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ok this might be cheesy but i have no freekin idea hat to get my bf for x-mas.. he isnt into skateboarding... not like punkish stuff and like hes just kinda a prep i guess.. but im soo clueless on what to get him! i dont wanna get him somthing that he thinks is retarted!!
help! 13/female

get him a pooka shell necklace.... prep and stylin'

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does any1 kno any good love songs to make a cd with?

i'd totally go with crazy by the kidney thieves or stay by shakespear's sister

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y do girls stereotype guys so much? I mean, we may think about "stuff" some of the time, but girls always jus automatically assume thats wat guys r thinking about 24/7. And u also always assume that in a relationship, the guy is always wanting one thing and he will always make the first moves towards it. And another thing that bothers me is y girls are such feminist. ok, back then guys were thought to be superior to girls, but now days we r equal. however, lots of girls are always arguing how they have to go through so much pain, or how they have to endure so many more hardships. it really annoys me. And also, y is it always sexist if a guy does something or says something to a girl, but no one cares if a girl does or says something about a guy? i mean, a male teacher can favor guys and not pay much attention to girls, and automatically he is sexist and fired....but a female or male teacher can favor girls, and no one cares b/c no one thinks that is sexist except the guys who are on the short end of the stick. i jus want to know y.

because some girls are stupid and are ruining it for the others, there seems to be that group of females that are going for straight up supremacy instead of equality ... which is wrong, but maybe you should look more carefully at your so called "equality" .... meh, there are problems with both sides of the argument on this one

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is fear in religion a good thing, to keep morality, or is it some man made thing to control people?

religion is a man made thing ... think about it

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I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment.

What? You want me to tell you what to think?
Because I don't see a question in there.

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Sometimes I feel as if I'm living a double life. At school, I cuss a little, wear makeup and more expensive clothes; at at church I'm all "love everybody" and pretty much a model Christian-youth prez and ultra-volunteer. Please help!

stop being two faced

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This girl from church told me that she was in love, yes, in love with one of her female teachers. This girl is fourteen years old. I just need some advice on what I should say to her if I get to speack with her again.

say hi and ask how her day was
it's only polite

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hey can someone please explain this verse to me: Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Proverbs 31:30 i mean i dont get the last part why are we supposed to fear the Lord? thanks

the popular opinion is that fear was sort of an off translation that actually means love and respect ... but I think that's just new age bull and that yes we should truly fear this vengeful and non benevolent being

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There is a guy I like and he doesn't show any interest in girls, or talks about any other girls. There is a suspicion of him being gay by his friends and roommate. But just recently he's hanging out with girls that like him, and he knows they like him, and it kinda shows that he has an interest in them, but I don't know what to think about the situation. I don't know how to see or find out if he really is gay. What should I do?

I think you really need to ask yourself if you need to know. Does it matter if he's gay or not? And if it does because you want him, then just ask him. If he's any kind of good person and you ask nicely he'll just tell you yes or no and you can move on from there ... jebus you people ask these questions like they have some cosmic answer

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I started dating this really great guy... but he is really sensitive. He broke up with me and lied to me about why. We got back togethre and he did it again. This time i got upset with him. He was being a complete jerk. I dont want our freindship to be wasted but i feel all weird around him and he is getting on my nerves. Should i forgive him and try to forget about feeling weird or should i leave him alone?

Never sacrifice yer personal comfort and happiness for someone else's. It sounds really bad, I know. But you don't owe him anything and he lied to you ... a few times. Let him go and move on.

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well..okay. i like this guy and he has a gf..oh wait. it gets better..haha well he's always leading me on and hinting that he likes me.. well i talked to his gf and she said she isn't really interested in him anymore. well what do you guys think? should i tell his gf(my friend) that i have feelings for him and if she doesnt have feelings for him then she should let go? or whatever else you guys think! please help!

just wait, your friend will feel bad if you go out with her ex, but she'll feel worse if you say anything about them breaking up ... which is basically what your hinting at

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What do you do with a not so secret admirer that u dont like? And dont tell me to ask him to just be friends.

just effing tell them the truth ... say you don't like them ... and don't say it to a mutual friend or anything, say it right to them, because otherwise they'll be bitter that you didn't tell them yerself

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the boy I like is goin gout with my x-best friend. (thats ok )he made a promise at the beginning of the year that he wouldn't go out with anyone. my other best friend asked him out and he said no because he made that promise.is this boy worth worrying about
~x0x0er girl~

of course not ... he's stupid there'll be others
blah blah blahblah blah blah blah blah
*insert brilliance here*

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