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Name ; Consuelo Montez.
Age ; 14.
Birthday ; August 6thh 1996.
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Location: Sann Diego, California
Age: 14
Member Since: February 28, 2010
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Last Update: October 19, 2010
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Hey so I was at a b~day party and I was dared to ask Seth {my crush at the time} out on a date. So I texted him and he didn't respond. So now I've moved on to like another guy that is my bestie and I love him more. How can I tell him that I don't like him anymore? (link)
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Umm , First off you can't LOVE a guyy off the bat,
I mean c'mon you don't even really like the guy, obviously it wasn't love.
But you don't have to do anything about it. Move on to the next guy, it'sz just that simple!
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My boyfriend and I are sexually active. The sex is alright, but I noticed he has never gone down on me, although I frequently go down on him. So today I called him out on it, "I said do you not go down on girls?" He said that he didn't, its something that girls should do, but for a guy to do that for a girl is not acceptable.
This is the only way I can get off, but I don't think he really cares. How do I get him to stop being selfish in bed? (link)
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Heres a suggestion,
Don't go down on him anymore!
Atleast untill he figures it out that thats what you want him to do!
Give him hints!
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18/female. A few weeks ago, my ex and I hung out. We were with a group of people at first, so it wasn't just us two alone. But at one point, he asked me to go for a walk with him, so we could talk about stuff. I was completly fine with this because we hadn't talk about stuff in a while, and we stayed pretty close friends. So we started talking and I started to get a bit upset, the stuff we were talking about is a little personal and hes the only one I could talk to about it. But anyways, he said he was going to give me a hug cause he didn't want me being sad. So after he hugged me, he kinda just stared into my eyes for a few minutes. And I just started to giggle and said "what!?" and he replied with "I've just really missed you." Then he started to inch closer, and he kissed me.. we ended up making out.. but anyways, the problem is were both dating someone, and I feel really bad.. not only for my boyfriend, but also for his girlfriend. I really want to tell my boyfriend, but it will break his heart, even... (link)
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You may think NOT telling him is the best thing to do because you'll hurt him, but keeping it from him is gonna hurt him even more.
Imagine if he'll find out like maybe a year later that you cheated hows he gonna feel then? HURT. either way hes gonna get hurt. So telling him now is whats best.
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My boyfriend asked me tonight if I was a virgin because he is and has never done anything at all. We've been dating on a couple weeks and I didn't know how to answer it though. This is why:
I've gave a few guys head
I've been fingered A LOT
I had anal twice
I masturbate like once a day
I never had like...sex sex, you know? Like the making babies kind LOL. You know what I mean. Does that mean I'm a virgin? (link)
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Your still a virgin! Unless the penis goes in the VAGiNA then your still a virgin! hah
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I have a boyfriend that no one but me and a couple of really close friends know about. Ive made out with him, but never went "all the way". I kinda don't want to, but its all he talks about. What should I do? (link)
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Do NOT go to far if it's not what you want to do. Do whatever you want, and you said you kinda don't want to. Well then don't. and if you feel thaaat overwhelmed about it then cut him loose!
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what is the best way to ask someone out and or tell them how you fell? (link)
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Start a conversation, Get flirty, Then let them know!
:)
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ohk i was suppose to stay the night at my friends caitlyns but i ditched and went to some guys house there i had sex smoked weed and my best friend got beat the fuck up by some drunk bitch .the next morning cops r looking all over for us they find us my friend goes to juvi and her mom goes to jail those guys that we had sex with told us they were 16 but they were really 19 and 20 .i had to take a pee test came up positive now i have more shit added to my record .my life is a living hell hole and i might get sent to juvi again .wtf do i doo? should i run away? (link)
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Well, I got one question?
What the fuuuck happenedd to the guys?
But wow, Kinda been through similar shit.
Do NOT Runaway It only makes things worse.
If your really that upset about things, Then stay in your room, sleep all day, Don't talk to anybody til things are done and over with! Or maybe tell them ya know i'm tired of all this bullshit i made a mistake oh well. Just ask them to get the fuck off your case!
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ive been getting drunk and making out with a lot of guys nothing serious or crazy but recently i got very drunk and made out with this boy and gave him head.
i feel so weird about it because i think the guy hates me and its making me feel queezy.
i have no feelngs for hthis boy, in my eyes it was jsut pure fun, but to him i guess it was something bigger i dont know.
we havnt spoken since and i dont even want to just im left with this really awful feeling.
i feel like i was punched in my stomach i dont know what to think.
how do i get rid of this feeling and why is this boy thinking so much?
he was also drunk and had free choice!
i know im being kind of vague but hopefully someone could help me (link)
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This doesn't make you a whore!
Just like you I get drunk like every weekend, And I make mistakes also, I Have Gone farther, But I don't Consider myself a whore. I read this book and it says that alcohol does affect your sex life, So it doesnt make you a whore. Things just happened, And hey everything happens for a reason. You can go ahead and keep doing what your doing just try to keep your limits.
If you feel like your getting too drunkk then quit drinking.
(:
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I was raped a few months ago. I was a virgin and the guy knew that. I just feel so empty and confused all the time now. My parents know and I see a counselor, but nothing really helps this feeling go away. I have a lawyer and they're trying to get something done, but so far nothing because my last detective chose to believe the guys over me. I just don't know how to shake this feeling or move past this. I don't know what to do. Advice? (link)
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Well, I agree with the person under me. Honestly I can't say I understand because I haven't been in your position. But I know that your never going to be able to forget this. And talking to a counciler usually makes me feel a lott worse about things.
Sometimes keeping things to myself helps a lott more. Maybe eventually you'll take it off your mind. Since it was kind of recent you probly won't be able to get it off your mind for a while. Let time go by and take it from there (:
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I met this guy at a party and we completely clicked.(Not it like a 5 second moment but we actually had a lot in common) We talked the whole night while all our friends did their own thing. He asked me to come the the beach the next day and got my number. He texted me the next morning about the beach but something had come up so I told him i couldnt go. I told him we should hang later that night and he said sounds good. I texted him around 7pm and he told me he couldnt hang b/c he ended up staying pretty late so we didnt end up hanging out which is fine. I hadnt heard from him for about 3 days then he added me on facebook which i guess means something these days. Anyways he adds me then doesnt say anything so me being the straightforward impatient person that i am wait like 2 days and then text him to come out with me and my friends to a bar. He tells me he is prob stayin in becuase he has to leave early for a wedding. I respond well if you would like to hang for a little we will prob have a couple drinks before hand. Then he DOESNT RESPOND. Nothing doesnt even say no thank you or something...its been like 2 days now and nothing! Is it a lost cause? (link)
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I'm Thinking you should give it time!
Txt him or something and start a conversation,
And ask when he wants to hang, Let him pick a date, and if hes not making any kind of effort then who needs him?
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Okay so... I believe in being abstinent until marriage... but I've had oral sex with about 6 guys, 3 of which I was not dating and 1 that was in (is in) another relationship. Do I feel bad about it? um yeah.. I'm 19 and I feel like 6 guys is way too many, i'm actually ashamed to even tell my friends they think its 4 or 5. So advice anyone? (link)
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It's not really too many, but keep your limits. make sure your not going waaaayy too far!
And hey its your business not your friends. you don't have to tell them anything! If your anything like me you HAVE to tell somebodyy, then tell somebodyy but maybe just one friend, somebody you trust! I'm Never able to hold my stuff in!
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okay this guy i know moved to florida a couple of months ago. today we were chatting and catching up and he asked me to send him pics (just g rated pics!) to see how much ive changed over the months. everything was great. he was being really nice and cute....until he got the pics.... once he saw them he was like "oh wow, you did change... ok i gotta go bye." wtf? (link)
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Really? What was the point of that?
Hes an idiot, forget him!
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Me = 17/m
Her = 16/f
Dating = 3 yrs
I want to tell my girlfriend the truth about me cheating on her recently. There was this girl I knew all through school and she texted me one day and asked if I wanted to hang out. I feel so guilty because I was attracted to the girl for a long time but never acted on it before. I did meet up with her and lied to my gf about it, telling her I was going to go down the road and look for a job. I met up with the girl and I told her upfront I had a girl already. Things still happened and I KNOW I am to blame for this because I couldn't be a man and control myself right. We didn't have full sex but it was pretty close at one point before I was like "Hey, I can't do this" and all.
How do I come clean with my girl? I don't want to just be like "Hey, I cheated on you" because I really am hoping she'd forgive me and give me another shot at this. What do I say? How do I tell her I cheated? (link)
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Guys these days!
Well the guy i was in love with NEVER admitted he cheated on me!
i knew he did though!
So your best hope is to tell like maybe call her, I know it may sound stupid to like use the phone to tell her when you should be a man and tell her in person but it just makes it a lot easier for you and her! So call her and tell her you need to tell her something, then tell her what you did and with who. Theres a 50 50 chance she'll forgive you and won't.
But MAYBE she'll have respect for you because you told her, i know i would have had a lott more respect for my ex if he would have told me, instead of hiding it. Hope i helped.
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my boyfriend and I are at the point where we just fight all the time. I dont know why. I say he pushes me into theses fights, he says im too confrontational etc. etc. blah blah. Its just stupid and we keep creating more problems. It isnt fun anymore. I dont know what to do. Does it sound like maybe we should just move on? Any advice please. (link)
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Maybe you should talk to him, ask him why you guys fight a lot, and ask him if he loves you and still wants you, Ask him and if he doesnt make effort then just be done!
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What are some good songs to play during sex? My boyfriend and I like all types of music, so anything to put us in the mood is good. thanks :) (link)
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Haha, Nice question!
I'll name some of my favorites, although I'm not really sure you'll like them.
Avant - Makin' good love.
Kieth Sweat - Nobody.
504 Boyz - I can tell.
Marques Houston - Everything.
Marques houston - Sex with you.
Pop it off boyz - Beat it up.
Pop it off boyz - Scream.
Asia cruise - Lovers and friends.
Well Avant, and Kieth Sweat have some of the best songs!(:
* Hope I helped.
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ok well me and my boyfriend are both 14 and we had sex (wich is really bad) but now im pregnant and havent told my parents how do i tell them (link)
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Have you told him yet?
It's best if YOU tell your parents. Which parent are you closer to?
I was 13 and prego, I had a misscarige, but I didn't want to tell my parents that I was prego. Soo I ranaway from home. I stayed with my friend and my mom came looking for me and my friends mom sat down and talked to her and told her I was prego. My mom told my friends mom to tell me to call her. So I called, She was pretty chill about it. She wanted me home and she said that she was going to try to understandd, she wanted to help me. My dad on the other hand, said he didn't want to talk to me and called me a tramp. But when I got home he put his arms out for a hug and he started crying telling me he loves me.
They bothh were trying to help me! they were supportive.
If your closer to one parent then you should sit down and talk to that parent. Tell them you had sex for the first time and now your pregnant. You don't have to tell them about your sexual history because hey it only takes one time to get pregnant. I didn't want to tell my parents because I didn't want to talk about my sexual history, but then I realized I don't have to.
It all worked out good.(:
Sit down and talk, the sooner the better.(:
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is my 3 inch penis normal p.s. im 14 male (link)
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* Not Normal.
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Hello my name is star im 16 years old I have a boyfriend named daniel and I feel that he's cheating on me with his ex girlfriend everytime he's on aim on my phone and I ask 4 my phone he quickly signs off I caught him twice calling her babe but he claims there just friends what should I do I really have feelings 4 him??? (link)
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He's a cheater.
He may not be "Dating" her but he may be "talking" to her or having sex with her.
I dated a guy for 2 years and we broke up, months later he started dating a new girl, I was the "ex" He would talk to me on myspace, he would txt me constantly calling me babe and stuff. We weren't dating, We were still having sex though. His new girlfriend was kind of just like you, she grabbed his phone and read some of his txt messages. And a couple times she deleted me off his myspace. I was still the "ex" thoughh. That wasn't changing. You may have the privalige of being his "girl" but if you think about it,
He's just as much hers as he is yours.
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I had sex over 3o times and still havent had an orgasm. Why is that? (link)
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It doesn't matter how many times you've had sex. Somebody's just not pleasing youu. Sometimes you had an orgasm and you just didn't know it. You'll expierence it soon (:
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Well at the beginning of the year me and my friend liked the same guy so me and some kids from school went out to eat and he was there so my friend likes to seduce people...i went to go get something to drink and when i came back they were KISSING!!! Now i feel like i can't trust her. How can i stop holding a grudge against her about this situation?Also everyone including her brother,sister, and cousin told her that she was wrong for doing that to me (link)
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I've dealt withh this mannnyy times.
Don't hold a grudge over a boy. it's not worth it trust me. && youu should understandd that youu guys BOTH likedd him. Youu probablyy wouldd have done the same to herr. Justt get overr it. guyss come && go, It's not worthh losingg a friendshipp (:
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