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My boyfriend wants to finger me in public

Question Posted Tuesday May 25 2010, 10:36 pm

Should I let my boyfriend finger in me public? He has fingered me lots of times before but it's always been in my bedroom or his when we sleepover. He says it would make him really happy to finger me in public but I'm not sure if that's OK even. He promised he'd wash his hands before to make sure they were clean. Should I let him?

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christina answered Monday May 31 2010, 1:32 am:
While I can see why he would want to, I don't think you should. It sounds horribly uncomfortable, nerve-wracking and you could probably get in a bit of trouble if you were caught.

If you have to ask about whether or not you should let him, chances are you don't want him to.

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spazmine567 answered Thursday May 27 2010, 8:56 pm:
public? no, its just not a good idea. anyone could walk by and see...a teacher, a soccer coach, a future employer...i wouldnt advise it. and just to add, i hope to God he cleans his hands before...hello! groooooss!

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justletmebe answered Thursday May 27 2010, 8:50 pm:
It depends on where public is. Maybe a public bathroom but i would say in the middle of that mall or anything. I would never be that risky, but some people love that stuff. Just if you go public still have alittle privacy, and if you are still in school no where there.

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sweetascandy7364 answered Wednesday May 26 2010, 9:18 pm:
I think he probably means like in a movie theater or something... Which wouldn't be too bad if no one was sitting next to you. But only do it if your comfortable. In my opinion a movie theater or a car would be as public as I would go.

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awesomeal16 answered Wednesday May 26 2010, 10:07 am:
If you want too go for it. But make sure you want to do it also. If he means in public he wants people too see him doing it. Meaning people will see your vagina. Think it over before you make a dwesicion. Other than that part I think it is fine as long as he wahses his hands. I hope I helped.

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stephybabe answered Wednesday May 26 2010, 12:44 am:
i wouldnt do it in like public areas where it is visible for people to see what he is doing because that might not be comfortbale for you since people will be looking at you werid but if you do it in publice where nobody is around n not make it obvious that it is happening than it should be fine.


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pxiong23 answered Wednesday May 26 2010, 12:19 am: in a car? or in front of people. i think as long as no one sees you, it would be ok..i think it would be kinda fun and spontaneous.

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