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Member Since: May 25, 2010
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ive been feeling so sad lately. im crying all the time. i feel ugly and like nobody wants me or loves me. i dont want to feel like this anymore. i want it all to stop. i want to give therapy a go but i dont know how to explain to mom i think i am. i looked up the symptoms of teenage depression and it's like it's describing me. it's scary. i just want to stop feeling like this. i just want to be happy. im 14/f if that helps at all (link)
Telling your mom or a best friend would be the best idea. I'm the same age and just went through depression. Take baby steps,
1. Spend "you" time with friends and invite them to do something you enjoy doing.
2. Don't worry about what other people are thinking or saying. It can't hurt you so there's no point in worrying about it.
3. Keep yourself busy, do what you feel like doing. If you want to listen to sad songs for 8 hours straight, do it. If you want to go for a walk in he middle of the night alone, okay.

It all helps, as time passes you will feel better so don't worry.
Be happy. :)


13/f
what are you supposed to say when a guy says he like you??? (link)
I'm 14 so I might be able to help. First you have to decide if you like him or not. Is he someone you like as more than a friend and can picture your self with? Well if he is then tell him that you like him. You aren't Dating so it's okay to tell him over a text or something. Talk, hang out, learn more about him and see where it goes. :)


i have really thick hair its about 4 inches below my shoulders...does anyone have any ideas about how to get it either curly or wavy? (link)
I would say after showering in the morning, put leave in conditioner to make it smooth and easy to work with then brush it out. Then part your hair like your going to put it in pigtails and use a handful of moose and scrunch each side. After, you an either wait a while for it to dry or you can blow dry it. It will be curly and easy to control. Works for me. :)


hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on??? (link)
I'm close to that age and I would say yes, that is definitly a good thing. :) girls love it when guys take care of them. Even when they can do those things themselves, they like It when they know a guy cares enough to do it for them.


Im 16. female. my friends have bfs. its killing me because i have been practically begging for one. im not desperate though, i mean i have standards and stuff. my friend calls me picky and i know i wont be able to find a perfect guy...but i dont want a perfect guy, just somone who is perfect for me. i just want one so bad. it seems like a juvenile problem i know, and i know i have plenty of years ahead of me for that but this yearning wont freaking stop! i want someone to love me and make me feel special. but there is no one around me that i want. so...i guess what im trying to ask is either how to get rid of this empty feeling i have and depression, or something. i dont really know. (ps. ive been asked out before. ha i kinda made it sound like no guys have ever liked me but they do. i just havent liked them back. (link)
I agree with you completely and I think that is the worst feeling in the world. about a week ago I gave up looking and felt like it wasn't going to happen for me. then this really amazing guy I've known for a while but never really thoght of him that way asked me out, when I said yes is was completly amazing. My advice would be to stop looking and just be yourself, you will never know if I guy likes you for who you are unless you can be yourself around him and he likes you anyway. Good things happen when you least expect it. :)


hey. my name is evan. im 15 years old and a freshman in high school. i have been diagnosed with malignant melanoma which is a skin cancer for the 2nd time and my chances arent to good. im tired of trying to keep the secret that im sick again. im gonna do chemo this summer but i feel like im gonna burst if i dont tell my friends. my parents said not to cause i already get made fun of alot and i dont wanna get teased about this. what should i do? should i tell my friends or keep the secret like my parents want. i just feel like i need to talk to someone. thanks for the help.
evan (link)
Well, I have never had a skin disease before but I have been in situations where you don't have any one to turn to. Everyone out there has someone they can tell their secrets to, so my advice would be to find that person and be yourself. :)




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