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my boyfriend is leaving for a year and a half. Should i wait for him or see other people? PS im 15 1/2
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Wow! A year and a half is a longg time, I think you should definitly see other people, but don't become too intimate or serious with these people. If you truly love your boyfriend with everything you have, you wouldn't want to ruin it by falling in love with another guy! You should also talk to him about it and see if he plans on seeing other girls while he's away. Good Luck!!
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I think you should see other people...or just talk to him about it and see if he agrees.
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i think that you should date other people.. i mean do you honestly think that he is going to stay loyal to you for a year and a half? but when he comes back maybe yall can try again! =/ good luck! <33 alex!
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ur gonna have to tell him that ur gonna see other ppl.... also do u REALLY love him enough to wastea year and a half of no goin out wit ppl wen ur goin to be 16/17?! i wouldnT! but thats just me cause i flirt a lot but NEWAY thats beside the point... lol hope i helped
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i tihnk you should discuss with your boyfriend where your relationship is going that way you know weather you should wait or move on. if you decide your going to wait for him you can still go out n meet new people! ~KiSsEs~
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If he's leaving for that long your relationship is screwed. For life! Forever. If you don't see other people you will die as a miserable, boring, shribbled-up, stale, hairy, pus-encrusted woman wearing clothes that my 100 year old great grandmother would not wear.
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If you feel like you love him and you can't live with out him, then it's probably best to wait until finding a "replacement". Other wise, you should try meeting new people and seeing new places, just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you have to be tied down. Hope I've helped.
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If you can trust him, and you can trust you, AND you want to stay tied down to someone you can't see everyday, stay with him.
This doesn't really compare, but my boyfriend's in Vegas and not coming back until late August. I'd trust him with my life, and he trusts me, so we're not taking a break or whatever from our relationship.
My mom and dad had just met, fell in love, and dad was in belgium for 2 years. They stayed together.
It's really a trust issue, though. Can you trust him not to cheat on you? Can he trust you to do the same? If so, stay together. Don't see other people; it might weaken your relationship.
The final decision is obviously yours, but I'd vote for staying together.
-Siren =)
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its a hard question.. i wouldn't say for sure that you won't to your boyfriend & he shouldn't do it to you either, after all if you guys do break the promise of not seeing other ppl then one of you is going to be hurt. what i suggest is saying that you'll try not to see other ppl but if you find someone in the meantime than there may be some exepections ( same for him ) .. you are pretty young and a lot could happen in a year and 1/2 , you'll probably change a lot and so will he.. if you both love each other than wait, but don't say for sure that you (& he shouldn't either) that you guys won't see other ppl because you just might and you'll hurt each other more that way .. hope everything works out and don't forget to rate me!!
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If you're even considering seeing other people, then end it. A year and a half is too long to wait at your age.
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If you love him then wait, but if you loved him you probaly wouldnt need to ask. Honestly, just follow your heart. This is testing your love to him. If you dont love him maybe it would be a good idea for both of you to see other people. He will likely meet other girls and you vise versa. hope i helped you. Good luck with that
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If you are seroius then maye you shouldn't. But if you guys are pretty loose in your relationship then maybe. Talk to him about where your realtionship stands and then make your desition.
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