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i want to what r weeds ? what do they do ? how is it harmful to our body ? is it illegal to use ? (link)
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Well, 'weeds' are usually wild plants growing where it is not wanted and in competition with other plants to get the nutrition of the soil.
But, there is also something called 'weed' or 'marijuana.' It is a drug that affects someone mentally and eventually physically in negative ways, and is highly addictive. It is illegal in most places.
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So my friend told me she thinks she has an std and that there's yellow stuff in her underwear what should I do to help? (link)
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Go get tested yourself is the first step. Then question her.
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Okay... I am doing this for the very first time but nevertheless probably my last try at self help..this is 26 female.
I am the edge of insanity.. i am in a very troubled relationship.. married for 5 years now.. My husband doesn't earns a penny, doesn't allows me to go and fetch for myself, hes got a loan of 500000$, no child. hes constantly fighting, he rendered me homeless on 3 counts, but then took me back. right now m homeless again, living in motels of the money loaned from friends. I'm planning to divorce him, but he wont let me go. I have given him enough chances. but i am not sure what i should do next. suicide seems the most appropriate. PLZ help. ANYONE! (link)
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first off. DO NOT COMMIT SCUICIDE! That is a big no!! Go to the cops, tell them your situation, They can most likly direct you to an agency supporting women trying to get out a abusive/threatning relationship.. Or stay at a friends house. Worst comes to worse, Go to your parents untill you can get enough money for a restarining order agenst him, then get a divorce.
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what is the best way to prevent scars when you cut yourself? (link)
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I sugest you don't cut anymore. But as I know its hard not to, since I've done this myself.
What I did was stop the bleeding, but antibotic ointment on it, rub it in till its not that oily. Get ice, put it in a rag and set it there till my arm was cold.
It reduces the scars somewhat. Put antibotic ointment on it everyday,untill the scars fade some and there is no redness or stinging when you run your finger over the cut(This only works on the ones you would currently do, not old scars)
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Okay I know that my boyfriend loves me and he hasn't ever said anything. But I am the type that gets jealous easily. Idk why??? Idk how to stop either. Just over stupid things like him hanging out with a friend or even family. PLEASE help. I try to just bite my lip and not say anything. I don't want to be the jealous girlfriend, and I don't want to feel like that.
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Well sit down and talk to him about it. Im guessing your uncousiously just scared of losing him. Jelously(if you realy love somone) is just a form of enxiety (of losing them) Explain that to him. Tell him that you don't want to be that way, but you just can't help it. Hope this helped (:
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I am 21 and my boyfriend is 22. Him and I had an on and off relationship back in 08 till 10. We broke up for good for about 6 months a while ago. Him and I started dating again because we felt like we have worked out our problems. While we were broken up he had sex with Shannon and karen and I had sex with 1 guy who was my new boyfriend. While me and him started hanging out again I knew he did things with these girls because he told me.
While him and I were together Karen kept calling him and left a message saying “fu*k your gf and come see me.” so after this incident he stopped talking to her. I met Shannon at a football game where he didn’t introduce me and she didn’t talk to me. The next time I saw her was at another football game where she said hello and talked to everyone else but me. The third time was at the movies where not much was said being we were at the movies I understand that but when we left her and her friends trailed in front of my bf and I. The last time I saw her was at a party where I met my bf best female friend and I was very kind and friendly to her and Shannon was there and ignored me.
I told my bf before we started dating I didn’t like the idea of him still talking to girls he recently had sex with but I still allowed him to because its something I had to get over and couldn’t be jealous over. But they messed up and I told him I didn’t want to be disrespected and that’s how I felt. So he stopped talking to both of them for the past couple months because he agreed with me that what they did was wrong.
Recently we have been fighting about Shannon. Shannon and my bf go to school together so im sure he sees her around and talks to her for a bit. But today he asked me what we should do about it if he talked to Shannon again. I am very furious with this because I was treated bad but he doesn’t see it like that anymore. He says I was shy (which I am) and that I didn’t make an attempt to talk to her which I find false. he says that he knows her personality and shes not like how I described and that I am shy and I don’t talk to people and etc.
So am I being jealous? Do I allow this? Do we break up? And please just be honest with me because I know sometimes people on this site are very kind and wont be harsh but I have to handle the truth so please give me the truth just don’t be too harsh I guess. Thank You
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Well, he thinks your lieing. From my point of perpestive anyway. If hes talking to her at school, then she has to be telling him things. Im also guessing he brought this subject to her at school. I think you should ask him along the lines of this >'Did you ever think she acts all sweet around you to get you?' and sit down and talk to him about this, your feelings and his/ I know this probably isn't alot of help. but i hope it works out (:
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I'm 19 and a female. ok so every friday nights my best friend wants to hang out with me she's a girl too. And I have a boyfriend as well and they don't get along at all for a lot of reasons so they don't talk.
It seems like every friday they always plan to hang out with me the same time and it really sucks because I can't choose who I want to be with. Sometimes I hang out with them both or just one of them on fridays. It becomes a big disaster in the past because they want to hang out with me. Sometimes I hang with my best friend and I tell my boyfriend and he gets mad because he wanted to be with me but then he goes and does his own thing. If I tell my best friend I'm with my boyfriend she will get mad and do her own thing.
It's just really stressful because sometimes I lie to them and hang out with my boyfriend for a couple hours then go hang out with my best friend. And sometimes it's the other way around. I try to treat them the same. I just don't know what to do anymore. Because they always want to hang out with me fridays. I need help on what to do. Because there's been a lot of arguments with my best friend and boyfriend whenever they want to hang with me and I have to say no I'm hanging out with (best/ or boyfriend). I just want them to be happy. I hate turning them down. Fridays are so dramatic for me please help! (link)
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Well, you should sit down and talk to both of them about it.
I sugest that it be sepratly since they both don't like eachother. Explain the stress its putting on you.
If your boyfreind and bestfreind realy love you,and wish to stay with freinds/boyfriend with you, the'll understand.
I know this is practical, but you could work it out to where you have set fridays for each of them.
Like one friday you hang out with your boyfriend, then the next your hang out with your bestfreind:
Or you can hang out with your boyfreind on friday then hang out with your bestfriend on saturday then do it the opisite way the next week. I hope this helps. bye (:
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So long story short: I'm 18 years old and sexually active. I always use protection, as in condoms. 2 months ago I went to a doctor to get birth control. I wasn't supposed to start taking it util this month when I got my period. But it's 12 days late. I haven't had sex since the end of October, and I've taken 4 pregnancy tests a couple days apart. All of them came back negative. So I'm really not sure if I'm pregnant, or what could cause my period to be so late. Going to my doctor or telling my parents is not really an option.So thats's why I'm asking for some advicce. But if I don't get it inn the next week or so, I will try and make an appointment to get looked at from a doctor. Anything would certaainly help a lot. (link)
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Well keep trying the pregnancy tests, and by the end of two weeks or so, make a doctor appointment just to make sure
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So I like this guy. He's one of my really good friends. He's 18 though. I guess its not too much of an age difference. Well I've liked him for over a year. I had a boyfriend for 10 months and still had a small crush on my friend. After we broke up a few months ago me and my friend told each other we liked each other. So I was pretty happy and kinda amazed. We would text all the time but we didn't exactly talk about anything with us so I kinda just assumed he didn't really like me anymore. He's leaving for college in a couple months anyway but it's not like I'll never see him again.
Well I started liking a guy at school and this guy asked me out and I said yes. So then my friend was all mad and stuff and I got confused. We worked it out though. I'm not sure what I was thinking, I mean I still liked him but I guess I wanted to get over him if he didn't like me so I decided to go with a guy I kinda did like?
Me and this guy have been together for a couple months now. I am not over my friend. My friend and I have made out before too so it really doesn't help when I'm just sitting there thinking. I really do like my boyfriend, so much, it's just it seems like I either won't let myself get over my friend or something.
Well, me and him are still cool and everything. It's just he likes someone else. I am extremely jealous. He said he still likes me but I can so tell he likes her way more. It'd totally be hypocritical if I got upset for him liking her since I like another guy.
I messed it up with him big time. I mean we could have had something in the future, I do know that. I can't turn back though. So what do I do? I've been trying so hard to get over him, we don't really text anymore, just every once in awhile. It hurts really bad.
I also want to know why it's actually hurting this much. I mean when things didn't work out with other guys, I've never sat there and cried forever. But with my friend I was like in tears and it really hurt. It still bothers me when I think about it.
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Well first off, tell your boyfriend that you still like him or love him (witch ever you prefer) alot and say you need some time to sort things out. Then tell "your friend" what your feeling, and tell him your not mad at him for liking the other girl at all but that you are jealous.... and you really wanna talk about this. and go from there.
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Hi i am fifteen years old and my boyfriend and i have just started performing oral sex. i gave him head today and we dry humped a lot. his penis is curved upwards so its easy to with clothes on. anyways, he was wearing underwear and jeans and i was wearing underwear and jeggings. i don't know if he cummed but he deff pre cummed in his underwear while we were dry humping. i straddled him a lot and then i laid down and he went on top of me and humped me a lot. again, his penis is curved upwards so like i could feel it in there but not completely becuase we wre wearing clothing. i thought that we were for sure good/protected cause of our clothes but i was changing into new sweats and i discovered a wet stain in the back of my underwear where my butt is and i freaked out jumped in the shower and scrubbed my vagina with a wash cloth with soap and i made sure that i washed my hands before. i then changed my underwear. is it possible for me to be pregnant because i really don't want to i'm only fifteen ten years ago i was five.. hahaha but a lot of people think it's just butt - cum if there is even such thing. no, he did not dry hump me from behind. my friends think that i was cumming and it dripped to the back or it came from my butt what do you think oh yeah and i've only ever gotten my period twice in my life. the first time was in jan. when i was 13 and the second time was a year later in jan when i was 14. do you think even if it did get in it would be harder for me to get pregnant because of how irregular i am? easy 5 points (link)
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Don't worry, your not pregnate, i know this sounds nasty but he would have to cum inside of you, even if he did get alittle come into your vagina it wouldn't matter because it takes along time for sperm to travel into your place where the egg would be. and you said it was only in your underwear
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My ex boyfriend Nick broke up with me last April. I was left completely heartbroken. One day he told me he didn't love me anymore, that I was too moody for him and he ended it. I was SO upset, I did so much for him.
I started hanging out with a guy called Kyle, who I'd met a few months before just as friends. Any way I ended up really falling in love with him. He knew things ended badly with my ex and he was really there for me. We started dating and everything was so great, my parents loved him and his parents loved me and more importantly we both loved each other. More to the point, Kyle started to question being together as the stress we'd both been under (it started effecting our relationship) I didn't give him much time to think it over, I pretty much ended it straight away.
Now my ex Nick is back on the scene... saying he misses me and that he hopes we can can work things out. Can I really trust him not to leave me broken hearted again? (link)
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Honestly, you should sit down ans talk with him. tell him what you felt when he broke up with you, and tell him your not playing around and this isn't a game. Tell him he has to prove that hes not just saying that.
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Okayy well i have this boy in my school and my bus and i like him and he really likes me and all. Last year he asked me out but i said no because he did things that could ruin peoples live ( drink, Drugs) and im on the right track and i plan to stay on that track!! But the thing is He told me he doesnt do those things anymore for me i part of me thinks he is lying and part just want to run into his arms but mY Friends made a excellent point to me he has nothing going for himself and That isnt part of my right track plan. Im a Straight A student who is also a very talented athletic person i play many sports and so does he. I thought his grades was the deal breaker * Its a No* But two days ago he told me that he is going to try and work harder and do better. I still have a strong feeling that he is playing me just because he likes me. I want to maintain my grades and talent but i like him. Im a 16 Year old Girl Who is Very Confused. Usually in my school my advance classes the boys( my Ex's are extremely hot and smart but jerks There is something different about him i mean its not his looks Because i dated plenty hotter. He isnt stuck up he is funny Not like the guys i usually date. He is ALso TWO years older than me so my think he wants to get in my pant so to speak but i dont cause he knows i never let him i would see pigs fly before that happens. YOU SEE HOW CONFUSED I AM??? Ughh I need ADVICE, ANYY TOO GIVEE :) (link)
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Well, im just going to say go out with him.... simple as that. keep your grades up and keep doing sports, keep everything on the 'right track' but you can still date him. andif he does try anything in the same catagory as 'getting into your pants' tell him no, and say your not that type of girl. i mean kissing is fine, but don't be stupid and let him put his hands up your shirt or have him feel around your body... don't tell him " no i won't have sex with you" right when you start dating cause that would be wierd. but just don't let him do anything like that to you, becaus then he'll think you want to go to the next level. like i said, kissing, holding hands, and the simple stuff is fine.
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19/f there's this guy i met, who works at the library near where i live. well anyways he was helping me with my paper, and he would come upstairs and then he stayed and we started talking. well anyways he added me on facebook. and i wasn't sure if i should add him because my nosy older brother loves to go on my facebook and ask me who is that and all this non sense. well i finally to just accept his friend request, and he started talking he goes to college and he's getting his masters i think. and he's 27. well anyways he messaged me and was like mhmm i knew you would accept me and he asked me what i like to do for fun and he told me what he does for fun. and then on facebook chat like a day later we talked again. and i asked him why he added me and he said he thinks i am an interesting person. then he messaged me like an hour ago and asked me to hangout with him. i am not sure because one he's older than me, two my parents don't let me date at all, and three we're Indian and since he knows one of our family friends i am afraid he might tell her and she'll go tell her mom and then she'll tell my mom and the whole Indian community. so yeah i mean he's cool and i kind of want to go, but i don't know. i can't convince my parents to let me date. and they know about the stuff I've done with guys in the past. so that's another reason, and i know what i did was wrong and now i don't do that stuff anymore. but they can't get over it, and i know other Indian kids whose parents let them date. what should i do? please help! (link)
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Well, i don't know anything about indian culture... but usualy your and adult when you turn 18 and your parents have no say about what you do... anthough if your living with them, witch im guessing you are, they could kick you out if they get mad enough. Anyway, it depends what you did with guys in the past also. Have a serious talk with your parents, ask them directly why they won't let you date. If they tell you its because of what you did, tell them you've changed, your not that kind of girl anymore.(only if thats true) and if they still say no, just tell them " ok.Im sorry you can't trust me, i guess i failed you as a daughter" or somthing like that... and if your parents have any heart they'll most likely give you some sort of break and let you hang out with him. -Mariah
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