i like this guy and i think we're both going to this party on Friday.. He wants me to talk to him more but i dont know what to talk to him about. i need help b4 tomorrow. Its the last day of school b4 Thanksgiving vacation and i have to check it tomorrow. So if you can plz help me and give me some topics to talk about...
Another thing.. his birthdays comming up and i dont know what to get him...
Say it aint so....
get into what kind of music he likes if you think he likes a song thats on at the party live it upp ask him to dance..ask him what he does after school [ask if he'd ever wana chyll]..you can't plans things like that just talk about whatever comes up
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Last year at camp, there was this guy who's a little over a year younger than me that really really liked me and I guess I gave him the impression that I liked him as a friend. See, I was like the only one that was actually nice to him, and most people think he is reallyreally annoying, and so do I, but I didn't say it to his face. He was like in love with me or something and it drove me crazy how he was always following me around and stuff. Stupidly, before I knew he liked me, when he was collecting screen names, I gave him mine. When I found out he liked me, I figured he'd get over it during the school year and I wouldn't have to worry about it. I was really annoyed by his having to always hang around me, but turns out he was depressed and on meds and I didn't wanna ruin his life by telling him he drove me crazy. So when he brought up the topic of us going out, I told him I only liked him as a friend. He said that was better than nothing, and with the impression that I wanted to be his friend, (I suppose that impression was my fault) kept latching onto me and following me. The rest of that week at camp basically sucked but I figured he'd get over me. When I got back home, he of course kept IMing me. I figured he'd stop in a couple months. I didn't want to tell him I didn't really want to have anything to do with him, again, because of the depression thing. So I talked to him, and I really did give him a chance then, and I also did at first at camp, and I then knew for sure, for a fact, that I'd never like him and I really didn't want to talk to him. Howeverhe insisted I meet him at the mall on his birthday. I said I would, and decided after that, I would act like everything was alright, and we were friends, and then block him and claim that I lost IM in the middle of November if I saw him at camp. I've now followed through with the blocking him. But there is a very good chance that we will end up at the same camp session next year, and even though I no longer have to talk to him during the year, at camp he's going to assume we're best friends again. I don't want to hang with him AT ALL it's one of the few things I will not do to myself. But I can't really tell him that either because he's depressed and who knows what would happen. And I really have given him a chance, he's just not my type, and I feel bad for him because he's not ANYONES type. So I'd feel really guilty even if he WASN'T depressed. Please please reply. I have no clue what to do. I have asked so many people for advice, including a camp counselor whos a psychology major and always has a solution, and even she was stumped. If you can come up with anything please let me know. I also cannot just skip camp because it is the one part of the year I really look forward to and it's the best part of my life, but with him stalking me, it's not.
arite listen im not 100% sure this would work but i guess it's better then nothing..i have honestly been in this position were this kid would bother me like crazy i'd blow him off or be like your so annoying when i was in a bad mood and he'd figure i was kidding or somthing he liked me for the longest time and i liked him at one point cuz he is cute but he's one of those kids were he's only cute sometimes and once you become close with him it's too close. he doesn't have te greatest life his parents are divorced he lives with his mom and his dad is a drug attic and i guess i always felt bad. he lies about a lot of stuff to make his life seem even worse but i always find out he's lieing and yell at him and i guess that's what always bothered me about him. i saw him walkin around once so me and my friend went up to him and were gona talk about it with him cuz he was alone but he was drunk so we couldn't we knew he'd forget everything. so i called him that night and was like listen i'm not sayin we can't be friends cuz i enjoy your company but sometime too much company is too much for me. sometimes you take it to the point were you dont leave me alone and it bothers me. he seemed really upset about it and the next day in school he wouldn't even look at me. for the next like week and a half he wouldn't talk to me or anything and i was actualyl really happy cuz i didnt have him breathin on my back every five seconds but one day like a month later he told my friend he missed me a lot and he still liked me. i went up to him to talk about it and he said that he just didn't want it to be like this so i was like well i didn't say we couldn't talk i just don't want you always on top of me and he actually understood. he said hi to me in the halls when i passed him called me once and a while and everything was fine..now your case mite not be that easy cuz you said that he wasn't really anybodys type but i'd just try it and if you find out because he's depressed he's gona do somthin like i hope not but like go suicide or somthin then you confront him and say there's other girls out there and go to the mall or somthin and find him a girl..that's what i would do i really hope i helped
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Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks
well it depends..i personally always like the plain makeup black eyeliner on the bottom with mascara and lip gloss, i dont really need that much make-up. if you have fair skin you mite wana stick to that or add a little color, darks tho, i have very fair skin i've had dark purple, grey, silver or darker skin even go with the darks as well but if your more tan i always thought like pinks and light blues looked good..if you just put a line at the top like just above your eyelash on the lid it looks hott..keep it simple tho guys like that.
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hey everyone! omg- i need some help!! okay, well this guy, Eric, like me alot and asked me out last night, and I said yes. But, my ex boyfriend(our relationship was 1 year)is coming down from Oregon tomorrow and i still love him. Help, i dont know what to do!! i really love my ex and i still like Eric alot. I am sooo confused!! please help me!!
haha wow i've been in this exact same possition and trust me on this one i handled it the wrong way! first of all tell eric not in a way it seems like you dont like him becuase you do right? well if you do just be like listen my ex boyfriend is comin back to visit and i think i still have feelings for him he shouldnt get affended and if he really likes you he'll understand make sure when you tell eric you add that you still like him a lot.
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When ever i babysit for this one family, they never pay me until weeks later. Im kinda shy to ask for it..but what should i do?
well if i was you don't be shy i'd say somthin to your parents first. if your parents tell you to handle it on your own like mine would just politley ask be like is there away i can get paid a little bit earlier then i usually do.
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