I met this guy at a party and we completely clicked.(Not it like a 5 second moment but we actually had a lot in common) We talked the whole night while all our friends did their own thing. He asked me to come the the beach the next day and got my number. He texted me the next morning about the beach but something had come up so I told him i couldnt go. I told him we should hang later that night and he said sounds good. I texted him around 7pm and he told me he couldnt hang b/c he ended up staying pretty late so we didnt end up hanging out which is fine. I hadnt heard from him for about 3 days then he added me on facebook which i guess means something these days. Anyways he adds me then doesnt say anything so me being the straightforward impatient person that i am wait like 2 days and then text him to come out with me and my friends to a bar. He tells me he is prob stayin in becuase he has to leave early for a wedding. I respond well if you would like to hang for a little we will prob have a couple drinks before hand. Then he DOESNT RESPOND. Nothing doesnt even say no thank you or something...its been like 2 days now and nothing! Is it a lost cause?
Secnegurl1123 answered Wednesday October 20 2010, 1:36 pm: O hell no okay sweety this is what you need to do okay you need to like get him to either come to your house or go to his house and have a little talk wit him okay and if that dont work okay now its time to chop someones d*** off okay because no one talks to a home gurl like that okay now do that or you can go to a club or bar and do the same thing okay but if that dont work then skrew him you dont need a man to make you happy peaces gurl. [ Secnegurl1123's advice column | Ask Secnegurl1123 A Question ]
MissYMelisS answered Monday October 11 2010, 2:35 pm: Hes not interested. Move on. Forget about him. Find someone worth your time. You put yourself out there and he hasnt bit, so just end it. No point in trying to get with someoen who just isnt trying to get with you. You dont want to look desperate. [ MissYMelisS's advice column | Ask MissYMelisS A Question ]
dearcandore answered Monday October 11 2010, 12:00 pm: Don't contact him anymore. The ball's in his court. If he hasn't responded then chances are he's just not that into you. No big deal. His loss. Yes, it stings a bit, but look at it like this - you're not wasting any more energy on someone who doesn't think you're as amazing as you probably are! [ dearcandore's advice column | Ask dearcandore A Question ]
ConsueloBabyy answered Monday October 11 2010, 12:43 am: I'm Thinking you should give it time!
Txt him or something and start a conversation,
And ask when he wants to hang, Let him pick a date, and if hes not making any kind of effort then who needs him? [ ConsueloBabyy's advice column | Ask ConsueloBabyy A Question ]
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