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help...i love my ex!!
hey everyone! omg- i need some help!! okay, well this guy, Eric, like me alot and asked me out last night, and I said yes. But, my ex boyfriend(our relationship was 1 year)is coming down from Oregon tomorrow and i still love him. Help, i dont know what to do!! i really love my ex and i still like Eric alot. I am sooo confused!! please help me!!
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well if your ex boyfriend lives that far away you cant really keep a relationship like that. plus, youre not together anymore. you dont have to neglet other guys just because you like your ex which WONT last forever. i say take risks in life, and give the other guy a chance.
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Well, is your ex just coming for a visit, because if so then I see no need for you to freak out. Just hang out with im maybe watch some tv or something and make sure to ask your bf so he won't get angry. You might still love your ex, but now you have a new relationship and I think you should try to keep it as long as possible, even if your ex is just visiting. -Kayla
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He is your EX-boyfriend for a reason. Move on with you life, don't hold onto a past relationships. Go out with Eric, and enjoy what life could be like with someone else, you may surprize yourself.
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haha wow i've been in this exact same possition and trust me on this one i handled it the wrong way! first of all tell eric not in a way it seems like you dont like him becuase you do right? well if you do just be like listen my ex boyfriend is comin back to visit and i think i still have feelings for him he shouldnt get affended and if he really likes you he'll understand make sure when you tell eric you add that you still like him a lot.
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It's okay to love your ex, but have another boyfriend, its absolutely normal, just consider yourselves really close friends now that you arent going out anymore, you dont wanna mess something up with the guy you just started going out with. Just see how things go, and be yourself, as always, and just remember that you have a boyfriend now.
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omg! im so sorry. This is sad but true, long distence relationships do not work know mader how much you do love eachother. he is coming down for oregon for a little while but you have to keep in mind that he is going to leave agian. so i would start this realationship with Eric. I am not saying that when you ex does come to viset dont talk to him! no you should, but i would hang out just as friends. hope i helped!
<3 Amelia
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Alrighty, well you have to do some evaluating. Apparently you and your ex broke up for a reason. Maybe its for the best if you just stay away. And you also just said yes to Eric. And if you knew that your ex was coming down maybe you shouldve held off on your new relationship until your ex left so that anything that may happen won't matter;). So what I'm saying is that you really want to avoid hurting Eric but you also have to be happy at the same time. So just think which boy means more to you and then talk to the other about it. If you cant make the choice maybe you're not quite ready for a relationship?
Hope I helped!
<33Ciara
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Well if u guys broke up there isn't much u can do. I would talk to ur ex and see if u guys can get back together if u still love him. but u have to make sure that u are willing to have a long distance relationship instead of one where the person is right there. And if ur ex doesn't want to get back together or if u change ur mind go out with the guy who asked u out! (if the date is be4 ur ex comes then go out with him and try to learn somethings about him and see if u still love ur ex more)
Hope it works out
~Reenie~
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