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Okay. I'm fifteen and once I told my ex boyfriend that I will NEVER get a hickey cause I think they are nasty and gross. Sooo... we broke up, long story, and he was telling his baseball team about this and then he said he'd give whoever gave me a hickey first twenty bucks. The baseball team does stupid bets like this alllll the time. Well now guys are trying to give me hickeys! Like two of them just came up behind me and started sucking on my neck! It was disgusting! Three of them have asked me to hook up and basically all of them have started texting me. One of them even said he'd split the twenty with me if I just let him give me one. I told my ex he needed to call this stupid thing off but he doesn't give a shit so... What am I supposed to do?? Please don't tell me to just "wait for it to blow over" cuz I don't wanna do that! And please don't tell to "go tell a parent or coach" because I don't wanna stir shit up. Thank you!
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hey im 15 to. my name is evan. i just want to tell you "waiting25"s answer is very wrong. there are other ways to deal with these guys. if you want you can even have them arrested. but if you punch them you could end up in jail. but please dont hit us men junk. its not funny, its extremely painful. you feel like puking when it happens. men dont show pain usually but they show it when that happens that shows how much it hurts us. what im saying is - handle this a different way. if you are being assaulted and hitting a man there is the only option - do it but please only if its necessary.
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hit them in the nuts. fight back. tell them that you'll bite their nuts off.. trust me act like a nut job and the guys will back off. act tough. be tough
matter of fact his you ex in the nuts
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I'd tell their coach, personally.
He's not going to tell their parents or stir up shit. He'll bitch them out though. I know when I was in football, if a girl had said something like that about team members we'd have been crawling on all fours up and down the field for two hours, with a threat that it'll get worse if she says anything else has happened.
You could always ask him to as well. Tell the coach that your ex is responsible so the rest of the team gets warned and he gets punished (and laughed at by the team) for instigating.
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Make sure it's the head coach. Head coach isn't going to tolerate that, he's got the team reputation among the staff to maintain, and you can drop the line "I didn't want to have to go to a counselor" to make him think "harassment charges" instead of "harmless mischief"
That'll get his serious on, and then those guys are going to be unhappy for a few practices.
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I think that you should tell someone about it, because someone needs to put a stop to this. Tell your ex to be reasonable, because this is so immature. If you don't want to go to an adult then go to the source who started it. By taking care of the start of the problem the rest will stop to. Stand up for yourself and tell your ex off.
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Wow overall I think this thing is very immature. Guys need to grow the hell up and stop fucking around. You need to stand up for yourself, and tell them off. They need to stop before things go to far. Do whatever you can to get them to stop, I really do think you should go to a parent about this because do you really want it to get worse? It won't stop until you or someone else puts a stop to it. Think about it? They won't give up until they give you that hickey, it can and maybe will get worse than that. Do something, tell a parent use self defense to stop it if you have to. I personally don't believe in vilonce but if something like this was happeing to me, I'd defend myself.
Good luck, and I hope I helped.
-Emily <3
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