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This girl from church told me that she was in love, yes, in love with one of her female teachers. This girl is fourteen years old. I just need some advice on what I should say to her if I get to speack with her again.
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yeah well just try to be there for her, maybe its just a phase where she's trying to figure out what she wants ]
say hi and ask how her day was
it's only polite ]
She's either bisexual or homosexual, and try to respect that and not act weird.
On the teacher thing, it's normal to have crushes on older people, but it's unrealistic, and the teacher is probably straight. She probably knows this, and if she asks your opinion, just tell her that, but be nice about it. ]
Let her confide in you and keep your opinions closed on this one. It's perfectly normal for anyone to have a crush on an older person, even if they're the same sex. I doubt anything will happen between them, but you can let her know you'll be there for her. ]
She's gay... thats already wrong about crushing on the teacher.. being that she told you and you know her from church and this lady is way older then her so point out all the bad things-trix ]
well if this gurl is gay u cant really do anything about it...u just gotta respect her and dont say anything mean to her or tell her u think its weird! remember, u cant judge a book by its cover...i kno thats an old saying but it is true! ]
Just let her know that her teacher is a teacher and i'm sure shes just infatuated (i'm sure i didnt spell that right) with her, just whatever you do dont judge her and just be real nice and tell here that theres a guy out there thats right for her. Good luck and i hope you find the right words
-Holly-
Hope I helped ]
you shouldnt think of her different in any way. she cant help who she is attracted to. Dont judge people by who or what sex they like but who they are and the kind of person they are. Just talk to her as you would uually.
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much love, melissa ]
For a woman to fall in love with another woman is considered a sin according to the Bible. You've got to remember one thing though: It's the Holy Spirit's job to convict her and teach her. In the Bible it says that God remains faithful evenwhen we are faithless. Your job is to show this girl the love of God. How? Stay her friend. Prayer changes things. It can move mountains. It can radically alter lives. Just make sure you remember who God is and that you're not him. ]
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