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trouble with friends and a boy
well..okay. i like this guy and he has a gf..oh wait. it gets better..haha well he's always leading me on and hinting that he likes me.. well i talked to his gf and she said she isn't really interested in him anymore. well what do you guys think? should i tell his gf(my friend) that i have feelings for him and if she doesnt have feelings for him then she should let go? or whatever else you guys think! please help!
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You should wait a little bit and if things change between her and her boyfriend and if they don't break up just go to your friend :) hope it helps
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umm...i would wait a lil longer and see if they break up and if they dnot talk to your "friend"
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Okay, well first..make sure you clarify that your friend no longer has feelings for her bf. Then ask her if she planning on breaking it off w. him and if she does then let her know that you have feelings for him(Dont tell her to let go tho). See how she reacts. If she really doesnt like the idea of you and her ex then I'd forget about it. Friends before boys..right? But if she doesnt mind then go for it and be thankful that you have such an understanding friend!=)Hope I Helped!<33Ciara
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yess definalty.. if shes getting over him then this is ur chance to get him!! :D good luck!
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I dont think u shood risk losing((if she is a good friend) a friend over a guy. I mean maybe she isnt interested anymore biut she may still like something about him, u know wot im sayin yea. Coz u dnt wna lose ya friend, no1 does. And it cood bcum worse, ure friend may jus go out of her wayu 2 b nasty and spitefu,l 2 u if she does have feelings 4 him and then 2 find out u do aswell. Hell she mite even string him alo ng 2 get at u. So i thiunk personally u shood ride it out until it does end with them 2 and then make a move. I mean how long wood u and him last? Im not beiong a cynic wot im saying is does he have feelings for u AND wood it work out. Coz dsay yea u spioke 2 ya friend n she ended it or wotever, n then uu go with this guy n he leaves u in the shi*, uve not lost him uve lost a friend!
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just wait, your friend will feel bad if you go out with her ex, but she'll feel worse if you say anything about them breaking up ... which is basically what your hinting at
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no dont tell her that... just dont say anything that will hurt her... see what happens btween them... if they break up mutually then its okay to date him... but if he breaks up with her and she is upset... dont even go near him.. dont ever date your friends x... it will ruin it all... ask her what she thinks but dont tell her u like him
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No...if he really liked you that much he'd break up with his girlfriend all by himself. Trust me. I have to keep telling myself this everytime I talk to the love of my life that has a girlfriend. :D
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I think you need to talk to the guy. Let him know you have feelings for him but that you don't want to do anything to hurt his relationship with his gf. Make sure he talks it over with his gf-you don't want to be the "other" girl. You could also just wait until they break up because if she isn't interested in him it probably won't last. The 2nd option is probably your best bet only because if she finds out you like him she might mysteriously start likign him again. Hope i helped!!!
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I think that you should wait a little while. Maybe a week to a month. Don't rush it or it will become a problem. Let "his" girlfriend diside what she wants to do with their relationship. If she decideds to break it wait and see what the guy does. Don't worry it will turn out ok.
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