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boyfriends who cheat
Hello my name is star im 16 years old I have a boyfriend named daniel and I feel that he's cheating on me with his ex girlfriend everytime he's on aim on my phone and I ask 4 my phone he quickly signs off I caught him twice calling her babe but he claims there just friends what should I do I really have feelings 4 him???
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i think he is a cheater.If you really like him you neeed to talk to him and tell her striaght up how you feel. you shouldnt deal with him if he seems like her is hidding something or is stuttering than you know he is lieing. Let him go. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Stephy
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He's a cheater.
He may not be "Dating" her but he may be "talking" to her or having sex with her.
I dated a guy for 2 years and we broke up, months later he started dating a new girl, I was the "ex" He would talk to me on myspace, he would txt me constantly calling me babe and stuff. We weren't dating, We were still having sex though. His new girlfriend was kind of just like you, she grabbed his phone and read some of his txt messages. And a couple times she deleted me off his myspace. I was still the "ex" thoughh. That wasn't changing. You may have the privalige of being his "girl" but if you think about it,
He's just as much hers as he is yours.
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Sounds like he's cheating. Sounds like you already know it. Don't sell your instincts short. Trust yourself. Your brain is telling you what your heart doesn't want to hear. Don't let yourself be used. Your actions teach other people how to treat you. If you let your boyfriend act shady with other chicks and yet you're still with him, how does that teach him to treat you in the future? Think about it.
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I think it's a definite possibility that he may be cheating on you. I may not be an expert on boys, but I do know that if a guy is in a relationship, it's unusual and a little uncommon to call other girls (especially their ex) babe. I've never heard it before, but every guy is different, so I really don't know, but that seems very off to me.
If you suspect he's cheating, you need to bring it up with him. Sit him down, tell him how you feel, and ask that if he is cheating, to just be straight up with you. If he isn't committed to being with you, then he should tell you now so that you can go about your business - as a single girl.
You don't deserve to be cheated on, and he surely doesn't deserve you if that's the case.
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