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Boy Trouble
Okayy well i have this boy in my school and my bus and i like him and he really likes me and all. Last year he asked me out but i said no because he did things that could ruin peoples live ( drink, Drugs) and im on the right track and i plan to stay on that track!! But the thing is He told me he doesnt do those things anymore for me i part of me thinks he is lying and part just want to run into his arms but mY Friends made a excellent point to me he has nothing going for himself and That isnt part of my right track plan. Im a Straight A student who is also a very talented athletic person i play many sports and so does he. I thought his grades was the deal breaker * Its a No* But two days ago he told me that he is going to try and work harder and do better. I still have a strong feeling that he is playing me just because he likes me. I want to maintain my grades and talent but i like him. Im a 16 Year old Girl Who is Very Confused. Usually in my school my advance classes the boys( my Ex's are extremely hot and smart but jerks There is something different about him i mean its not his looks Because i dated plenty hotter. He isnt stuck up he is funny Not like the guys i usually date. He is ALso TWO years older than me so my think he wants to get in my pant so to speak but i dont cause he knows i never let him i would see pigs fly before that happens. YOU SEE HOW CONFUSED I AM??? Ughh I need ADVICE, ANYY TOO GIVEE :)
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Well, im just going to say go out with him.... simple as that. keep your grades up and keep doing sports, keep everything on the 'right track' but you can still date him. andif he does try anything in the same catagory as 'getting into your pants' tell him no, and say your not that type of girl. i mean kissing is fine, but don't be stupid and let him put his hands up your shirt or have him feel around your body... don't tell him " no i won't have sex with you" right when you start dating cause that would be wierd. but just don't let him do anything like that to you, becaus then he'll think you want to go to the next level. like i said, kissing, holding hands, and the simple stuff is fine.
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Hey,
First of all, stop worrying!
If this guys really in to you, which i think he is, he could change. People always say people don't change, but that's not necessarily true. I mean he could be one of those guys that could change because they're inspired by the girl they like. And you could be that girl! The girl that changed him, right? I'm not saying get your hopes right up, but set a good example for him. Make sure he knows whats right and wrong. If you like him, go out with him, and if you see any signs that he's still doing drugs and drinking then dump him. You never know unless you try, so give it a shot!
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