these things because she likes what she has with this guy and she doesnt want to lose him.. but u dont need to like him so you think bout one thing, what would make you happy?? Talk to youre dad about it ask him if you could stay there with him. I mean at the end of the day im sorry to say you can really only help yourself... But remember and think about yourself for the present and worry bout the futre when it comes... ok hope i have helped
anthony
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Everybody I've asked has said different things about it but when is the best time to have sex so you wont get pregnate, alot of people say to do it when your on your period because its less likely, is that true? thanks a ton!!
Theres no right or wrong time, so just get him 2 wear a condom and then there is no risk at all.
tones
Ok, well I want to make my own website. I got help by this website.(Thanks advicenators!) I have url.Now the problem is HOW DO YOU GET STUFF ON YOUR WEBSITE!!! I don't have a backround or anything. My website is askmeny4u.cjb.net and if you go to it and you see nothing and if you think your computer is fucked,it's not.My website is a blank screen. They may drop me from their url and i'll be back to square one.
Hey dude, scrap tht site it sucks ass!! Use freewebs, im not gna say the url but its . com at the end. Its sooo user friendly and u can upload str8 onto the site, it also has a background there already so wehey.
hope i helped
I had a dream that my boyfriend's, mother's... boyfriend poisoned them and killed them. I woke up from that dream in my dream and went to see if it was true and it in my awaken dream, he really did die like that. I was crying and tossing. My parents heard me crying and tossing and turning. Then my dad woke me up and i was so relived it was a dream. The whole time though i was thinking, its just a dream call buck make sure he is still alive. When i woke up from both dreams called my boyfriend and he was alive. I have no idea, why i had such an awful dream like that. What do you think this is suppose to mean?????
I dnt think it means anyting at all. Its just youre imagination tht causes dreams and perhaps u where having a hard day or sumthing. YOur brain wood have reacted like th say if u had ghad a fight or an arguement weith Buck. But it means nothing so dnt go stressing over 1 dream. Dreams are just your thoughts and imaginations, nothing else no matter how many ppl tell u otherwise!! So dnt panic jus take it as it was and leave it in the past, as a dream
I'm in 8th grade and i like a boy on the bus but we really don't talk that much and we look at eachother but do think i should tell him i like him and embaress myself in front of all those kids on the bus or jus forget about?
Yes! u shood. Maybe not on the businf rnt of every1 but u shoood tell him! C wot he thinks about u and maube ull hit it off!! who knows. But rthe main thing is not 2 fee embarrased in frnt of the other kids! Its the way u feel and u cnt deny it no matter how hard u try, so keep ya head up high n go tlk 2 tht guy!!!
i have a crush on a senior that i know at my school (i'm a junior, so no worries about any freaky age difference stuff) anyway, i don't really know his thoughts on me, and i don't really know him well enough yet to just out and ask him. so i was wondering, what are some good ways to get a little closer to him and give him the green light to maybe ask me out. i'd really like this to work out, so thanks for any help that you all can offer.
The best way... well there is no big secret really, just tlk 2 him!!!!! Get to know him better, make friend with him. U know how 2 make friends so iwnt tell u how. Yea but thts the best way, make him lieka friend, but not 2 gd a friend or it cood back-fire(throo xperience)Then as u progress throo it all make subtle hints about how u like hima and how gd lookin he is etc. Get clooser with jhim, flirt more and do nethin afterwards 2 make it work u know. If all else fails tho and u dnt wna look stupid. The best thing 2 do is to get 2 being his friend, then like tell him uve had feelings and that u think yud b gd together, and tht u have nothing really 2 lose throo it all so y not?!
Hoepfully i wos of help,
Anthony
I recently sent a few friends the link to this site. Since then I haven't heard from any of them and wondered what I had done to upset them. I can see they are on IM but they never answer. I go to a chatplace we all use and no ones talking. I came here to ask advice and now I find they have all joined and are busily handing out advice like it's on buy one get one free.
I have once again tried to talk to them to ask what's going on but I am still not getting any replies.
I am very concerned they have become addicted to being Agony Aunts/Uncles, and do worry that this may lead to them neglecting not only their friends but also their work and families.
I will feel really guilty if any of them end up getting fired from work for slacking off and then lose their house beacuse they can't make the repayments because they may then end up getting divorced and they won't be able to make the maintenance payments either and will probably end up living in a cardboardbox on the streets.
Am I a bad person for sending them the link in the first place? And how can I help them break this addiction before it goes too far?
The worse thing for u to do is blaim yourself. I mean u only sent the link, u didnt physically make them go onto it nor did u tell them that they shood register or anything like tht. So no u rnt 2 blaim. And i think tht(i know u sed u have tried) u dshood tlk 2 them about it., maybe face 2 face if possible. Coz obviously u r concerned about them, but it isnt ure fault remember that.
Tell them that ure concerned and tht ure worried for there livleyhood and there marriage etc. Mak youre cioncerns heard and try 2 advise them tht this is not a life time job its onnly part time. U know, but it isnt ure fault of course it isnt!! Yea u feel guilt for sending the link, but u only thot it wos a gd idea at the time and they have taken it 12 far. NOT U. So tlk it throo, tell them ya thots n feelings, and dnt worry!!!!!
this boy I was goin out with dumped me yestaday but he had 2 gt sum1 else 2 tll me and I thought the otha person was lying so i asced him he sed he has but I don't no wot was sed and he hasn't sed y then he started bein nasty 2 me sayin goin out with me was a mistake and started callin me a rhino and sayin nasty things i told him that he's a jerk snd that i culd do betta but then he was bein nasty and told my m8 he didnt like me then my so called ma8 was walkin home with me and she sed don't worry he's flirtin with me now and i culd hav slapped her anyway she kept goin on about him i nearly cried but managed nt 2 wot do I do
The best thing for you 2 do is 2 ignore this guy, i mean think o f it ure takin it mauterly, hes bein a dick and makin fun of u and dissin ya. I mean cum on gal u must know uure better thn him. If thts his attidude to losin ya then screw hium, u can get better n believe me there are a lot of bad guys out there! And as 4 yo so called friend, id have a word with her and tell her tht its upsettin u and tht u need support at the moment. Maybe she dosent understand u know, jus tlk 2 her about it n am sure shell understand. If not ure better off withghout her aint ya, but keep tellin yaself tht ure better thn him. hope this helped
anthony
well..okay. i like this guy and he has a gf..oh wait. it gets better..haha well he's always leading me on and hinting that he likes me.. well i talked to his gf and she said she isn't really interested in him anymore. well what do you guys think? should i tell his gf(my friend) that i have feelings for him and if she doesnt have feelings for him then she should let go? or whatever else you guys think! please help!
I dont think u shood risk losing((if she is a good friend) a friend over a guy. I mean maybe she isnt interested anymore biut she may still like something about him, u know wot im sayin yea. Coz u dnt wna lose ya friend, no1 does. And it cood bcum worse, ure friend may jus go out of her wayu 2 b nasty and spitefu,l 2 u if she does have feelings 4 him and then 2 find out u do aswell. Hell she mite even string him alo ng 2 get at u. So i thiunk personally u shood ride it out until it does end with them 2 and then make a move. I mean how long wood u and him last? Im not beiong a cynic wot im saying is does he have feelings for u AND wood it work out. Coz dsay yea u spioke 2 ya friend n she ended it or wotever, n then uu go with this guy n he leaves u in the shi*, uve not lost him uve lost a friend!
anthony
Does anybody have any pet care tips for a rat?? I just got one. Like, what are their favorite foods and what activities do they like??? Anyone who has a rat, gimmie some tips!!! Thanx!! I rate high
Hey, rats are very intelligetn creatures, they logve things that stimulate there mind, so let them outta the cage for at least an hour and a half a day and give them ladders 2 climb and balls to play with. Trust me it can be as much fun watching them play as it is for them! And i have found that rats love dog biscuits, idont know y possibly the animal renit but they go nuts 4 the stuf. So like every time u have them out 4 a while and they do something good, reward them with a dog biscuiit and ull jhave a friend for life!!
is it right to make love when there is no love?
Whats wrong about that? I mean your not exactly hurting anyone so long as u only make it clear that u ar notin love!! There would be nothiung worse than gettin roped up in something that u dnt wna all because of a little sex here and there. So y not, live a little!!
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ok then, thank u for youre advice random person lol.