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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long!

I personally hate when guys hide things. I believe thy are either insecure or liers. Usually they end being liers. My advice is to sit and talk to him again about it. What u could also to is make a fake fb and try adding him and see what happens. In all honesty I wouldnt put up with him for very long. You shouldn't be playing this game with him. He should just tell you striaght up I their is something wrong.

I don't know about you but I hate people knowing about my personal life. I think its none of their business and they don't need to know. He shouldn't be posting things about your relationship like that especially not on the internet. If there is a problem with your relationship it should be discussed between the two of you and resolved without envolving others.

I hope this helps if you need anything else just let me know. I would to know how everything works out in your situation.

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Hello my name is star im 16 years old I have a boyfriend named daniel and I feel that he's cheating on me with his ex girlfriend everytime he's on aim on my phone and I ask 4 my phone he quickly signs off I caught him twice calling her babe but he claims there just friends what should I do I really have feelings 4 him???

i think he is a cheater.If you really like him you neeed to talk to him and tell her striaght up how you feel. you shouldnt deal with him if he seems like her is hidding something or is stuttering than you know he is lieing. Let him go. Once a cheater always a cheater.

Stephy

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Im 17f everytime i have a bf i find something wrong with him and leave him, it seems so hard for me to be faithful. No matter who im with theres this one boy who i always make plans to have sex with. i dont know what it is about that boy but i always manage to cheat on my bfs with him.

I think you might be attracted to this guy physically. I think you need to stop adn think about what you want in your life like what you want in a guy. you need to give other guys a chance. liekw hen you find a guy even if you find something wrong with them try to get over it or work out whatever it is that you think is wrong. Nobody is perfect finding someone you like can only happen if you look over there flaws and accept them the way they are.

Stephy

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can your period skip a month sometimes? i know its not likely to do that but is it possible?

yes you can it is normal for the first couple year for your period to be irregular.

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Is it absolutely (scientifically?) important to take it at around the same time every day? Or is that just what they tell you so it's easier for you to remember to take the pill?

you are supposed to take it at the same time so your body gets used to the hermone. since it is a hermone that is being put into your body you need to have it around the same time everyday otherwise it throws your body off.

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hello peoples.....i am a 13 year old girl. im in year 8 and today i just found out that this boy, who is in year 9 (15 years old) wants to ask me out! i dont relly know what to do about it cuz we have been friends for nearly 2 years now....and i really like him but im not sure about going out with him :) can someone please help me out id really appreciate it ^_^

give him a chance. you never know. letting him in your life might be a good change. be safe and have fun.

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so basiclly i realized that i need more guy friends. i used to have alot and i kinda burned those bridges, so now how to do i befriend new boys?

talk to new guys and be their friends. try hanging out with and whatever. it shouldnt be that hard. i have planty of guy friends

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My boyfriend and I hooked up last night, i gave him head and he came. Then about 5 mins later I went to the bathroom and peed and THEN i washed my hands :( Is there a chance im pregnent?!

im gueesing you had cum in your hands probabl and that you touched yourself down their when you went to the bathroom and that is why your scared your pregnant.

i dont think that is possible. so no your not.

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Okay so i've been having trouble lately with having sex. For some reason any time I try to have sex with a guy it's difficult for them to keep their penis inside me. Like it'll be one or two "thrusts" and he's out. It's so frustrating. I haven't had sex that often so I don't think I'm not loose. I'm very confused. Please help! Thanks

you need to relax. that is your problem. relax and enjoy stop forcing it out. if you relax it will stay in. if you are relaxing than mayb the guy is doing it wrong or it isnt in the right way.

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are there any products I can use for covering a mole that don't make it look bad? Or are there ways that a mole can be removed and if it can be removed do moles ever grow back?

go to your dermatalogist and ask for the mole to be removed. all they do is scrap it off and your skin basically heals itself. their is a chance for the mole to grow back but it very unlikely. the procedure is painless i have gotten a couple removed before. =]

Stephy

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no mascara or anything else just eyeliner on lower eyelid.

not at all. actually that is all i usually put on. thier is nothing wrong with it. some people i know have to do both bc they have short eye lashes and want them to stand out.

Stephy

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im 16/f and looking for a good first car but i am clueless when it comes to cars. i like scions and am probably going to get a scion xa, my brother has a tc. or i like a jeep wrangler or beetle bug. what are some other cars that would be good for me? i need it to be a big type of car, 2 or 4 door idc, sunroof, alot of space to see. any ideas on very strong safe cars with good bumpers and what i like haha?? possibly a cobalt orr any of thoes? yellow or black car, the city car club is gonna help me make it epic with exhaust and interior and vinyls :) can someone go over this with me i dont understand cars

nissian sentra its cute and it goes about 40 miles per gal and it is a good car. stay away from american made cars i know it is bad to say but usually they dont last long and arent reliable. my first car was a chevy malibu and i had problems with the most stupidest shit. (ex manufactors theft system acting up) and that was one of many.

Stephy

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Why do my period goes off for a day then come back on?

im guessing you havent had your period for a long period of time (just hit puperty ) it takes about two sometimes three years for you to be able to have a regular period. you shouldnt worry about this it is fine.
Stephy

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I'm trying to get pregnant, I skipped my last period but all pregnancy tests i've taken (3) have been negative...if I'm not pregnant, could I still be fertile this month even though I didn't have a period? Basically I'm wanting to know if I should keep "trying" this month even though I didn't get my period last month (and I'm pretty sure I'm not pregnant)

their is a test that should ask your doctor about. it checks how fertile you and if you are able to get pregnant. i believe it also tell you when you are most fertile might want to look into that.

Stephy

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i dont know if i should get side bangs or not . i play golf,poms and, volley ball what should i do

i played tennis with side bangs. what i ussually do because i get annoyed of them at times is i put them up0 with bobby pins. where them down whenever you want or put them up.
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I poop a lot but I'm really skinny. I mean, I go poop like 4 times a day on most days. It never has bothered me but I eat really bad stuff like fried foods and lots of sugary sweets. My friend wants to know how I stay so skinny but I don't know why I am so skinny. Does pooping make you skinnier? Because I'm wondering if maybe that is my "trick" to staying slim?

you just have a very fast metablism. your very lucky to have that because some girls like myself have it very slow where everything i eat just gets stored and not used. you on the other hand your body uses every bit of energy of everything you and everything that your body doesnt use comes out from your poop. =]

Stephy

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Should I let my boyfriend finger in me public? He has fingered me lots of times before but it's always been in my bedroom or his when we sleepover. He says it would make him really happy to finger me in public but I'm not sure if that's OK even. He promised he'd wash his hands before to make sure they were clean. Should I let him?

i wouldnt do it in like public areas where it is visible for people to see what he is doing because that might not be comfortbale for you since people will be looking at you werid but if you do it in publice where nobody is around n not make it obvious that it is happening than it should be fine.

Stephy

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I'm a senior in high school, would it be weird for me to date a guy whos only a freshman?

Btw, im a 17 year old female, he's 15. I will be turning 18 in June and he will be turning 16 in August.

guys usually dont mature until they are 24ish. if you like the guy than go for it but dont expect anything serious becuase at 15 you cant handle that.especailly guys they like to have too much all the time.
Stephy

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what do girls do when they start to get sick of a guy?

we leave them alone and find new ones. ;] we pay them no attention and focus our attention to other guys.
Stephy

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Ok my friend katie likes my boyfriend when we were going out. and then we broke up and she didnt even wait 1 week to go out with him. should i tell her off or just suffer?

leave them both alone. let them be happy and find new friends. what your friend did isnt cool. that should have never happened. it would eb better for you to just let it go and do your own thing and act like nothing is wrong.
Stephy

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