Ive been dateing this guy for three yrs and One month, Im 19/f weve always knew were gonna get married and all that stuff,but I wanna propose to him, is that wrong or somewhat stupid?
Thanks
sheerah answered Tuesday May 11 2010, 3:21 pm: I dont think its wrong or stupid but being married is a huge commitment.Think about all the pros and cons and really weigh out the situation before making a huge decision. Take a look into your relationship and decide whether or not you see yourself spending the rest of your life together.You should also discuss that with him and your friends and family and see how they feel about it..your relationship isnt going anywhere if you both love each other maybe try to wait a couple of years..but if your absoloutely set on it do it and dont look back with regrets your an adult and its your life...good luck [ sheerah's advice column | Ask sheerah A Question ]
Matt answered Monday May 10 2010, 9:23 pm: It's wrong and stupid; the divorce rate for those that get married between 20-25 is over 60 percent. [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
sunshine1232 answered Monday May 10 2010, 8:52 pm: No it's not wrong or stupid your 19 & legal it's not like your a minor even though your age is just a number if you want to propose to him then go for it nothing's holding you back if you think about it three years is a long time to be dating someone it's not like your relationship has just started
you two seem meant for one another(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
itialianbaby110 answered Friday September 17 2004, 10:15 pm: Personally I dont think it is wrong, or stupid. If you want to promise the rest of your life to him, knowning that he would do the same. I hope that your realtionship works out, and that you think you made the wirte choice! [ itialianbaby110's advice column | Ask itialianbaby110 A Question ]
*~bre_babbles~* answered Sunday June 27 2004, 11:16 pm: I dont think it is wrong at all!! I think it actually kinda kool!! What happened to the saying gurlz can do anything guyz can do!!
Brandonsbabe1111 answered Sunday June 27 2004, 2:54 pm: NOOO WAYY!! my mom proposed to my dad!! i think you should go for it gurl!!! if thats really what you wanna do!! if hes taken to long show him how much you love him and want to be with him!! i would deff. ask a man to marry me, if i really were in love and wanted to be with him for the rest of my life!! good luck babe!! hope youu do the thing you really want to doo!!! [ Brandonsbabe1111's advice column | Ask Brandonsbabe1111 A Question ]
MrToAsTy answered Saturday June 26 2004, 11:09 pm: HELL NO! if u love him, and u no he loves u, proposing is a greeat way to keep ur love alive! and dont listen if some1 says that the guy should propose not the girl... thats BULL... a girl has evry right to propose too... if wen im older and my gf proposes to me.. i would be happy! lol hope i helped
cr8zymonkeyluv07 answered Saturday June 26 2004, 11:03 pm: It's totaly normal, I mean some people get skeptical about girl asking guy, but why change the individual when you could change what people think and how they are stuck in there old fashion ways. In other words, go for it! I hope I've helped. [ cr8zymonkeyluv07's advice column | Ask cr8zymonkeyluv07 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday June 26 2004, 10:58 pm: Not in the least.
In society today, it's perfectly acceptable for a girl to propose to a guy. It's cute, actually. I'd do it if I had the nerve...Lol
Go for it, and all the best to you both!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
GoDdeSsOfEveRyThInG answered Saturday June 26 2004, 10:42 pm: AwW tHaTs SOo SwEeT! I bEt He WiLl rEaLlY aPpReCiAtE It, & tHaTs LeSs sTrEsS oN hIm tOo!! GiRlS aRe AlOt bEtTeR aT PlAnNiNg ThInGs AnYwAyS! GoOd LuCk!!
XoTruebrunettExO answered Saturday June 26 2004, 10:31 pm: i don't think there is anything wrong with that but make sure that your boyfriend isn't going to think he's less of a man because you did it or something like that. ( don't straight out ask him but you probably can tell since you've known him for 3 years. if he's not then i think you should definatly go for it! good luck.. please rate me :) [ XoTruebrunettExO's advice column | Ask XoTruebrunettExO A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Saturday June 26 2004, 10:26 pm: I always thought it was somewhat foolish do be completely devoted to someone at this age, but a lot of my friends (I'm 19 as well)are engaged and they couldn't be happier. The chances of a marriage lasting at this age isn't great, but that doesn't mean you two can't pull it off. If you're absolutely sure it's what you want, I say go for it. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
meliciouslyme answered Saturday June 26 2004, 9:52 pm: of course not! If you love him and think you are ready then it doesnt matter who proposes. make sure you are ready to marry him however. good luck in your future! melissa [ meliciouslyme's advice column | Ask meliciouslyme A Question ]
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