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Hey! I'm Melissa aka lissa, mel, melilicious, wateva! Im from cali! I am a blonde with a's and b's. I can relate to most situations and have been told to give good advice so i decided to devote my time to help others. I am really my own person. My own style and just true to myself. I will answer direct questions first of course. I read every question carefully. Ill do my best to help everyone who wants it. Please rate me.
E-mail: magicallymelicious@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: California
Yahoo: magicallymelicious
Member Since: June 25, 2004
Answers: 40
Last Update: June 27, 2004
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what should we do .. there are 2 of us and its about 4:39 pm.. do you have anything to do that won't take to long, doesn't make a huge mess and doesn't involve a computer game or to become an advicenator! please helP! :) (link)
chat rooms
message boards

melissa
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My mom and dad are jewish. my parents want me to be like them and do what they do. my best friend is christian and she took me to church with her once and i recieved Jesus into my life. i really want to be like my friend and be christian but my parents wont accept it! what do i say to them? i am my own person right? (link)
yes you are. drop the subjet around them but pray to him everynight. I am christian so if you ever want to talk, im available. good luck. follow jesus and read the bible but try to keep it semi secret from them so you dont make them mad. let them no it is your decision. much love, melissa


sum ppl hav pics n cool backrounds on their advice columns .. how can i get that?
thanks :) (link)
i know you can change the colors and add pictures by going to "edit settings" under "your advice column". as for the advanced backrounds, i have no idea. melissa
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k im going out with this guy hes really cool but the problem is we dont see eachother as much as wed like to. my mom always says i cant go c a movie or w.e cuz im busy. im sure shed prob understand if i told her the situation, that i was going out with him. iv had bfs before she new about some but i just feel sorta awkward telling her. any advice to make seeing him easier? thanks a lot :)
if ne one needs advice just ask me! (link)
i would ask you but i dont know who you are! be honest with your mom. the longer you wait, the madder she will be. let her meet him AFTER you tell her about him. or see him at school and hang out there. good luck. melissa


What should i do if im still in love with this kid but he likes someone else but he always comes back to me and hes relationships only last a week or so and he still cares for me and has my picture in his room and is always around me? (link)
hes a dog/playa. it sounds like you are a doormat. dont waste your time. Find someone who is able to be commited to you in a long term relationship. I doubt you need him and ther are better guys for you. Tell him if he isnt serious in you, you dont want to waste your time on hoim. he isnt good enuf 4 you.


Lol. This is a dumb question, but I don't know if I'm eating right and stuff, cuz I'm starting 2 get a stomach. I mean, I'm not fat or anything. I'm actually really skinny, but I wanna do something before I do get fat. Lol. I'm only 97 lbs and I sorta wanna keep it that way, haha. Does anyone know any easy workouts or stuff to flatten your stomach and/or abs (unless they're the same thing, forgive me)? That are easy and don't involve a medicine ball? And please, no pilates. Tried it. Hate it. Lol. Thanks.
Luv y'all, Erin (15/f) (link)
sit ups. i do 200 aday and have a nice hard stomach. i cant think of any thing else. sry. L8r
much love, melissa. normally i would tell you it doesnt matter how you look on the out side and people like you for who you are. Its true too. But that doesnt mean you shouldnt try to stay fit. good luck!


my sister is blonde and dumm. she acts like ashley simpson. what should she do? (link)
i think you mean jessica, and i doubt she isnt doing it for attention. dumb is not the isssue


My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks and I LOVE doing EVERYTHING with him! We got dancing, to the movies and parties but my best friend wants to do things with me too... I just dont want to do those things with her because I have Jay! I also don't want to lose my best friend because shes GREAT to talk to! What do I do?! Thanks!! (link)
hook her up with a cute, nice guy and ask them to double date. that way, your with him without a tag along but your friend comes, and she gets a new boyfriend. good luck, best wishes, melissa


Me and my b/f have been dateing for 2 years and were perfect for eachother everything is s0o perfect we sometimes fight but its over stupid stuff, and this past week hes been s0o weird, like he laughs whene I wanna talk to him serious stuff, he all of the sudden said "You forced me to have sex with you the first time" I mean I brought it up but he coulda said no. And he always takes of a couple of days to be with me but he said "I have to work ALL week". And yesterday I was crying cause I asked him why he was acting like this and he just left me on the couch to cry, while he whatched the movie, normally he woulda walked over and cuddled me, r we just growing apart or whats goin on
Thanks BeCky (link)
i think you are growing apart. or his friends are teasing him for being so gushy and sensitive. i doubt hes cheating but ya never know. Maybe you WERENT meant for each other. this could be the end if you dont get him to talk to you. good luck, muchlove, melissa


My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months and I used to be SO in love with him, but lately Ive been lieing to him about alot of little things and making up excuses to get off the phone. Should I wait a little while to see how things work out or should I talk to him about it? He loves me so much, I know he'll cry if I break up with him. I just cant hurt him like that. What am I supposed to do? :(

Confused with love! :( (link)
the spark is gone.you dont love him as much as you thought. you were just down with the moment convincing yourself you love him. Ask him how he thinks the relationship is going. Follow your heart. you shouldnt hold back in your life in fear of breaking peoples hearts. chances are, youll break a lot of hearts but 0if they arent for you, dont hold back. much love, good luck, melissa


I am 17 years old and I feel that it is time for me to tell my friends and parents about me being gay. I have managed to tell a few friends already, and they took it easy. I don't want my other friends (guys in particular and girls that hate gays) to turn around and say that I am gross and never talk to me again. How do I tell them and my parents without it sounding so harsh? I am still the same person as before..

17/m (link)
be honest. they should accept you for who you are. the longer you wait, the madder they will be. being gay doesnt change who you are on the inside. if they cant accept the fact, maybe they are true friends. it may shock them so give them time. they may be upset you dint say anything before. tell them it is hard for you to tell them and you hope you can stay friends. Good luck and always be true to yourself. much love, melissa


okay im an 12 year old male and im pretty popular in my school and im goin out with this really hot gurl one day we were walkin home from school together and she went in with me to my house my mom wasnt there so she went up to my room i just had the urge to do it with her and she felt the same way we decided we werent quite ready yet so we just made out and she showed me her boobs that was the best time of my life know im young but i cant fight the urge.

wat do i do i really want to do it with her (link)
you arent even a teen yet! wait till your older! there are too many teens even only 16 having sex without protection. try to fight it really hard but if you cant, use condoms. Make sure you really love her before you loose your virginity.
melissa
sry if im too bossy
signed, virgin and proud


im here by myself right now and im soo bored, does anyone have any good sites or something that i could do besides talk online, watch tv or listen to music .. like a good comp game or something.. ps. its too late to go outside & i can't go anywhere or have anyone come here

PLEASE HELP!

-bored out of my mind (link)
disneychannel.com/summer
internet checkers
im people
for help you can im me on yahoo at magicallymelicious ;)
hope i helped


can anyone tell me what they have for their room to give me ideas on what i should do with mine, but i need to keep it within a budget, please help .. i know stores to go to , to get the stuff i just want to know what ppl did with there rooms (link)
hang posters, get a calander and bean bag chair, get a picture board, some cool glow stuff, colored lights, or lava lamp
show your creativity
think of the person you are and go from there
let it represent you
much love
melissa


sometimes me and my mom are so close and later she makes me feel like she hates me and makes me feel guilty. what should i do? i am scared to talk to her. (link)
when she makes you feel like this let her know about it. good luck


my boyfriend is leaving for a year and a half. Should i wait for him or see other people? PS im 15 1/2
holding back (link)
If you love him then wait, but if you loved him you probaly wouldnt need to ask. Honestly, just follow your heart. This is testing your love to him. If you dont love him maybe it would be a good idea for both of you to see other people. He will likely meet other girls and you vise versa. hope i helped you. Good luck with that
much love, melissa


ok i am a little differnt in school. i like it and all. But last year people got the impresioni was gothic, but really i just like to be wearing somthing differnt than all the others. I am so confused. also i just wanto to breack down and cry but i know no 1 will understand!!!
signed, GRL who isnt gothic! (link)
Tell people that they shouldnt judge and obviosly are upset about there pathetic lives so they are making fun of yours to make them feel better. Say woow, i never new you were so interested in my life! Stick up for yourself! It doesnt matter what others think of you but whatyou think of yourself. Hope i helped
melissa


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Ive been dateing this guy for three yrs and One month, Im 19/f weve always knew were gonna get married and all that stuff,but I wanna propose to him, is that wrong or somewhat stupid?
Thanks (link)
of course not! If you love him and think you are ready then it doesnt matter who proposes. make sure you are ready to marry him however. good luck in your future! melissa


hey if any1 knows some really funny jokes than tell them to me!!! I am a struggling comic person!!!

thanx,
comedy person (link)
this blonde is watching this guy use a dummy to say blonde jokes at this show. The blonde stands up "this is an outrage! how dare you insult me for the color of my hair! Being a blonde doesnt make me stupid" and so on. "im sorry mam, i didnt mean to offend you. its just a joke" says the man. "you butt out! im talking to the man on your lap" Try google search blonde jokes for more or google search jokes.
Knock knock
whos there
banana
banana who?
Knock knock
whos there
banana
banana who?
Knock knock
whos there
banana
banana who?
Knock knock
whos there
banana
banana who?
Knock knock
whos there
banana
banana who?
(and so on)
Knock knock
whos there
orange
orange who?
Orange you glad i didnt say banana!?
banana who?
Your Mama So Fat...
-when she step on the Weight Scales it says...'to be continued'...
-she once went on a seafood diet...whenever she saw food she ate it!
Also try "your mama jokes" Hope i helped. Plz rate.
Melissa


wat does this mean: (link)
It is a heart, means love or somethin
Thanx for askin
L8R :) + (: =




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