i am 22, i love helping people. I have been through alot even though i am still young. I know alot about friend problems, dating, meeting people online, seriouse realtionships, sex, computers, and even parenting. i dont know anything about music that would be one thing i am not good at. I am more than happy to help any one who needs it.
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Location: UK
Occupation: at home mom kind of
Age: 22
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So I started taking birth control About two months ago, I am on my third pack right now and have not started my period since i started taking them. I was already three weeks late before I had sex so that was pretty unusual. That was three weeks ago and I still haven't started my period. Should I be worried? (link)
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It depends on the pill, some make you skip your period and only have it every 3 months. I would say atleast call your gyno, it could be to high of a dose, and it does take a few months before it is full in effect so should still use a condom when 1st starting it.
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If my boyfriend just touch my vagina with his panis and the liquid is fell into my cloths and on my thies than three should be any possibility of getting pragnent. He is only touch my vagina not pussing and his penis is not going inside me.
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cosmo last month had that answer in it, i think it said yes there was a small chance not big but very small.
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Should I let my boyfriend finger in me public? He has fingered me lots of times before but it's always been in my bedroom or his when we sleepover. He says it would make him really happy to finger me in public but I'm not sure if that's OK even. He promised he'd wash his hands before to make sure they were clean. Should I let him? (link)
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It depends on where public is. Maybe a public bathroom but i would say in the middle of that mall or anything. I would never be that risky, but some people love that stuff. Just if you go public still have alittle privacy, and if you are still in school no where there.
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okay, so i am 15 years old and my whole life i have been a daddy's girl and stuff. But we'd always go through rough patches where he'd pull me by my hair, jump on my stomach, or smack me with wooden spoons whn i was in my childhood state. Now that i am a teenager, he has gotten worse and he tries slamming our heads to the ground. He also still punches and yells really loud if i say something bad. If i stick up for myself now that im older i punch back and then he goes insane and throws things and punches and sometimes even strangles. But i don't know if he has a bad temper but i love my daddy cause when we get along, we really do get along. But we had a child abuse class in school because all i wanted to do was cry. Because all of the symptoms, warnings, and signs of child abuse were my dad. He also had a little wine glass by his bed and he drinks sometimes before bed. That's when most family fights happen, at night. I am so scared that he is really going to hurt me. I have an egg on the back of my head because right now he just punched me for sticking up fr myself. He is a successful dentist and i don't wanna ruin his career for having him get arrested and we need his money for our home and to support us, and i love him when we get along.. and i'd cry if he went away but it's those outbursts that i am deathly scared of. is there a place where he can get help? and still have his career? His psychologist doesn't work. please help me, please ): (link)
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Talk to him and look online for annoyimus * cant spell sorry * anger mangment classes. Every family has problems and love is what is needed to help him. Maybe he needs AA to but that sounds like it is going to be hard to talk to him about getting help. Do research on classes and maybe an intervention, try not to make him sound like he is a bad person just that he is having a rough patch right now. You need help and so does he good luck and be strong. And i hate to say it maybe dont stand up for youself just walk away or aviod him at night.
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My period is 6 days late and I have taken pregnancy test and it came out as "negative". I think that stress is the problem to the delay because I have school, work, and family problems. Should I see a doctor about it or wait it out? (link)
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Are you on the pill? if so it could be a weird reacion to that. Weight loss gain any of that can cause a late peroid. Last month i missed mine completely then this month i started. i would say if the worring is really bugging you that bad go but if you think you took the right percautions just wait till next month if it doesnt come then go to the doctor. hope all works out for you
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Okay, so I know that I am bisexual. Well, kinda. I am sexually attracted to girls, but I would never date or marry one. I guess you could say I favor guy, but I get really aroused when thinking about girls, or having sex with a girl. My question is, do most girls think like this but are afraid to show it ? Nobody really knows this about me, and I feel like.. how could a girl NOT feel this way ? I know that there are some girls who are completely straight and would think that is disgusting.. but I go to a large school and out of all my friends, all of them claim to be "stright". Is this true ? (link)
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i see your point but mostley its with me girls i dont know. if i know a girl i am less likely to think that with them. I am 22 and from a small town, so i would say some girls have these thoughts at one point or time. I have only kissed a girl thats the most i have done but sometimes i think thoughts or more arrousing then really acting on it. but its normal i would say.
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hey sry this is personal, but i wana know if u and/or ur friends shave.. "down there" should i? or shud i not? thanks ;) (link)
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i do, i have heard good and bad about it. I always hear go get waxed or leave it but i do shave. I havent had any problems, if you get a cut i would go to the doctor if it didnt get better with in a week.
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i want to wear my extensions when i'm going to have sex. wearing my extensions makes me just feel really hot and have alot more confidence. the thing i'm worried about is .. there clip in extensions so they could easily be pulled out,etc.
have any of you girls worn clip in extensions during sex and had them come out? pretty embarassing that would be .. but i'd really like to wear them.. (link)
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well tell yout guy its role playing and dont touch your hair. i have never worn them but good luck and if you are having sex he wont mind he will probley think its funny and you will to. so try it everyone does something funny durning sex. just be comftorable and have fun
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i have a hard time admitting that im wrong i always blame the person and get mad instead of saying sorry, because when i say it i feel weak,mad,sad and defeated and i dont know why. I know its bad but i dont know why i feel this way. Is it pride? (link)
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yeah but imagine how good you would feel to amit and be the bigger person dont look at as backing down look as it as stepping up and being responsible
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Hey, so I have a question about my orgasms. In my previous relationship, I was fingered and eaten out but I never orgasmed. Partly, I blame this on my ex because he stopped after about 30 seconds, so I didn't really have time to build up to that point. I think he didn't realize that it takes a little bit of time and effort.
Anyways, when I masturbate, I have really nice orgasms and when I keep going, I can orgasm many, many times in a row. The thing is, I can only reach orgasm by squeezing my thigh and butt muscles together while I stimulate myself. I've tried to orgasm without doing this, but I have to tighten at least a little otherwise I can't. Is this abnormal?
I feel like this is another reason that my ex couldn't make me orgasm, because I wouldn't be squeezing those muscles. If we were still together, I could probably explain what I needed to do so I could orgasm, but I'm a little scared that with the next boyfriend I have, he will think its weird or something. So I'm just wondering if its normal?
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they may not notice. are u like clintching or litarly hands on squeezing. If its just clentching they will think its a reaction to you getting off but ifs its hands on maybe tell them you love the pressure and its a trick to make it awesome guys wont mind at all they will be happy you told them so they can make you happy.
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how to talk dirty to a guy
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maybe look up sex storys online and read one of those to him if its like phone sex. if its in person just say things you want to do or how you feel. goodluck talking dirty isnt for everyone so dont feel wierd if you dont like it or its hard i cant do it
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I have been on the depo provera shot for over 6 months. I know there is a very small chance I'm pregnant (I use condoms too) but I can't help shake the thought that I might be pregnant. I know your supposed to take a pregnancy test after your missed period.... But the shot stops me from getting a period at all... So I waited about 2.5 weeks from when I thought it happened and took the first response test. It came back negative. Do you think I waited long enough to take the test? I'm still concerned.... (link)
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yeah i would let me doctor know i wasnt having my period at all sounds like it may be to much for your body. i know on birth control there is no reason for having a period but i think you should still have one. I wouldnt thing you are pregant :) good luck dont worry to much about it just talk to the doc
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What does this say?
http://www.metalsucks.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/103.jpg (link)
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AAR is all i can see :)
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I'm a fourteen year old female. I'm not overweight but I want to get in shape. So I really want to lose weight all over especially in my thighs and legs. So me and my friend are going to walk/jog outside for almost an hour everyday and then swim for 30-60 minutes. Well this eventually get my the results I want? I will pair this with a fair diet.
I don't want to gain muscle and I heard that if you do the same thing everyday you gain muscle not lose weight so what could we do every other day? (link)
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being in shape is mucsle you wont look like those body builder women but you will look great. :) so keep up this and you will look awesome :).
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I've been with my boyfriend for three years. We are absolutely in love with each other, but of course I've got a couple of complaints. He's not romantic, at all. I've asked him to take me on dates, or go do something romantic for a day, and eventually he may take me on a date (after me repeatedly asking and basically planning it). But he has never done anything like that without me asking. I can live with him not being romantic, but I think every girl dreams of a little romance in their relationship. How should I handle this? (link)
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wow i almost thought i wrote this quesetion lol its so me. Well my bf takes me on a date and we end up at lowes or some manily store lol. Just be happy he loves you i know thats not that answer you want but its true. Or text him sweet things and you be romantic he will catch on. My boyfriend is really bad about not being romantic but he is very playful if i push him into being it, so just keep trying. good luck ( be happy you have some one that loves you and your life will be wonderful :) )
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How do you get over a girl you are in love with?
How do you move on?
What's the best way to do this? (link)
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get a hobbie something to take your mind off her. maybe go out with your friends or try to make new ones if your friends are her friends. just keep busy and if nothing else works talk to some one and vent
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I am a 15 year old guy who's just finishing grade 10. I spend all my time making short and feature length movies mainly by myself and some of the time with my friends. Also I listen to alot of metal and instrumental techno music. I read books about the occult and death, along with really funny comic collections. I have never had a serious relationship, and I would really love to have one. I find it easy to become close to girls in a friendship way, so they trust me with anything but if I tell them I like them (which I have!) they get kinda awkward and won't want to go out with me. I know I'm not the best looking guy around, I'm very skinny, tall, glasses, and I have long hair because I love metal music, but I still think that if someone gave me a chance they might actually be pretty happy. Any advice for me to get a girlfriend? (link)
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find a girl that likes the same things you do. i know when i was in hs long hair freaked me out idk why but it did. maybe cut it but if you dont want to i dont blame you try to find a girl who loves the same things you do. go watch local bands or enter your movies into contest maybe itll well help you meet a girl with the same interest
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DETAILS****i told her i liked her about a week ago,and things arent really awkward wich is awesome.But i dont know where to take it from here,i need someone that has experience to help me.thank you
,Declan (link)
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depends on what she said. if she said she liked you to maybe ask her on a date. if she didnt say anything maybe back off alittle and let her make the next move.
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When I was 17, I started foundation focusing on helping underprivileged kids locally. One thing I created was a free summer lunch program in Detroit for kids whose families needed it. During those 2 hours everyday, these kids would come in, have lunch and play games and stay out of trouble, if only for 2 hours a day. My mom's work friend help me set this up, and she basically took care of it when I was not able to come in.
Unfortunately, I got busy with college and since then, my foundation has been on hiatus. My contact who helped me set it up has moved away. I am going to try and set it up again myself this summer, but what other ideas can I do with this? I feel like I have such a great opportunity but it's going to waste.
(Another idea we had was a "Christmas in July" toydrive, where we could collect toys and bring them to the Children's Hospital in the summer. This is because the fire departments already donate toys in the winter.)
Thanks! (link)
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maybe a jump into your future day allow kids to shadow the occupation they are interseted it.
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I really messed up and had a one night stand with a guy who got me pregnant. We didn't talk at all after we had sex until I realized I was pregnant. When I told him, his first reaction was "we can't do this I'll pay for an abortion". Well, no way I was getting an abortion. So now, things are so annoying with him. His girlfriend messaged me on facebook and was freaking out on me which I don't feel like dealing with, he freaks out on me for everything I do, like if I go on a date he'll freak out, if I say I'm going to a different state for vacation or like to stay for a little while he freaks out. He's getting on my nerves so much I'm ready to just tell him the baby isn't his so he'll leave me alone! What do I do? (link)
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i wouldnt tell him the baby wasnt his because in the future you may need his help. just if you are going on vacation dont tell him and a date dont tell him. block the girlfriend on facebook.
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