Member Since: October 20, 2010
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Last Update: October 20, 2010
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F/16 I have this amazing boyfriend who I've been dating for 2 weeks. I like him, but only when I'm with him. I partially think it's because I'm still hung up on my ex. All I can think about is my ex, and how I want to be with him. Just a few months ago I was with my ex, until some things happened that screwed us up. Now I'm dating this other kid, and he's my first boyfriend since my ex 2 years ago.
I do like my current boyfriend, but when I'm with him and we're alone things are sexual and I don't like that. Whenever I see him in school all I can think about is wanting to be with my ex instead of him. He's such a nice guy, and I do like him, it's just I know I would rather be with my ex and that's all that would make me happy. I sometimes feel if I could just get my ex to actually reject me then I would be able to put my feelings aside and would realize how good I have it now.
I don't want to lose my boyfriend, but I just feel like it's the wrong thing to stay with him while I have such strong feelings for someone else. He knows about my ex, and how I used to feel, I don't know if he's aware I never lost those feelings, but..he knows about him. So it's not like my feelings are a complete secret.
I just don't know what I should do, should I stay with my boyfriend? Try to get back with my ex? Talk to my ex and realize he doesn't want me? Just back off from boys all together until i figure things out? Idk, I just need some sort of help. (link)
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If you really like your ex and you and your boyfriend arent that great then brake up with him and date your ex.
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okay. so im a 14 yr old female and im a freshman in high school. Well, i was at this party one of my friends had and i got high and hooked up w 2 guys and had oral. then, everyone called me a slut at my school. but soon i really didnt start to care. all of the girls were jealous i think. then when i walk down the hall if theres a guy they either slap my a$$ or squeeze my boob. so after that i went and me and this other girl (that i hate) we started to masturbate together in her bedroom. we did oral and we made out. she licked my boobs and said i was a wh0re and a slut. she then started to slap my a$$ and we both got really horny. so she called up a couple of guy friends that recorded me and her like "doing it" then the other guy starts to give me oral. thats video taped too. he licks my vag and my boobs and the other guy was recording all of it. they put the tape online and showed everyone in my school. i got suspended. and they all still laugh at me. there were a couple of girls that put slut on the back of my shirt and they wrote in marker on my locker. i really didnt care that much but after i got really mad and got a tattoo that said "I'm a slut, f*ck me b*tch. So everyone saw that and they didnt really say anything else.so does this make me a major slut? (link)
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Okay that kinda sounds lke a slut to me and your 14 and you did that ya thats kinds a slut. sorry
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Hi, Ive broken up with my boyfriend recently (about 2 months ago) and im having a really hard time dealing with it. He has a drinking problem and is not very "trustworthy" when it comes to faithfulness. Of course he's begged for second (and third) chances, all which ive given to him, and now he wants another one. Im being firm by saying no, and now he is turning it around on me saying he's "tried" and thats it. All he ever wants to do is "SAY" he's sorry. He never wants to "DO" anything to show me. He said nothing he ever says is good enough for me. Please help :( (link)
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Okay now sweety this is really hard to say because my sister's ex-boyfriend broke up with her on valentines day and she cried for 5 weeks straight she got de-hydrated and if your ex wants another chance dont give him one sorry to say but dont give him one.
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I told my best friend I like this guy and that he likes me and the next day she starts flirting with him. She asked him who he liked and he said her and me. She keeps flirting with him right in front of my face.. She doesn't like him but she just keeps leading him on! What should I do? (link)
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Okay one of my friends did that to me okay i finally had a little talk with her and she said " O i just did that because you like him and you arent my friend anymore" i was so mad but i told him every thing and he said he didnt like her and then they dated so i just dated his best friend.
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I've never been considered particularly attractive by the opposite sex and I've accepted that. For years I hated how I looked and it would really get me down but as I've got older, I've become alot more confident in myself. I always make an effort to dress stylishly, have regular haircuts and good make up and I'm not overweight so it's not like I'm hideous, I just can't compete with my friends.
My problem is that every time we go anywhere where there are guys, they will get alot of male attention. There have been several occasions where I've been with my friends and guys have made comments about the fact that they're attractive and I'm not. I try not to let it bother me and tell myself that guys who feel the need to make negative comments about my appearance aren't worth it but I can't help but feel disheartened. Recently it seems to be happening more and more. In the past week I can think of at least three occasions when a guy has said something negative about how I look and compared me to one of my friends.
How can I stop this from bothering me and not let their comments ruin my self esteem? (link)
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Okay the only thing i need to say is F*** THEM!!! you dont need to have anyone telling you you dont look good if you belive you look good =).
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me and my ex are great mates. his 18th is soon and i want to do somthing unqiue and fun with him.
ive looked at getting his nipple peirce ( his mum took that idea)
- lazer tag
- getting indian takeout and going to the drive ins.
-luna park (theme park)
but i have no idea what to do i dont want to spend a fortune ...
got any ideas (link)
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You need to take him lazer tagging that's always a good friendship place to pretend to "kill" each other so take him lazer tagging.
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I met this guy at a party and we completely clicked.(Not it like a 5 second moment but we actually had a lot in common) We talked the whole night while all our friends did their own thing. He asked me to come the the beach the next day and got my number. He texted me the next morning about the beach but something had come up so I told him i couldnt go. I told him we should hang later that night and he said sounds good. I texted him around 7pm and he told me he couldnt hang b/c he ended up staying pretty late so we didnt end up hanging out which is fine. I hadnt heard from him for about 3 days then he added me on facebook which i guess means something these days. Anyways he adds me then doesnt say anything so me being the straightforward impatient person that i am wait like 2 days and then text him to come out with me and my friends to a bar. He tells me he is prob stayin in becuase he has to leave early for a wedding. I respond well if you would like to hang for a little we will prob have a couple drinks before hand. Then he DOESNT RESPOND. Nothing doesnt even say no thank you or something...its been like 2 days now and nothing! Is it a lost cause? (link)
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O hell no okay sweety this is what you need to do okay you need to like get him to either come to your house or go to his house and have a little talk wit him okay and if that dont work okay now its time to chop someones d*** off okay because no one talks to a home gurl like that okay now do that or you can go to a club or bar and do the same thing okay but if that dont work then skrew him you dont need a man to make you happy peaces gurl.
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Hello i've been on birth control for about 3 years now and my husband is going to be deployed for a year and we're going to try to have kids when he comes back so i wanted to get off birth control now to help my body become "natural" again. I've been off Yaz birth control for about a month and a half now and i still havent gotten my period. Is this normal? When should i expect it? Anybody else have experiences like this? Thanks in advance!
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Okay my sister had the same problem and what she did she got off birth control and if she didnt get her period she would go to her dinocologist and they would see what was wrong with her but the only thing was that her body was so used to birth control it like stopped giving her a period for like 2 months and it scared her so she quit taking birth control for about 2 months and now its natural again.So my best advice is dont take birth control for about 1 maybee 2 months.
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