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Okay. I'm fifteen and once I told my ex boyfriend that I will NEVER get a hickey cause I think they are nasty and gross. Sooo... we broke up, long story, and he was telling his baseball team about this and then he said he'd give whoever gave me a hickey first twenty bucks. The baseball team does stupid bets like this alllll the time. Well now guys are trying to give me hickeys! Like two of them just came up behind me and started sucking on my neck! It was disgusting! Three of them have asked me to hook up and basically all of them have started texting me. One of them even said he'd split the twenty with me if I just let him give me one. I told my ex he needed to call this stupid thing off but he doesn't give a shit so... What am I supposed to do?? Please don't tell me to just "wait for it to blow over" cuz I don't wanna do that! And please don't tell to "go tell a parent or coach" because I don't wanna stir shit up. Thank you! (link)
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hey im 15 to. my name is evan. i just want to tell you "waiting25"s answer is very wrong. there are other ways to deal with these guys. if you want you can even have them arrested. but if you punch them you could end up in jail. but please dont hit us men junk. its not funny, its extremely painful. you feel like puking when it happens. men dont show pain usually but they show it when that happens that shows how much it hurts us. what im saying is - handle this a different way. if you are being assaulted and hitting a man there is the only option - do it but please only if its necessary.
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how do i get away from an annoying brother. cause he stresses me out (link)
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hey my name is evan im 15. i have skin cancer for the second time and i have an older brother. i just want you to realize no matter how annoying your brother is you need to treat him nicely. the same thing that happened to me could happen to him. you may want to get away from him now but if something happens to him i promise you, you will regret trying to get away from him and wish you spent more time with him.
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I am a 17 year old male from PA. I have a younger brother of 15. He completely manipulates my parents to think he does no wrong (actually had my mother say this to me) and I get all the blame. And the kid is a real jerk. I mean class "A" moron. And I just don't know how to get him to stop or to get my parents to see the truth. I have tried telling them and I still get yelled at. Please somebody help me. (link)
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hey. my name is evan and im 15/m. first off, people who are 15 arent kids so dont call your brother a kid. maybe the problem is you talk to him like he is one. second just be nice. you dont know what might happen to your brother. im having some pretty shitty things happening to me and you may some day wish you didnt treat your brother the way you do. my older brother treats me like crap and even hurts me even tho im not really in condition to fight him back. just realize your brother may not always be there so treat him nice and dont take him for granted
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I aboslutely cannot stand my family. My brother annoys the crap out of me and I always get really mad when he's around. And my Dad is just like him, but worse. My Mom and I get in fights every day about the stupidest things. I can never be around my brother and Dad for more than 5 minutes at a time or I get super annoyed or really pissed. They know what they're going is annoying me and pissing me off, but yet they just keep doing it. More and more. They make fun of me, gang up on me and do whatever else they think of to piss me off. I've honestly gone to the point today of breaking down and crying in my room for hours because of them. I just can't handle it anymore. I don't like them. At all. What should I doooo? (link)
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Hey my name is evan. im 15/m. i know how u r feeling. i havent always gotten along with my parents. a few months ago i found out i have a skin cancer for the second time and im going through chemo. even tho i never got along with my parents i dont know what id do without them now. your parents care about you. you may just not see it. at the end of the day they love you and care about you. you are their world even tho they dont always show it. i can relate to you with the brother issue to. my brother (17) is extremely annoying to me also. hes also very physically abusive also even tho im not in verry good shape right now. i get hit by him alot most times in places men dont wanna be hit. but i realize even tho he physically and emotionally hurts me, he cares about me and he loves me. so what im saying is give your family another chance. tell them whats wrong and know that they love you and they do care about you even if they dont always show it. even your brother =)
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Hi,
I am 17f. I have an older bro whos 19, a jerk,an asshole,a verbal abuser,and a player. He got my only friend (who obviously wasn't my friend) to turn against me,decide to backstab and lie to me, so he could date her. He now sucks faces with her in front of me when he comes home on weekends,flirts,and sometimes has sex with her in the basement (eww..). Lets just say I don't have any respect for either of them.. but my mom AND my sister totally love this girl. My mom treats her like the favorite daughter she never had (at first I thought it was my sister who was the favorite since shes the baby but now im not so sure..), listens to her more than she ever does me, invites her over for supper consistantly, and invites her to all our family gatherings. I can't stand having this girl who did all these horrible things to me being treated so nicely by my family of all people. No matter what I say or what I feel,it goes in one ear of my mom and goes out the other.
Just the other day,my brother was verbally abusing me to the point of extreme frustration. He called me an 'asshole,bitch,dumbass' etc (he is an immature child who plays killing video games for eight or more hours when he is home). I decided to say something to defend myself. I said 'stop being hater' and his response was: grabbing my arm hard,twisting,leaving a bruise on it,and laughing. It really hurt and because of being tired and a bit depressed from being verbally abused constantly,I realized I was going to break down,went to the bathroom and started crying in front of the mirror. Its just frustrating when all of this happens on a regular bases.. I went to the bathroom because I know that if he sees me with a tear he will just verbally abuse me more,then i will be more sad,my mom will find out,give him heck,then he will come after me again (saying Im a tattler and such).
So, this is a day later.. My arm is a little sore when I move it, I can feel the bruise as I type. It is not bad, but I feel as if this is not necissary at all. The thing is I can't really do anything without being attacked because everyone is on his side cause hes older (except my mom,who he hardly listens to).
Heres my main problem though: This Saturday, I booked off work to go to my grandmas for our family christmas, and my mom made sure that my asshole brother is coming and my 'so called' friend is (of course) totally invited too. You do not know how much hurt I feel inside of me just looking at her or him. There is this deep balled up feeling within my chest that says 'im frustrated' all the time when they are here. The problem I have with her is that I really need loyalty in my life. I have had no other friends besides her (I have grown up with kidney failure), and seeing such mistrust is killing me. I am a very loyal,honest person. I know I should let it go,try to ignore,and move on..but when its living in your day to day life,how do you excape it? I really don't want to go to this christmas thing,because for the last couple years I have been getting this same balled up feeling whenever I even have to be in the same room as them. They are the definition of betrayal.. and that is an ultimate no in my world.
More than anything I need someone whom I can trust.. and who will love me. I don't know if I should go to this gathering.. I will be going back to my grandmas anyhow a few days after that during the holidays for several days.. but I don't know if I can ride four hours this saturday in a vehicle with my brother and 'her' sucking faces,my sister cheering them on,and my mom. Its just a frustrating situation. Do you see where I am coming from? Should I go? Please help
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Hey my name is evan and im 15/m. i understand your problems with your brother. a few months ago i found out i have skin cancer for the second time. my brother has never been nice to me either. he physically hurts me all the time even tho i dont always deserve. sometimes ill be standing around minding my own business and he will come up and punch my junk just for the heck of it. he also will punch me in other places and he will also do other things school bullies do. he also teases me about cancer. the thing is i hated him before i found out about my illness and now i dont really like him but i realize i love him. hes my brother and even tho he really hurts me to the point that i cry and even puke sometimes, i love him. so give your brother a chance and explain to him how you feel. he may not be nice but i think deep down you will realize you love him too and i bet he feels the same way about u. i hope this helped
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Right. I'm British, 12 Male and I got an after-school today. Incase you didn't know, an after-school is a detention that is put on your permanent record and is regarded as some kind of disgrace, anyways I've been on loads of sites and they all say 'Tell you parents honestly and be mature' or 'Rip up the letter and say you were finishing a project.' To be quite frank, none of these work I need an amazing, brilliant excuse that will fool parents. Something that isn't obvious and I don't want tell your parents crap. Please respond as I am URGENT!! (link)
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Just be honest with your parents. im 15 and i know what its like to get a few detentions (all were nothing serious just like being late or using my phone) once i got in a fight tho. but anyway i found out that if u lie to your parents u r gonna end up in more trouble cause chances are - they will find out you are lying. the school could call your parents or they could run into the teacher somewhere. Youre better off just telling your parents what happened. almost all students get a detention once in their lives. what did you do anyway?
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This summer I really want a nice tan so I can go back to school looking good, but I can't tan outside because I always burn or I don't get tan at all! I really want to get a membership at the tanning bed but I'm only 15 and my mom says that the tanning bed will give you skin cancer. Well i know all this and the sun gives you skin cancer too, so I don't see why I can't just go to the tanning bed. My older sister who's 19 goes to there and my mom doesn't care (well because she's old enough to on her own), but I don't know what to do. I just want a nice tan :(
By the way you're so great at giving advice! Keep up the good work! (link)
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hey my name is evan and im 15 to. be careful i have melanoma for the second time and am going to start chemo next month. the doctor theres a good chance im dying from it. i did chemo the last time i had it and if i live i will never be able to have kids cause of the chemo. u need to think about the risk and the possible side effects you are putting yourself at when wanting to tan. be careful and good luck
~evan n
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