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Hey im a freshman in High school, and would love to help you with any questions you have about life and dont worry all if this is confadetial.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
I love dancing, that is my thing (even though i am not the best at it...), i feel like i am free and that what ever i do it is all good and no one will judge that. I also am am into art, mostly 3-D, i love working with clay and doing models out of ne thing. I am also involved with the drama department at our school. My first year at dawson my friends got me hooked, and im not saying that is a bad thing.
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any one gotta clue where to buy low rise jeans in the mall that arent that expensive like maybe under 25ish? tell me the store and how much they cost, why thanks!
old navy! it is a great store to get good fit jeans and low rise (like you wanted) i got pairs of jeans on sail there for only 16-20 dollars! have fun chica! luv aMELia
what's the best way to whiten teeth?
my pearly whites could use a little lightening and i'd like to know what you all find to be the best way so that i can have my teeth in ship-shape in no time, thanks!
Paroxide (i think that is how you spell it) worked for me, also the crest whightening strips, but thoughs take awhile... hope i helped!
Hey...im 13/f! This is most likely gonna be long...but sorry! Ok...this year has been an absolute living hell for me and my friends arent making anything better! it seems like the worse my life gets...the more i CANT depend on my friends. Like there are all these rumors going around my school that like ive had sex with like all these guys and stuff and in the bathroom there is this one stall that people write all this shit about me and start more rumors about me on! I have a lot of boyfriends...and i have been to the counselors office a couple times and each time its the same thing "Stay as low key as possible and DONT have any boyfriends for a while" and i did that for a while and nothing was changing and so i said what the hell and when this guy i really liked asked me out i said yes...and things with the rumors got even worse...and my friends are starting to bleieve the rumors when they should know me better than to believe i would be like that and have sex and other gay ass things! I dont know what to do and i dont know how to stop all this drama at my school...please help me!
This is going to be long but it is important...I no exactly what you are going through, i whent through taht were i used to live! If the rumors are not true... which im asuming they arent. your friends should be there for you. from what you have discribed for me your friends arent there for you through thick and thin. find some new people that you can talk to, tell your family what is bothering you. and screw the counsolors at the schools they dont no squat! if things keep getting worse i would sign up to see a real one that can help you... trust me i whent to one, they are nosey but they no what they are doing. Im and optamistic person, and in these situations you kinda have to be, nothing can get anyworse. so it soon has to get better! hope the problems in the family work out, dont stress. hope i helped! drop one in the box it you need any more advice. :)
Does anyone know of a good eyeliner that stays on all day and doesnt smear?!?! I can't seem to find a good one!!
non of the ones i use work eather... but i found a back- up that worked for me... powder. just apply it on after you put on all your make up. works like a charm. but one that i found that realy worked was Boby Brown eyeliner. hope i helped if you have any more questions just ask
Has anyone tried the Curious perfume by Britney...if so, did you like it??
I smelled it in the mall it is soo good! omg i wish i could buy it but i ran out of money... hope i helped, and would recomend it!
ok so my x-best friends ruined my life for the past couple months n now they wanna be friends again.. do i say yes n get hurt again or hold a grudge?? or neither... HELP!!
I would not be friends with them if they did somting that horrible to you... then you can never trust them... and like you said "do i say yes n get hurt again". my answer to that would be yes you would get hert by them, but i would not hold a grudge. just dont call them or talk to them to give them the idea that you are friends with them again. im sorry about what happend to you, all your other friends there for you! hope i helped!
How do you get rid of freckles?
ok freckles are cute dont try to cover them up... but if you realy dont want to let them show then you can just wear foundation... but even that does not get rid for them completly... hope i helped and dont be embaresed bout what you have got
Does anyone know any nice places to get Cartilidge earrings.. also, do you buy the cartilidge earrings by themselves. or do you buy a pack of 2 like i want small hoops but i duno where i can find em. thanks
the best place to go for cheep earing is clairs! they are so cute. hope i helped!
Hey MiSSc here,
I'm kinda bored with my hair. It's layered, brown, thick, and maybe 2 inches off my shoulder. What can I do to make it more like a celebrities hair but something fast and easy but looks good? Lately I've been wearing pulled up because I don't know what to do with it. I want it beautiful, full, but fast and easy to do. Any advice?
what i would to is go to the salon and look at some magazines for some new hair styles. or what i think is realy cute is a lil higher or right at the sholder. Then you could flip it out with a curling iron and get some red highlights. or keep you hair at that langth and get a perm, they dont look fake and it is so cute! hope i helped! good luck chica if you need more advice just ask.
Darrel, this guy I like, likes me back. Except...he's black, and I'm white. And my mom has already told me that she wouldn't support me if I were to date a black guy. Not because she's racist, but because of the "problems" it causes, and everyone will look at you differently. But she isn't going to forbid me from doing it, because she knows that I have to do what's right for me, not for her. And anyway, I think that the things that go along with dating a black person kind of are problems - other black guys will look at you and think, oh, she's into black guys, and other white people will look at you differently, and if they don't know Darrel they won't know what a sweet, funny, smart guy he is, and how he wouldn't ever get mixed up in the wrong crowd. But I think I might really like him. And it's wrong not to date someone just because they're black - that's racism! I guess what I'm trying to say is, I need some comfort and someone telling me what the right thing to do is, lol! Sorry about the long story, but I rate! (Oh, and I'm 14/f, by the way.)
Omg that is so cute. you realy like him.... go for it! if you like eachother and will be there for each other then you should go farther then friends! and by what you told me your mom is rasist... (not to be rude)... like she says, she is not the one dating him, YOU ARE! if you realy like him then it will turn out for the best... and you are only 14 I hope that the people in your school are not that childish to talk behind your back about the choices in guys. go for it girl! i am here to to be some moral support and so is Darrel and your friends. hope i helped and if you have any more questions just ask :)
How can you fade jeans? I need some way`s to do it, but not bleach, I`ve tried and it doesn`t work.
I`ve heard that cascade dishwasher suff work`s, anyone who`s heard about it know how to do it? Any help is appreciated !!
how i got my jeans fadded is... this might sould crazy (but it worked for me!) crawl on the ground and played with my cat. after alittle while they got good holes and were fadded. or you can rub them against concret. Hope i helped. if you have any more questions you can IM me or ask another question on my advice colomn.
Hi! I'm 14/f and I kind of like this guy friend of mine. We'll call him Dave. Anyway, as I said, I kind of like him...that way. And he recently told me that he likes me, too...that way. Except I'm kind of afraid of him asking me out because it would be my first real boyfriend, and I don't know what I would do with a boyfriend! It would be SO awkward going on a date to dinner or something with Dave, and I'm not really big on huge public displays of affection. And I think he has a few friends who don't really like me all that much. Any advice?? (I rate!)
im 14 and i just had my first bf a little while ago. it was so nerve racking. you just have to have him make the moves... just have fun and act like it is one of your outings. dont change just bc you guys are going out it would deffenetly hurt the relationship. Also if he starts to make the "moves" on the first date i would reconsider going out with him... ne ways there is nothing to worry about if you act like yourself everything will be fine, yeah on the first date that is going to be acword but it WILL get better... i promise! good luck, have fun. hope i helped!
Ok....I'm a single girl, 16 yrs old, Junior in high school. And there is a guy in my school, who is a grade ahead of me who had expressed that he likes me and "thinks im hot" and yadda yadda yadda. So anyway, ever since hes confronted me about it I've been starting to notice how cute he is and that i like him, He is always flirting with me but he is a very flirtacious type, and not just with me but with other girls. He calls me every now and then to hang out but I always have plans!!! And im afraid hes never going to call me again b/c I'm always busy, eventhough he still talks/flirts with me. If he doesnt make the move soon enough, I will. But i dont wanna come off in a strong way, or have him say no. I just wanna ask him to go out somewhere, liek the mall or movies. He flirts with so many other girls and everyone tels me "hes a dick dont go with him" but i really like him,. He smokes weed, which im against, but Ive had a boyfriend before that smoked weed so i tolerate it, he has a great personality and he is my kind of good-looking guy. What should i do?
ok first of all if it was me i would not feel coforatble with a guy that does drugs. but if you realy like him, when he calls you the next time and you have plans just sugest another day to go out with him that is good for you and him instead of just saying i am busy and hanging up. make sure that whenever you see him in the hall say "hi" and tell him how you feel so he will get the picture. good luck and be carlful around thoughs kinds of people, thake care of yourself! hope i helped!
15/f
Hey Im getting braces in a week.. i was wondering if there was anything i should do to prevent the pain.. or to get rid of the pain.. or could somebody jsut tell me how much pain there even really is? cuz i get different answers from like everyone i ask.. i just wanna be prepared. I know i should take advil before getting them put on, and i should bring chapstick with me.. any more advice? Oh and btw.. what color should i get lol i was thinking pink cuz i thought it might be cute? or would pink be too babyish for a 15 yr old? thanks ill rate!!
This is long but important :)~
I have braces to! they are not fun. but expect the worst and it wont be as bad. bring lip gloss and advile is a realy good idea. for the week you have your braces you will probably be able to eath only soup or apple sauce. Pink is a good color. and it is not babyish at all. you should not get yellow or white they make you teeth look yellow! also maybe ask your friends after lunch if you have anything in your braces, untill you get the hang of it! Also brush your teeth well and wear your ruberbands when the doctor tell you to, you will get the off so much faster. hope i helped write in my advice column you have any more questions!
I know that guys love outgoing girls, but what about the shy ones? Ive heard from someppl that some guys think that shy girls are kinda cute.. what kind of guys think that? Like outgoing guys? Or shy guys? Or what? And how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her? thanks
Im shy around people, It was hard for me to brake out of my shell moveing to a new state but you gata do it. it is hard and when i was trying to make a convorsation I was always worreid about saying somthing stupid. but you have to look past that and go for the guy you like. you will soon get the hang of it... i promise! No one will say, "omg that girl is so stupid," when you try to say somthing. but what they might say to you now is "she is realy shy and i dont no much out her." just go for it take chances and maybe make some mistakes but you will get it! hope i helped!
Hey yall I'm going to a school dance soon and I was wondering what to wear. My friend and I need some help so I'll describe us to you. I am a blonde with blue eyes shoulder lenth hair and pale skin. My friend has pale skin brown hair down to her back and green eyes. Please tell us what to wear. I'll rate high. Thanks.
for you i would wear a spagette strap dress with a criss cross in the back and make sure it is blue or green, mayber a darker pink(not hot pink) and also i would curl your hair (that would be sooo cute!)
as for your freind i feel she should wear emerald (blueish green) dress, that would be strapless or spigety strap, maybe have some scrunchy stuff in the fabric on the chest. Have fun and be creative! hope i helped!
(and you can always dress down whith
a pair of jeans)
ok well i have straight hair but for some reasons its really really frizzy! and like i have "Frizz-ease" but you can only use that when your hair is wet . .. and i usually shower at night and for school its soo frizzy ! does anyone know a friz-control product that you can use on dry hair ?
i`ll rate you a five !! thnxx!
Try blow drying your hair after using Frizz-ease, i also think that there are more products on there line for when you hair is dry so check that out. if they dont then just use Garnier Fruitice, Sleek and Shine Shampoo (i would not use the conditioner because it made my sisters hair look oily, but if you end up using it just use a tinny bit) hope i helped!
15/f... ive had my hair cut short for two years now! im talking no longer than three inches long all around. Well now I want to grow it out! any suggestions on how to do this QUICK or what to do with it while it's growing out? thanks!
short hair can be so cute, sorry i dont no any way to make it grow faster. But, one style idea you can use is flip it out and color it. i have a friend taht does it, it is sooooo cute! hope i helped.
hey everyone! omg- i need some help!! okay, well this guy, Eric, like me alot and asked me out last night, and I said yes. But, my ex boyfriend(our relationship was 1 year)is coming down from Oregon tomorrow and i still love him. Help, i dont know what to do!! i really love my ex and i still like Eric alot. I am sooo confused!! please help me!!
omg! im so sorry. This is sad but true, long distence relationships do not work know mader how much you do love eachother. he is coming down for oregon for a little while but you have to keep in mind that he is going to leave agian. so i would start this realationship with Eric. I am not saying that when you ex does come to viset dont talk to him! no you should, but i would hang out just as friends. hope i helped!
Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks
i would kill for long eye lashes just use what you have got. as for the super green eyes if you want to town them down i would go for more earthy colors such as brown, light gray, ect. eye liner is great just keep using that. but if you want to draw the atention away from your eyes i would use a darker lip stick if your skin lighter, or a lighter lipstick if your skin is lighter. hope i helped! if you have any more questions just IM me or go to my colomb.